Getting you know you. (top 45 speed date questions)

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Ymra, Sep 21, 2010.

  1. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    1) What do you do for work? -

    2) Where are you from? -

    3) What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know?

    4) When was your last relationship and how long did it last?

    5) What are you looking for in a relationship?

    6) What do you think is the most important value in a relationship?

    7 ) Do you want to marry or have you ever been married?

    8) What do you look for in a husband/wife?

    9) Do you want/do you have any children?

    10) What do you do for fun? -

    11) What are you most proud about?

    12) Is religion important to you?

    13) Do you follow politics? Are you a Democrat or a Republican?

    14) Do you believe in love at first sight?

    15) What is your most treasured possession and why?

    16) What is your favorite month of the year and why?

    17) Which is your favorite book/movie?

    18) Which is the last book you read?

    19) Which is the one job in the world that you would love to do?

    20) Which is your favorite music and your favorite singer/band?

    21) Do you like animals/keep pets?

    22) How do you spend your spare time?

    23) Where do you see yourself in five years time?

    24) If you were an animal in the wild, what would you be?

    25) Do you believe a cup is half empty or half full?

    26) If you could travel back through time, what single mistake would you correct in life? What are the deepest regrets of a person?

    27) You have got six months to live, what will you do first?

    28) Is sexual compatibility important to you?

    29) Who was your hero, as a child?

    30) If you won a lottery, how would you spend your millions?

    31) Which was the first crush you ever had?

    32) What makes you laugh/cry?

    33) If you have friends coming over, what would you cook?

    34) Describe your perfect holiday.

    35) Which T.V. program would you never miss?

    36) What is the last CD you bought?

    37) Are you a morning person or a night person? We will never spend common time.

    38) Would you like to climb a mountain or trek across a desert?

    39) What adjective would a close friend use to describe you?

    40) If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?

    41) Into which personality’s shoes would you like to step for a day?

    42) Who is you favorite actor/actress/celebrity and why?

    43) Who is your favorite sportsperson?

    44) What is your favorite sporting activity?

    45) Which is your favorite genre of movies - comedy/thriller/action?
     
  2. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    Long ass questionnaire....

     
  3. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    question 46 from pecs....


    do you have any nude pics, and if yes...can i have one...???
     
  4. Espy

    Espy New Member

    I'm thinking speed dating is definitely not for me! I wouldn't answer about half those questions, and I have no answer for quite a few of them as they just aren't applicable at all.
     
  5. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    For example?
     
  6. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    woo hoo
     
  7. Espy

    Espy New Member

    I think it will be easier to pick the non-applicable questions, or those to which I don't really have an answer and just address those. So here goes:

    3) What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know?

    There is no one thing I want you to know, I'm not a one dimensional person.

    5) What are you looking for in a relationship?

    I'm not looking for anything. I'm more a see where it goes type of person. I don't like operating with any preconceived notions.

    11) What are you most proud about?

    Nothing, I really don't indulge in pride in anything.

    15) What is your most treasured possession and why?

    Don't have one. If everything I own was destroyed, I'd just start over, and I wouldn't mourn the loss of any one thing.

    16) What is your favorite month of the year and why?

    Don't have one, I'm actually surprised people have a favorite month.

    17) Which is your favorite book/movie?

    Don't have one, I like too many to narrow it down to one, or even five favorites.

    20) Which is your favorite music and your favorite singer/band?

    Don't have one, too many to choose from, and what I like depends on my mood.

    23) Where do you see yourself in five years time?

    Alive I hope, beyond that I really don't have any idea

    24) If you were an animal in the wild, what would you be?

    I wouldn't care to be a wild animal, so choosing one is a mute point.

    26) If you could travel back through time, what single mistake would you correct in life? What are the deepest regrets of a person?

    I wouldn't travel back in time, I wouldn't change a thing, and I have no regrets.

    29) Who was your hero, as a child?

    Didn't have one. My grandfather was my favorite person, but that never rose to the level of a 'hero' since he was the person who told me never to idolize anyone, and that included him.

    35) Which T.V. program would you never miss?

    There isn't one. I have several I like, but I can take or leave all of them.

    41) Into which personality’s shoes would you like to step for a day?

    I wouldn't.

    42) Who is you favorite actor/actress/celebrity and why?

    Don't have one.

    43) Who is your favorite sportsperson?

    Don't have one.

    44) What is your favorite sporting activity?

    Don't have one.

    45) Which is your favorite genre of movies - comedy/thriller/action?

    Don't have one, the only genres that don't appeal to me are horror and romance.


    I think responding in this manner would likely illicit more questions than answers, and thus would be counterproductive. Honestly I'm just not big on asking a lot of questions, there are a few I'd want the answers to right up front, but generally I'm content to allow people to reveal what they like when they feel comfortable doing so. So as I said, speed dating is clearly not for me. :smt042
     
  8. LadyBlaze306

    LadyBlaze306 Active Member

    1) What do you do for work? I'm an esthetician. Which basically means I do pedicures, manicures, gel nails, facials, relaxation massage, body stuff basically. All day in a salon. with women. Fun.

