chris brown at the BET awards

Hahahahaha! You're full of it. If a woman raises her hand to a man, she'd best do so with the full intention of getting smacked back. I do have a daughter and if she hit a man and he hit her back, I'd consider that appropriate. Now fortunately she knows better than to raise her hand to someone unless they've done so first, but for those that don't, sympathy is undeserved. You don't want someone touching you, don't touch them. Personally I don't expect anyone to stand there and take abuse from anyone male or female, and I certainly wouldn't.

There is also a difference between self-defense and abuse. If a woman hits a man, whether she has the capacity to actually seriously harm him with her bare hands or not, him hitting her back is self-defense not abuse. I personally believe any physical response should be proportional, so if you get hit, you hit them back rather than completely kick their ass, same concept as not taking a knife to a fist fight or a gun to a knife fight. However, you cannot account for the other person's state of mind, so if you plan to hit someone, you'd better ask yourself if you're prepared to get your ass kicked just in case. If not, you shouldn't touch them in the first place. That goes for women the same as it does for men. This women are delicate creatures and should be handled with care bullshit is precisely that, bullshit. You want to act like a man, you better be prepared to take the hits like a man.

 

Hence my "neck rollin" statement. She be hanging out too much with her sistafriend.

 

:smt060 :smt060 :smt060 :smt060

 

GOT DARN. THREAD SHUTDOWN. shut em down shut em shut em down.

 

yep. sista girl you know whats up.

 

Yup you can hear the shit a mile away.

 

Reminds me of a video I saw today and the comments on it from the website I saw it on.

http://www.worldstarhiphop.com/videos/video.php?v=wshhBx8C6R5ry44zh78C

It really bothers me how women can talk about equality but then cry victim when a man hits her back. It was in my local newspaper recently that a woman smashed a perfume bottle over her ex's head and he attacked her back (http://www.banffshire-journal.co.uk...9/Probation_for_attack_on_former_partner.html). He was the one prosecuted. I know the woman (not personally) and she has a major temper and was always violent towards him when they argued. Some women don't realise but they make equal gender rights look like a joke when they do that.

Basically, as usual I co-sign what Espy wrote.

And for the record although I was not specifically talking about Breezy and Rih Rih it's well documented in the press (Google it if you really care) that she was violent to him throughout their relationship also.

 

Actually I don't know if he went to far or not, because I don't know exactly what happened, what his state of mind was, etc. I know this much, people react very differently to being hit, and when you factor in things like alcohol and drugs, you get a very unpredictable situation. There are some who literally lose it when you hit them, I'm that way when someone slaps my face, you can punch me and I'm fine, but you slap me hard across the face and that's it. I'm gonna do my level best to obliterate you. Maybe she pushed the wrong button and he lost it, maybe he over reacted, who knows. But had she never touched him in the first place, the whole mess could have been avoided. Hitting anyone while they're driving is insane, and really dangerous, I'd have popped her good for that too, then I'd have stopped the car and told her to get her ass out and walk home.

And as for the 'pick on someone your own size' mentality, same goes for her. She's an idiot for picking a fight with someone bigger and stronger than her in the first place. A lot of women count on men to be too well-behaved to hit them back, so they think they can get away with being inappropriate. That's crap, like LiquidSwords said, that's a double standard that needs to go away. I would never hit a man without expecting him to do his best to damage me, I'm sure not gonna expect him to stand there while I beat him, or just walk away.

 

:smt008 You know your signature just keeps improving Sugar. :smt049:smt049

 

What can I say I'm a joiner. :wink:

 

bro's need to keep their cool and flip the script on these women.

for example when a woman hit you (pull a bitch move) call the cops and then sue if you can. It is bullshit that the woman got off with attacking the dude leaving apparent injury due to an attack.

Im planning on suing my exwife for keeping my daughter away from me. the atty stated that has never been done and I replied there is a first time for everything. he also stated you may not get any money or it may get thrown out. I replied its not about the money its about sending a message. also if it down get thrown out then there you go but you have to see first.

you have to hit em the purse. elsewise they will continue the bullshit

 

I think we ran MsKourtney off

 

na na na na na na hey hey hey good bye

 

You know I actually prefer The Temptations.

 

Damn you quoted my women/woman typo LOL.

You're right though - when anyone hits ya you should call the cops. It's hard not to act on your instincts and hit back though. Fight of flight.

That's great what you're doing. I hope you get access to your daughter soon. As a single mom I would always let my son's father have access, even though he isn't the best role model. He lives real close and only sees him when it really suits him, usually every month or so and he hasn't paid one dime towards Jake. I suggested that he put the money he would be paying for him into savings for Jake's future but heaven's knows if he has. So yeah, long way of saying no matter what a mother should never stop letting her child have access to daddy unless the father is abusive or whatever. It's not fair.

I hope the case doesn't get thrown out though and wishing you the best! Your ex doesn't realise what a great father she is depriving your daughter of, it's a shame. Some women use children as a weapon against their ex for personal reasons. Argh, that pisses me off so much.

 

Who said anything about the Taliban? What are "sistagirl" talking points? It seems like you want women to act a certain way, and I'm just wondering how are we suppose to act? Can you answer the question I asked you several times? What does ladylike mean?

Considering I have never got my ass beat I don't need any advice on how to conduct myself.

 

yeah it sucks. Im planning on writing a thread on asking why women do that and how to get access w/o going to the court (you know minus the beat down on a woman. LOL) . Im sure there are better ways of doing things.

I believe people are just at times outright evil no matter what.

It really shows how low down and evil people are using the kids (man/woman) as weapons. man/woman up dont use the kids.

 

mean act mature and logical manner. act with a win/win situation in mind

 

For the record I pay my own rent and women still do not have equal rights. For example women are not paid equally for the same job. On average we make 0.75 cents for every $1.00 a man makes. Why is that a women that is strong, independent, and educated has to be classified as a bitch? These same qualities are respected in men.