It is what it is...

And why not...?

 

Consider for a moment that some people aren't governed by the need to control others. Some people aren't governed by the need to dominate. I like many others am concerned with being the best that I can be. But I have an earnest desire to talk to real people. That is the purpose of this thread. Any real people out there?

 

I don't think many others are concerned with being the best that they can be. I don't think many others have taken the time to stop and figure out who they truly are in the first place. We live in a society of influence and illusion. Beginning with the subconscious subtleties like the swagger in our walk or the way we talk. To the more conscious efforts like our style of dress, and our musical tastes. The majority of us are products of our environment and because we spend so much time defining ourselves or trying to fall in line with our immediate environment it doesn't even occur to step out of that line and find our own path.

Sooo yeah, generally speaking, I don't think we are so much concerned with being the best that we can be as much as we are concerned with being who we think people think we should be. And we'll never be the best that we can be without first discovering our individuality because the best person that we can be is not limited to predefined parameters... we are at our best when we are constantly evolving and constantly exposing ourselves to new experiences.

 

damn ur on pt with some shit. people dont take the time (i was guilty of this) of setting goals for what they want in life because they have not assessed what they like to do. then they dont have a plan to achieve those goals thus they are just floating thru life. they pray to G-d to give them happiness when it is them to make that decision

 

Wow, jaisee... That was deep - but also very real. And that's what I'm talking about. The truth just sounds different - because it comes from the heart. When you are not a prisoner in your mind, then you are free. Control is an illusion. Control can't get you love or sincerity - you will only get fear. But freedom allows for the continual expression of individuality...

 

Very well said

 

I'm the cruise director willing to hand over helm control at the first sign of creative expression more urgent than mine. You wanna know me? Puff-puff, pass - it's all I ask.

 

well spoken

 

Until such time as you guys meet me face to face, I guess I'll just have to upload some videos and voice samples. I'm a genuine person. I guess you guys are genuine too. But if I ever meet Espy, I'll have to slap her ass and tell her to make me a sandwich...

 

That was real mature

 

It was just a joke - but, you have to admit that you and her laid into me pretty tough... I'm not the one who reported any of those posts - by the way. Now, andrae - don't tell me that you guys can't take a little jab back... (I'm just having a little fun too)

 

Your delusions of grandeur are almost as amusing as your persecution complex. :smt042

Oh and for someone who claims I'm personally attacking them, you sure use my name a lot.

 

Easy there, tiger. You're still waaay ahead on the scorecard. That was just was just a little "love tap" - compared to the really bad things you've said about me. It's only fair - don't you think? I would like to move forward. How about you?

 

Ok let's move forward the ebeefin is getting lame

 

Really it it. We need a beef free day.

 

For the record I have no e-beef with anyone. I'm not following anyone around bitchin' about being picked on, or keeping score, and I'm sure not whinnin' to the Webmaster about personal attacks. I also don't gang up on people, or work in tandem, what is this WWE Raw? Some people apparently take the internet way more seriously than I do. :smt042

 

as if...

 

Ok. lets chill yall.

 

I sometimes have that "It is what is outlook", but that's cause I look at things honestly, yet the people around me think I'm being negative.

 

I don't understand why the two are mutually exclusive. I see a train wreck and describe what happened yeah it was negative thing that happened but I'm also giving an honest account of what happened.