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I can't agree enough with what FG and Espy have already said.

Wow. I can't believe he'd actually suggest marrying you temporarily and trying to get you pregnant on top of it, only to divorce you and leave you? WTF??

This guy is seriously screwed in the head and you deserve so much better. I'm happy to see that you aren't falling for this load of BS. The BS is piled so high, it's over your head.

Keep your chin up. You'll find someone so much better for you. And just take your time and work on you and the rest will follow.

Cyber HUGS coming your way!!

 

Yay me!!! All by myself heh. Thank you Espy. :smt049

Absolutely!
Lmao! I wish I could tell him that about the dog and hookers and stuff, but I'm not going to write him back.

I really like that. "Never make someone your priority, when they only make you an option."
I'm sticking to it!

I know, WTF? Yep, I decided he's insane or something. I am keeping my chin up. And taking my time and working on me and know the rest will follow and I will find so much better like I deserve.

 

I'm sorry to hear this B25....

It sucks that he had to take it there. Trying to play on your vulnerability.

You're a strong soul and I know you'll get through this...

He'll regret all this later on....

 

I know it's late, but I'm so sorry, love.

Don't worry about him. You can just be with me. <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

I need to start emailing you! -_- I just have such little time I can never seem to find the oppourtunity. Keep your chin up, love, and feel free to drop me an email if you ever want to talk. It may take me a while to respond but I will make it a priority!!!

 

LoL, I didn't want to unbury this again, but I can't give you rep again so soon. So anyhoo! I'm over it/him, but you know my e-mail address and I'd like to hear from you. I'm not on yahoo a lot either, and I've been keeping some strange hours lately, but I'll try to check my e-mail more.

 

I greatly understand your sentiments, by and large. Normally when people undergo the transition to adopting a new faith or belief system, they often "invigorate" themselves with the hospice of spirituality. So, they would try and share their beliefs, without realizing it's an intrusion of someone person's space due to lack of consent or irritation. It's like that even within the Evangelical Christian community. But how to counteract all this? You could consider the following:

1. Taking the "Open Palm" route and just give him a listen about, but politely decline the offer to become a Muslim with him. Explain to him that you still want to be friends, but at the same time, he has to respect your space. Explain that by doing that, you're less likely to grow ever so distant.

2. Take the "Closed Fist" route and simply keep the friendship at a distance. It may come off as being harsh, but the results would only allow him to get the idea that you don't want to hear it. It could help him open up to your emotions, and in return "moderate" his viewpoints on it all.

 

Thank you Wisey, but it's already taken care of.

 

Hehehe, I knew it was old. But I hoped to get some two cents in with it.

 

I see, consider your two cents gotten.

 

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I feel loads special!

 

Ooooo! :smt038

 

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My Spiritual Liege...would those bubbles suffice or more is on demand?