I will admit I have and will continue to chubby chase

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Apr 9, 2010.

  1. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    yeah this thread has gotten out of hand. I just wanted to celebrate thick/chubby/curvy women however you want to call it because I didnt think they got the props they deserved. This wasnt suppose to be a put down on thin women either because I like them too. I guess you can say Im an equal opportunity lover. LOL
     
  2. Liquid Swords

    Liquid Swords New Member

    Defo and it was a great idea for a thread but things always go off track here.
     
  3. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Yeah, can we all just get along
     
  4. whikle

    whikle Well-Known Member

    LS, I don't think I ever put anyone down in my arguments, that's not my style... I also find skinny girls attractive as well as curvy ones. There's beauty in a lot of different packages!

    And the "real" woman thing is silly, you're right. Obviously we're all real women, I think it just stems from every day women comparing themselves to supermodels or celebrities with stylists and personal trainers and whatever else... As in "real" women have cellulite and blemishes and bad hair days etc... We can all be airbrushed beauties from the magazines n
     
  5. AdventurSum

    AdventurSum New Member

    yep yep! :D
     
  6. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    I dated a guy that was slightly on the chubby side. I can deal with most body types as long as it doesn't go into an extreme. Skinny is fine but not when it's going towards the anorexic type of skinny, athletic is fine with me but I don't like body-builder type of athletic and I also like chubby but not obese.
     
  7. AdventurSum

    AdventurSum New Member

    good deal. props on that.
     
  8. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Im with you on everything you stated.
     
  9. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

  10. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    You're really keeping these chubby/BBW threads alive.
     
  11. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    if ll cool j pulls his back lippy would be more than happy to use her magic fingers to help sooth his pain...that man is hotttttttttttttttt:smt060
     
  12. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL. Its an interesting topic to me for some odd reason.
     
  13. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    The odd reason is that you troll and enjoy it.
     
  14. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

  15. goodlove

    goodlove New Member


    wtf ?? How is that trolling ? Because I think this is an interesting topic it is trolling ? Put up the definition of trolling then see if it fits .
     
  16. goodlove

    goodlove New Member


    only in hollywood they will call her overweight. as a matter of fact here is a transcript of the joy behar show talking about so called overweight. here is the transcript from 30 apr 2010:


    STORK: Well I worry about -- Ian, you`re on fire today. But I will say this, I wouldn`t even say less than two to three pounds a week. It`s not a race.

    BEHAR: Even less.

    STORK: There is so much of what you see on TV is -- it`s a race. Let`s lose as much weight as possible.

    BEHAR: Right.

    STORK: If you are losing a half a pound, a pound a week, working your way towards a healthy weight, it doesn`t matter how long it takes to get there.

    BEHAR: Yes but a lot of these people are 300, 400 pounds overweight. They don`t want to lose a pound a week, they`d go crazing.

    WARNER: Well let me just say if you`re morbidly obese or obese and you drastically change your lifestyle and your eating habits and you start a workout program that`s even an hour a day, you are going to lose five to ten pounds per week. Wouldn`t you agree?

    STORK: Absolutely.

    WARNER: There you go. That`s more of a safe guideline.

    SMITH: But here`s the deal, they need to tell people that the weight loss you`re seeing is not realistic for most of America. Instead they are sending out a signal if you can`t lose this volume of weight, then you`re failing and therefore all the efforts that I am doing and others are doing who are trying to preach healthy weight loss are being, you know, reversed. I think it`s a bad message. And by the way, someone will get hurt on this show.

    BEHAR: I think so, too.

    STORK: I disagree. I disagree with you, I think seeing five to ten pounds of weight loss per weight week sends the wrong message. And you`re telling people that if you are not losing five pounds a week, that you`re failing. And that`s not truth.

    BEHAR: But she`s saying that if you are so overweight -

    WARNER: I`m saying drastically -- that`s right.

    BEHAR: If you cut out one thing, you will lose weight.

    WARNER: Yes. It happens. Clients every day go through this process safely.

    STORK: But what I`m saying is for those people, yes. But what I am saying is if you`re 20 pounds overweight --

    WARNER: I didn`t say that, I said morbidly obese. If you go from morbid obesity to a healthier lifestyle. But look, I disagree with Ian respectfully because I think that any show, this show has brought to light so many things that are positive in terms of getting people talking about weight loss and obesity and all of these issues.

    SMITH: Yes but Jackie including all the e-mails I get because they want to come on celebrity fit club because they gained all the weight back. I mean here -- my issue with the show is very simple, let people know that this is a very small test case.

    WARNER: It`s a controlled environment.

    SMITH: Exactly. No one can live like this, that`s all I`m saying. It`s fun television by the way. But as far as being like the guidelines for people to lose weight, this is not the way to go. In fact, most dietitians agree with me.

    BEHAR: All right, let me try this also, there are new studies which I read today I believe in the "Wall Street Journal" that say that a woman in a certain age I guess who is ten to 15 pounds overweight should stay like that, that it`s better for you, it`s healthier and you will look better also as you get older and don`t get that drawn look. What do you think about that, Travis?

    STORK: Well I wouldn`t say if you`re necessarily healthier. But I think if you look at all of the data it`s more important to be fit than the perfect weight.

    BEHAR: Well they say exercise and work out a bit.

    STORK: These are people though who are maybe ten pounds quote-unquote "overweight." Which - what is the ideal weight, I never figured that out but these are people who do look after their health, they`re in general eating right, and they`re active and I think more importantly it means they`re getting throughout and exercising the cardiovascular system. It`s more important to do that than to be quote unquote "thin."

    BEHAR: What do you say to that?

    WARNER: My grandmother used to always say, Jackie, as you get older you either sacrifice your face or body. And there is some truth to that. The more lean you are and if you`re extremely fit and athletic, you do wrinkle a little bit more in the face.


    BEHAR: Yes, well you there`s -

    WARNER: And if you have that sort of soft fat, it does kind of deage you a little bit.

    BEHAR: Jackie, there`s always Botox. Let`s get real.

    (LAUGHTER)

    BEHAR: But you know, it`s interesting, they talk about subcutaneous fat and I think the other thing is visceral fat. Visceral being around here which is bad for you. I find that very interesting, subcutaneous, in the butt and in the thighs. And it is healthier. And yet, magazines really celebrate the other body. They really do believe that the skinny on the bottom with the big bosom is on the top is the ideal figure. It`s not the healthy figure.

    WARNER: Yes, no it`s not.

    SMITH: Well see Joy, you got to talk to the brothers about this. The brothers for a long time -

    BEHAR: I know.

    SMITH: Have said that you know, a little ba-dunk-a-dunk is a good thing. But no, seriously Joy, here is the idea, ten and 15 pounds overweight is not going to increase your risk for all these kind of health complications. It`s when you`re obese and morbidly obese that`s a problem.

    BEHAR: Right.

    SMITH: And you know Travis is so right. What is the ideal weight? Ten or 15 pounds? That`s not bad ought all.

    BEHAR: The studies are saying that it`s better to be 10 or 15 over. I mean every week it`s something new, thanks everyone. Thank you very much.
     
  17. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    LOL you just got caught in the big girl's self-esteem crossfire ;)
     
  18. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Now you begging for a problem lol
     
  19. TheHuntress

    TheHuntress Well-Known Member

    :smt011
     
  20. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL
     

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