What's going on with you 2.0?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Bookworm616, Jan 1, 2010.

  1. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    I didn't get to say goodbye, but hello when you see this. Thank you for keeping our country safe!

    Happy Birthday to your little cutie!

    That sucks about your brother cause I remember how you loathe the idea of him moving back, but hopefully he'll be out soon enough and get some sort of help.
     
  2. christine dubois

    christine dubois Well-Known Member

    Be careful, Hydra- and use your 7 or was it 9 heads ? .. look around! God bless you!!!!
     
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  3. christine dubois

    christine dubois Well-Known Member

    Last week I´ve found out that one of our emplyees is stealing money. She is a foreigner here and if I claim her, it will destroy her future. I couldn´t believe it, because I trust my intuition. She isn´t that type of person. So I decided to investigate in her private life...with the result that I know now that a guy makes pressure on her. So now, difficult situation, I don´t know exactly, what to do.
     
  4. robina

    robina New Member

    well yesterday went well

    took madam to the cinema to see the tooth fairy and then to a play place. she was smiling the whole morning :)

    had to put her down for a nap before the evenings fun as shes still struggling with her chest

    after taking her to a resturant with my sister and BIL we were at my house watching her opening presents. my sister passed her a parcel ( blue dress with flowers ) bless her she opened it, said "oh curtains, thanks" and put it down. she cracks me up, i just love my daughter :)
     
  5. suprchic73

    suprchic73 New Member

    :-( I'm sorry about your brother, Bookie. I hope he'll get his act together really soon, and that moving back with your parents will be very, very temporary!! I'll keep you guys in my prayers.

    In happier news, did I read somewhere that your date was good, or did I dream that?? :p lol.
     
  6. Espy

    Espy New Member

    :smt043:smt043:smt043
     
  7. TCFLORIDAGIRL

    TCFLORIDAGIRL Well-Known Member

    Our prayers are with you Sir Nose, stay safe. Thank you and all the thousands of others who risk their lives for ours. God bless you all...
     
  8. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    My parents did warn him (and hopefully they'll follow through) that one screw up and he's gone. We shall see.

    Yes, my date went well, but after further review, I don't believe there will be another one and I'm okay with that.

    I'm pulling a BY86 and I'm going to be done with men for the near to far future. We were talking in chat a bit about it last night and BY86 was saying how she can't find a man in her age group that's mature. And it hit me that sad as this is, I'm finding it extremely difficult to find a man in MY age group that's mature. :roll:

    So, until Mr. Perfect For Me walks into my life, I'm going to just chill out and be finished with dating. And I have a friend (who had to coerce her boyfriend to marry her) start to sound condescending to me about how she knows how dating is so hard. I just want to tell her to f*ck off. LOL.

    Anyway, enough about my dating woes. I won't bore people on here anymore about them. I'm just going to unleash my thoughts on dating in a blog which may or may not ever be read by anyone and at this point, I don't care. :smt043
     
  9. suprchic73

    suprchic73 New Member

    Girl, I do NOT envy people who are "stuck" in the mayhem of the dating world at all. I was young when I met my husband, I knew he was the one, and I've stuck to him like glue ever since. God forbid I should ever be tossed back into the dating pool. I'm not sure any man would want me...lol. -sigh- :smt087 lol.

    I've kinda lived vicariously through my sister with her dating woes...it's hella stressful, yo!...LOL She's dated quite a bit...something I never did a lot of. She tells me I have "F*CK OFF" tattooed on my forehead anyway, lol...so God help any man who would try to take a crack at me...ROFL. Anyway though...yeah, taking a break from men might be your best option for now - you and BY86, both. I really do believe that when you're not looking, you'll find the right man. I was actually dating another dude when I met my husband - funny how things work. :rolleyes: Hang in there, chick. Enjoy your singledom while it lasts. :smt003
     
  10. Espy

    Espy New Member

    I gotta cosign that suprchic. I think the absolute best things in life are the things you aren't looking for that just fall into your lap completely unexpectedly. Some things are just meant to be, like you and your husband.
     
  11. suprchic73

    suprchic73 New Member

    Amen, girl. :smt060
     
  12. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    I'm so done with men asking me for naked full body shots. Or men who think that I'm down with a casual fling (which I'm upfront about not being down with).

    Seriously, men in their 30s and 40s are going on online dating sites and asking women to send naked pictures to them. Are ya kiddin' me?? Go buy yourself some f-ing porn.

    On an aside, I think I know who the mysterious tagger is....and you can add tags to your heart's content, I'll just delete them if they're inappropriate. ;-)
     
  13. suprchic73

    suprchic73 New Member

    I know girl...it's as bad as married men sending pictures of their wangers to married women - I told you about that, remember?? Ridiculous!!!

    And isn't there a way to track the mysterious tagger to see who it is? I think we should place bets, lol. :smt042
     
  14. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Glad she had a nice time/day!

    Books, I opened up a blog a few months ago and it's just sitting there. It's about love too! You want to share it with me?
     
  15. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Yes! I remember that. It's like the internet has turned dating into a complete joke. It seems like most of the men really only want naked pictures. If you're too cheap to buy a magazine or buy some porn, I can't help you.

    And unfortunately, I'm feeling bitter about the whole concept of dating, thanks to these recent experiences. So, I need to step away before I become a man hater. LOL.

    I tell two of my male coworker friends about these guys that contact me. One of them is married, the other is 26 years old and single and the single guy says, that's what I'm up against? I have it made. Then the married one tells the single one that HE should do that. LMAO!! Nooooooo!! Not another one!!

    No, there's no way to track who is tagging the threads. And if it is who I'm thinking it is (based on insider Mod knowledge), no one will ever guess.

    I'm not positive about it, though.
     
  16. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    No, my Bitter Party of 1 shouldn't be associated with you! LOL.

    Here I am talking about dating when I said I wasn't going to anymore. ACK!!
     
  17. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Hell, it's table for 2 in that aspect...LOL

    Nah, but seriously, I'm welcoming you....It's just sitting there. It would be a great motivator....

    Imagine the stories we could pull from one anothers experiences...
     
  18. suprchic73

    suprchic73 New Member

    lol @ your coworker! :smt042 that's hilarious!!

    i'm very curious about this tagger person... :smt104

    I've been trying to get my blog going too, but I suck...I made like 3 entries and then fell off the bandwagon - I need to rekindle it. what's the link to your blog??? I want to read, Twin!! :eek:
     
  19. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    It's blank, but I'll give it to you...

    You may have only a few stories, but the main one about you and Hubsta stand out and could live alone on your blog. Like everyone here, your story is very inspiring and endearing.
     
  20. suprchic73

    suprchic73 New Member

    :smt055 Thanks, love!
     

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