lol half reading posts then responding to them is almost as fun as posting-while-drunk i am in no way, shape, or form conceding my stance for pussy play, however... make that be known..i back down for no one
LOL, I get your point GG, but seriously I don't do any of that for anyone else, I do it for me. In fact that goes the other way too, sometimes your partner would prefer you didn't go to the gym, or changed your hair, clothes, etc. and I'm not doing that either because I don't do it for him in the first place, I do it for me. He can have some input, and I'll politely listen, but ultimately if it doesn't suit me I'm not doing it, especially if it's asinine. Edit: There are instances where I can see making a suggestion and putting your foot down and refusing to budge if your partner won't listen. For instance my sister was telling me that when she first moved in with her Ex she discovered he never brushed his teeth, in fact he didn't own a toothbrush at all! OMG that would totally freak me out. But she bought him a toothbrush and just politely suggested he brush his teeth, and eventually he was consistently brushing them 'almost every day'. WTF! That would have been a 'if you ever expect to touch any part of my body with those lips, you're gonna need to brush them at least twice a day, preferably three times or every time you eat something. She said she tried that and he just wouldn't do it. I'd seriously have moved out, course he was an all around ass, but if your hygiene is shit, I'm not sticking around, especially when it's been pointed out to that it's not a negotiable area. I seriously gag every time I think about that. But he also didn't like to shower more than a couple times a week, so he was just all around gross and nasty. She loved him though, so just goes to show there's someone for everyone... or some people put up with more than others.
If only we were in love, you wouldn't have to wonder anymore. When I use this smilie, , it means I'm kidding. I do those things for myself too. If you are happy with yourself, others will sense it and be attracted to it too.
I hear you. I do all those things for myself as well. I was just teasing the boys. I need a man to accept me for who I am, and not for something that I'm not. There's no pretending here to catch a man. What you see is what you get.
Yep, I'm a WYSIWYG too, and happily so. I knew you were kidding, but there really are folks out there that think they have to go that extra mile to 'get' someone, and then they can just stop. Why would you do that? I just can't imagine I'd be happy with me if I stopped getting manicures and pedicures, let my hair go wild, or quit working out. I seriously get really bitchy if I miss workouts, and I've become a little addicted to having my nails done too. Not to mention the thought of no more Clinique ever makes me hyperventilate. :smt042
the problem with relationships are to start with the word love. First , love is an action word and not just a feeling. love is doing something for someone else for their benefit. the person who is the benefactor should appreciate the effort. thus people make the mistake in saying relationships is a give and take but that is false. for a mature relationship it is a give-receive-appreciate- reciprocate-formula. the give-take is for selfish people and the naive.
this is how you keep her...the song spells it out for you [YOUTUBE]BBY4o26fCt8[/YOUTUBE] we are simple men. barry said like this [YOUTUBE]CrRPA25UBGg&feature=related[/YOUTUBE] yall dont know about this shit....he is talking about true old school macking
:smt081:smt081 poor FG- you talk against a wall... Once somebody told me that "unconditional and forever love" only kids can expect from their parents. Grown-up people have to prove and show. And I assume that showing love in the sense of attention, small favours and trimness is important, of course. Just because somebody loved you yesterday- you cannot expect, he loves you automatically his whole life. Love can be destroyed very quickly- as we can see every day.
Quickly and easily aren't the same thing. If the offense is great enough, it can take only a moment to completely obliterate what you feel for someone. That's probably a rare occurrence, I think it's more prevalent for love to change over time rather than cease completely at one point, but it happens... and when it does it's really a rude awakening. The fact that you stopped loving them instantly doesn't change the fact that you actually did love them.