    2) Where are you from? Canada. Specifically? Saskatoon, SK, Canada.

    3) What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know? Uhm. I'm bipolar. So anyone who wants to be friends or be involved with me has to be used to the crazy.

    4) When was your last relationship and how long did it last? This pas December '09 to July '10. 7 months total.

    5) What are you looking for in a relationship? Uhm. Trust, honesty, humour...time spent with me?

    6) What do you think is the most important value in a relationship? Trust.

    7 ) Do you want to marry or have you ever been married? Want to be married yes. Haven't been. Apparently I fail at relationships :(

    8) What do you look for in a husband/wife? Compatibility....Trust...wanna be with me till I die. You know.

    9) Do you want/do you have any children? I dunno if I want. I'm still deciding :(. I don't have any children.

    10) What do you do for fun? I go see movies. & shop. Hit the club ONCE in a while. That's about it.

    11) What are you most proud about? Graduating college & getting a career.

    12) Is religion important to you? To a point.

    13) Do you follow politics? Are you a Democrat or a Republican? Haha I'm neither. I'm Canadian. So that makes me...Conservative Party.

    14) Do you believe in love at first sight? I do actually.

    15) What is your most treasured possession and why? Most treasured? uhm. Diamond ring I won a year & a half ago from a bar competition. Believe it or not.

    16) What is your favorite month of the year and why? hum. i honestly don't know. Not the winter months tho.

    17) Which is your favorite book/movie? Fav book? Hmmm. Probably the series by Mary Janice Davidson, about this woman named Betsy who becomes the queen of vampires. Very witty, very funny & very cool. :) As for fav movie? Damn. That's a hard one. I love a lot of asian ones though. Curse of the golden chrysanthemum, Shaolin soccer, Legend of the black scorpion....

    1 Which is the last book you read? Right now I'm reading one called Ghosts. All about paranormal phenomena & shit. Tho I don't really believe it.

    19) Which is the one job in the world that you would love to do? Love? Own my OWN damn salon. I mean I love my job now as it is but don't like that I work for people.

    20) Which is your favorite music and your favorite singer/band? Well my fav used to be rock. Now it's hip hop & dancehall & soca. Favourite singer? Favourite rapper is Ludacris...Fav singer...uhm. Dunno :( & fav band? right now it's My Darkest Days.

    21) Do you like animals/keep pets? Yes. Sadly I'm allergic to pretty well anything with fur. But I have a pretty pretty snake. She's my baby.

    22) How do you spend your spare time? Internet...Forums..Tinychat, skype, oovoo. Read sometimes & do puzzles in a book. :)

    23) Where do you see yourself in five years time? I honestly have no idea. I wish I could say but who knows. My life always goes topsy turvy on me.

    24) If you were an animal in the wild, what would you be? As much as I love snakes probably wouldn't wanna be one...Bobcat more than likely. Them lil fuckers are nasty but small just like me!

    25) Do you believe a cup is half empty or half full? Just half. Half.

    26) If you could travel back through time, what single mistake would you correct in life? What are the deepest regrets of a person? :\ Honestly, I'd love to say but it's very personal so I can't...I wish honestly I could take my sex life back tho. I was stupid when I was young.

    27) You have got six months to live, what will you do first? Visit my cousin in jail for sure...Try & travel the world & meet anyone I've been close with in my life that I have never met from the online world.

    28) Is sexual compatibility important to you? Hell yes.

    29) Who was your hero, as a child? As a kid? goodness I don't know. Jesus Christ?

    30) If you won a lottery, how would you spend your millions? i would definitely travel the world & visit everyone I could from FB/forums/twitter that are close. Go to the caribbean, go to Japan, etc...

    31) Which was the first crush you ever had? geez. I dunno. I can't remember that far back. I do remember my first LONGEST crush was my brother's best friend that grew up with him. He was grenadian/african & cute as hell. Always came over to the house to play video games & I'd always find a way to hang out with them.

    32) What makes you laugh/cry? Sarcasm makes me laugh What makes me cry? sad movies.

    33) If you have friends coming over, what would you cook? I wouldn't. Fuckit, I'm ordering out!

    34) Describe your perfect holiday. Somewhere far away where I could shop & party & do touristy things!

    35) Which T.V. program would you never miss? There's a lot...but Criminal Minds is first.

    36) What is the last CD you bought? uhm does Itunes count? Cuz if so, it was Bad News Brown. If not...Uhm. Seal. His latest.

    37) Are you a morning person or a night person? We will never spend common time. Evening/night. Not a morning for sure.

    3 Would you like to climb a mountain or trek across a desert? NO.

    39) What adjective would a close friend use to describe you? Unique.

