Nope - we are not talking about the same thing here. Do you really think a relationship will work if you stop doing anything? Really??? This goes both ways, as I said in the post. You want your woman to keep it sexy and stuff, dont lie about it. Or U ok, she starts walking aroun din mu-mus all day with unwashed hair. She got you, why make any efforts???? You just make efforts to get someone, and once you have them, you stop???? WTF? If your woman completely stopped making any efforts at all, you will eventually leave her. SMDH
You're also right GG it's a matter of definition. I also do all those things that you mention happily, however I don't ever view it as work, it's just a natural thing to do. I think as long as the two people in the relationship are operating with the same definition you're in good shape, communication is key. I gotta say though I'm so backassward all the time it seems, I'm actually encouraged and pleased by Andrae and Petty's POV on this. That there are actually men in the world who think that can come naturally and it shouldn't require effort is surprising, but pleasantly so.
no it doesnt If I TRULY love my baby, she could be blind, deaf, and 300 lbs and I would still ride or die for her i already have a full-time job..i dont need another :smt028
FG, I'm thinking that when you get with Petty and Andrae that you can quit going to the gym, having your hair done, shaving your legs, etc. You got them so why should you keep 'working' to keep up your appearance?
look im just saying...if I love my boo, i shouldnt have to grind to prove it to her. that's the kind of love I give. it doesnt fade because you didnt get that gucci handbag or get to eat at some classy restaurant... all that shit is superficial
look shorty..dont be fooled by the muscleman jock swag... if I'm in a relationship with someone I LOVE, i dont care what happens because that's what love is...love is BLIND.. i dont know what kind of flim-flam dudes you all be messing with
Exactly. Some work comes effortless, and it's not a chore to do it. I like to think that we are all on the same page, but we are having a semantics problem. LOL
Thats what I thought U meant. No I dont want someone to keep running around me to make silly efforts and treat me like Im on a pidestal and shiet- I talk about regular stuff some people just dont get they should do in a relationship. Like you said - its natural for you - many people dont think that way. I certainly dont need some fake, bending over backwards "work" as apparently Petty interpreted my post like. I dont know how U got that Petty, see above and what andrae said. They kept love alive because they didnt stop making efforts. NOT work, just regular efforts. Love will not survive if you stop all efforts. It just wont. See what ESPY posted or andrae above if Im still unclear to you, TRIXIE!!! HAHAHA
name-calling is a sign of a weak argument shorty doowhop lil'daddy loves you but sometimes u can be stubborn
Who the hell was talking about gucci hand bag and fancy restaurant?? How the hell did you get there? Thats mysterious. Did you really read what I wrote? I dont think so. I am talking about small regular things people do for eachother when they love eachother. you just need to keep doing that, say I love you etc - Im not gonna repeat the examples I wrote cuz U clearly missed it. Now go chill ur prostate in ice my lovely Trixie
Sweetheart, I believe that true love is blind, and I wasn't saying that you don't. I was just messing with you. However, I would think that you would want your woman to love you enough to continue doing all the things she was doing when you first met as far as her appearance goes. I'm not saying that you would dump her if she didn't, but wouldn't it be great that she loves you enough to want to make you happy and keep the fire alive in your relationship?
lmao i hope no one has been cosigning my posts, because I haven't really read any to formulate half-decent responses to the thread :smt109
actually there are far more important things to worry about in a relationship.. like... who's going to make my sandwich, clean my study, and fold my clothes
I love you too doorkaroonie.. but really - you missed my point with like a mile. So I was trying to re explain it. I refuse for anyone to think I need supercifial fake shit and expensive gifts to keep love alive. I couldnt be anymore low maintenace than I am. Trust me. But I think ur baiting me.
I pretty much have always dated girls who do that for themselves. I go to the gym for me. I have always believed men should be in shape and ready for anything. My woman liking it is a bonus.
See, I knew this... This is your standard MO. Good think I know that about U. Now go to the e-corner and make me some money! \I need a gucci bag
