No sweetheart the part that you quoted was his reply to the division of assets and who has to pay out more and replied that its mostly men since we have more usually.
When you get divorced there are usually three things to decide financially. Child support, alimony and assets. You seem to lump assets with alimony and keeping a lifestyle.
like i said boys marriage stinks just look at the statistics you wouldn't go to the store in a bad neighborhood at 1 in the morning, because of statistics, so why would you get married they can take that 'put a ring on it' mantra and blow it all to hell
honestly, am i the only one who gets irked when that song comes on? maybe i'm looking at it too literally but when you got girls, actually quoting the song and saying 'you better put a ring on it, if you want it' :smt021
Only ring you'll need to put on for me is one of these bad boys... http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3542 :smt083 For real though I hate that song and the fact that like every girl at the club knows the whole dance except me, gives me time to get a couple tequilas at the bar though. I usually like Bey though. :smt003
wait, you told me u only like rough riders ur still a baby tho...once u get some age on u, ur going to be hustlin' brothas to get married
Again I have to tap out and agree to disagree because this statement is absolutely ridiculous. You shouldn't be compensated for taking care of your kids. Child support is absolutely justified I even think the 18 % they ask for in Ny state is too little.but compensation because your court mandated to take care of your kids doesn't fly with me. You wanted custody so that means taking all the responsibilty that goes with that but once a marriage is over I shouldn't be responsible for a grown person. What if your spouse died? All insurance should be for the the kids not the grown person who btw is the kids parent too. Its ludacris but like I said I'm tapping out.
Um, so you're opposed to your spouse getting any insurance money if you die? That's a bit harsh. Unless I'm misunderstanding you, which is entirely possible cause I'm not sure your post follows hers. I don't think she was suggesting what you think she's suggesting.
Just cause you split after the divorce doesn't mean the kids don't need a house to live in and food to eat. It's for the kids not the other spouse. Andrae you get very passionate about this. Why?
Clearly you and I are not on the same page. I wasn't saying you should be compensated for raising your own children. I have always said that I DO NOT agree with alimony, if the custodial parent needs child support to provide for the children, then I have no problem with that. But marrying someone should NOT make you responsible for supporting them for the rest of their life after the marriage ends.
Thank you Chi for noticing. As for life insurance, I think Andrae meant after the divorce that the proceeds should go to the children and not the ex-spouse. I actually agree with that, if that's what he's saying. I think any life insurance should go into a trust for the kids with someone other than the remaining living parent in charge of making sure it goes to benefit the kids.
Because divorce reminds me how bs love is. Again like I said a bunch of times child support is a no brainer I think the spouse not living with the child should pay more but alimony is plain unfair in most cases because even when no kids are involved men have to pay. What sucks most is that women normally get custody and you are allowed to bound and be there for the most formative years of your childs life when many men are lucky to get every other weekend and not only do you want money for the kids but you want money for you too. That's just plain injustice in my book.