Can I ask men a question?

Nope - HATE games and chasing.. or mystery or any of that bullshit.
If a guy does that to me - that will make me walk away as sure as the sun rises.
COMPLETE turn-off!

 

Explain to me about not being a challenge because when I hear challenge I think of games. You know they like you and you like them.I shouldn't have to chase you if you want me. My saying is either you want me or you don't. Making me chase after you only means you don't want me.

 

Its a weird woman thing. I know girls who don't mind having sex with a dude they don't know to well as long as they find him physically attractive but the guysthey "really" like have to wait. How does that make sense?

 

Umm.... it doesn't.

 

Exactly. This puzzles me to no end.

And conversely, if a guy I was really into lost respect for me because I slept with him too early, then clearly that guy didn't really respect me in the first place. Otherwise it would be a non issue.

 

Does that mean that he loses respect for himself since he too slept too early? I mean some guys just make nonsense out of it.

 

You got it. Double standards, anyone?

 

You're right. Its just bullshit excuses.

 

me tooooo...it's just a great big yawn fest for me when they start playing games. be straight with me or i'ma gonna walk

 

Like I said. The guy wants to sleep with you, but at the same time he wants you to not sleep with him. Its crazy really lol

 

I don't care how many studies they do on human nature....nothing suprises me anymore

 

I know - rite!
I dont get it and I get bored. really fast with that shit.
Either you into me or you are not.
End of story.

 

Now here's a question for you ladies. What's the best way to go about getting no strings attched sex without having to lie or mislead you? What would a guy have to do to get you into bed short of being some type of celebrity?

 

welcome to the land of being an adult...i can't put a specific age on this because i truly believe it comes down to the parties involved...i think that any man reading this right now should just drop the lies...drop the misleading part...that will never get you anywhere with a woman especially in this day and age

you ask point blank questions...up front...cards on the table...let your intentions be known...ask for what you want...no fluff or frills...surprise surprise...women actually appreciate honesty

for a woman to agree she must already be interested i you...attracted to you...not interested in a relationship with you...also looking for a no strings type of get together...at that point you have the green light

disclaimer: celebrities/famous athletes are not all they are cracked up to be...any woman today not interested in 15 minutes of fame would stay away from these two categories unless ofcourse you enjoy seeing yourself on the cover of some tabloid...

 

well, whipping out your dick and having something foul come out of your mouth is just simple not attractive...i'm not surprised this isn't working for you:smt043

 

He brings up a good point though what would you consider up front without being rude? When is a good time to tell a woman you want nothing from her other than sex? After a nice dinner? In the middle of the night after watching some porn? It seems like you have to be devisive in order to get a woman in bed unless you are in that top 1% who rarely even has to speak. We all live on the predication of hope. Men hope to get laid women hope to be loved. Not to say both parties don't want both sex and love its just easier for a man to find love and a woman to find sex.

 

don't wait until after dinner...don't wait until you are watching porn...have the conversation up front...on the phone...over coffee...it comes into play early on...let your intentions be known...i am not looking for a relationship...i am not looking to get involved...i think you are cute...attractive and your body drives me wild...i would be interested in something more physical that wouldn't leave either one of us catching feelings...what are your thoughts on that? once this is already established...she already knows that you are going to whip out your dick after dinner and the two of you are going to get busy

 

Rock out with your cock out.

 

bahhhhhh LOL. I like the pun lippy!

 

:smt058 well you were the ONLY one who got it