Can I ask men a question?

Then you've never had a case of Blue Balls.

Who's hoping she doesn't???? Is this that corny Western programing you speak of?

Who's right do you have to speculate on how many times she's screwed somebody randomly?

I don't care, maybe she found some dude sexy and wanted to give him some, I don't care, I wasn't there. Are you hanging around in circles where she's been passed around like a blunt, then that might be a concern but only to you and your ego, not mine.

 

Does that sound like alot? It doesn't to me, of course it depends on when you began having sex and your current age. If you started at 16 and your now 36, that's not that many...

 

You've been programed. Pussy is fungible....and so is dick.

 

I don't care what someone else's number is, but I'm 42 and for me personally that would be a lot.

 

BellaL,where are you from? Men loves women who can cook and if some men don't they are lying to you. I like women who knows what they want in a man instead of a man whom they don't like approaching them.

 

So your okay with messing with hoes dj4monie?? Men should have some kind of standard at the very least with the females they choose.

About the blueballs, I said Challenge not tease. I hate females who lead guys on to only be let down in the end.

 

I'm sorry but I have to go with dj4monie. If two people meet and they want to be together, one should not have to chase the other. Women only do that crap because they got burned by a player. It is the player that messes up the girl and gives her baggage to make you run through those hoops.

 

We know one shouldn't but it happens....

 

Personally I'm all for 100% honesty in a relationship but some things never need to be discussed. No good comes from that conversation. We're all sexual beings, we've all had lives up until meeting our current partner, stressing about who your partner has slept with in the past is just immature. And if you're he'll bent on "knowing", I think When you know someone well you tend to get an idea of the kind of ball park they'd be in anyway. Not that it matters. Would having less partners than I could count on one hand make me a better person? Absolutely not. Would having more partners than I could count on my fingers and toes make me a worse person? Absolutely not.

 

Define Hoe/Whores?

Is this a preprogrammed number you have in your head? Is this about how a woman dresses or her appearance on a daily basis? Are you talking about having a standard or holding court from your social high horse?

• Having an STD is not a marker of sexual actitivity
• Being involved in the Adult Industry doesn't automatically discredit them
• Appearence Proper or Improper is usually not a Black and White Issue
• How is it any different for a woman to go out to a bar every weekend and go home with a different guy every time, when guys are lauded for the same activity?

The definition of the term Whore is somebody that exchanges money or favors for sex. Women do this constantly, married or not. In fact I could call it extortion or black mail in some cases.

So Hoe/Whore is not a broad term its a very narrowly defined word.

I would let you get away with calling a few women out there promiscuous but you have no idea what happen before you got there and women that leave "clues" are doing that intentionally.

Maybe I'm just more open-minded than you.

I also find it very interesting that if woman hasn't put out by the 3rd date, she's pure as the driven snow. While if she felt comfortable enough with you to screw you at the end of the first date, she's a hoe or "too easy".

Maybe if men like you didn't keep perpetuating a double standard and there was little fallout for a woman's social activities, then there would be less pushing of "male enhancement" drugs, "female sexual paraphernalia" and a general feeling of distrust among the sexes.

 

I concur, if a woman can roll her hips, I don't wonder where she learned that, I consider it a bonus. I also say "practice makes perfect", you can't be in practice if your a prude and yes men there are some women out there that want to get married and even have kids but hate sex in general, beware!

 

I've always looked at it differently. I've never been one to date players, but in my experience, a man doesn't want something that's easy (and this could be taken any way you want). Like Raul said, men like a challenge and this doesn't have to be sexually. I think the working part is an unsaid thing. I think being a challenge (not in the sense where you're playing games), gives an air of mystique.

 

Hey man, i try to be as open minded as I can. Honestly

Thats just way Society is with the whole double standard, its not perfect.

I did use hoes loosely, but C'mon man. We probably see things differently due to our experiences. I will agree to disagree with you

 

exactly, well put. when im in sexual interlude with a woman i want her to tease me abit then screw me. why because it brings up the temp. also with the chase if a woman likes they guy and she knows he is chasing her she can play hard to get but not tooo hard because he will walk away. also a guy need to do the same because a woman wants a challenge too.

I believe women like the fact that they have a mack and the challenge of trying to square him up

 

LOL!!!!!!!

 

gotcha on that one huh.

you know its true. LOL

 

Well, I agree. Some women constantly try to change a man and find this as a challenge. I personally know that I can't change someone (although I wish I could for some people), but that they can only change themselves.

 

its not so change him it is more of a tame him..like a wild horse...LOL

 

That too! lol

 

LOL