    40) If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? If I could? without any worries etc? I'd stay here in Canada...but in montreal or TO & if not, I'd definitely move to the US.

    41) Into which personality’s shoes would you like to step for a day? Rich people's!

    42) Who is you favorite actor/actress/celebrity and why? Fav actor: Michael Clarke Duncan. Mainly for his performance in comedy & in Green Mile. He's versatile! Fav actress: Hum. That one is hard. I really don't have one? To be honest.

    43) Who is your favorite sportsperson? I don't watch sports

    44) What is your favorite sporting activity? Skating, both figure & speed skating.

    45) Which is your favorite genre of movies - comedy/thriller/action? ACTION BABY
     
  9. satyricon

    satyricon Guest

    Shorthand is for people with no game.

    I'm not going to revive the Cult of Saty, but there are definitely lessons to be learned from it.

    Who is your favorite sportsperson? Magic Johnson.
     
  10. Brittney

    Brittney Well-Known Member

    I thought it was Kobe?
     
  11. daydream16

    daydream16 New Member

    46) Spit or swallow?

    lololol... jk
     
  12. Tirkah

    Tirkah Active Member

    Ok, so, brilliant question. But are you gonna answer it?

    Where in Canada are you from?
     
  13. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    Magic is seen as the greatest Laker ever. It's no surprise.
     
  14. daydream16

    daydream16 New Member

    NS, you?
     
  15. Tirkah

    Tirkah Active Member

    Manitoba.
     
  16. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    .....
     
  17. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    You lived in Japan? Cool. How was it?
     
  18. daydream16

    daydream16 New Member

    1) What do you do for work? - I don't. I go to university full time.

    2) Where are you from? - I'm serbian and croatian, and was also born there.

    3) What is the one thing about yourself that you would like me to know? I'm awesome :p

    4) When was your last relationship and how long did it last? 1.5 years or so

    5) What are you looking for in a relationship? Spontaneity

    6) What do you think is the most important value in a relationship? Selflessness

    7 ) Do you want to marry or have you ever been married? I'd like to try that out lol.

    What do you look for in a husband/wife? Lots of stuff. Being a good person though mainly.

    9) Do you want/do you have any children? Yes I'd like to have maybe one child.

    10) What do you do for fun? - Guitar, Music, MMA, Hang with friends

    11) What are you most proud about? I push myself to succeed

    12) Is religion important to you? No.

    13) Do you follow politics? Are you a Democrat or a Republican? Politicians all lie.

    14) Do you believe in love at first sight? Not really.

    15) What is your most treasured possession and why? Guitar and amp because they're expensive and I need them lol.

    16) What is your favorite month of the year and why? August cause that's like the only time you can swim in Canada.

    17) Which is your favorite book/movie? Book: Secret Life of bees and The lovely bones. Movie: too many

    1 Which is the last book you read? Stephen King's the girl who loved tom gordan

    19) Which is the one job in the world that you would love to do? Musician or pro athlete

    20) Which is your favorite music and your favorite singer/band? Melodic death metal and metal in general. Lots of favorite bands though.

    21) Do you like animals/keep pets? Yes, I have fish and a parrot right now lol.

    22) How do you spend your spare time? Hobbies, friends, etc.

    23) Where do you see yourself in five years time? Done school I hope lol

    24) If you were an animal in the wild, what would you be? A bird

    25) Do you believe a cup is half empty or half full? Depends on my mood lol

    26) If you could travel back through time, what single mistake would you correct in life? What are the deepest regrets of a person? Oh you know, that time I killed that guy... jk

    27) You have got six months to live, what will you do first? Skydive

    2 Is sexual compatibility important to you? Yes

    29) Who was your hero, as a child? Sailor Moon

    30) If you won a lottery, how would you spend your millions? House, cars, clothes, etc.

    31) Which was the first crush you ever had? Some guy in grade 1

    32) What makes you laugh/cry? Jokes = laugh. Cry = sad things???

    33) If you have friends coming over, what would you cook? I can't cook so I'd probably order something.

    34) Describe your perfect holiday. Away from the internet haha.

    35) Which T.V. program would you never miss? I don't watch a lot of tv so I can't answer that.

    36) What is the last CD you bought? 3 inches of blood

    37) Are you a morning person or a night person? Night.

    3 Would you like to climb a mountain or trek across a desert? Mountain.

    39) What adjective would a close friend use to describe you? Nice?

    40) If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? Finland

    41) Into which personality’s shoes would you like to step for a day? What does that mean?

    42) Who is you favorite actor/actress/celebrity and why? Clint Eastwood as of late cause he's awesome

    43) Who is your favorite sportsperson? Cris Cyborg

    44) What is your favorite sporting activity? MMA

    45) Which is your favorite genre of movies - horror/cheesy horror/ B movies
     
  19. Kushton Slater

    Kushton Slater New Member

    ...
     
  20. pettyofficerj

    pettyofficerj New Member

    talk about a time-sink

    :p
     

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