Is a WW Racist Because She Refuses To Date BM?

She makes a good point about the same question with a twist, however, the same question can be asked about black women in regards to white men, black men in regards to white women, and white men in regards to black women.

 

This whole thing is getting redundant so i'd put it in simple terms: Racist WW nor men bother me. I've chosen to be friends/mutual with the open-minded, educated ones and i feel the rest of you have/should be doing the same. Racist white people are no concern of mine as long as they dont come in contact with me or any of my loved ones. I cant actually remember coming in contact with a racist one-to-one. Wait, who'd see this 6 foot 8 265 lbs brotha and come across as racist to him? Wont he break your bones and bury you alive? I guess so.

 

I'm actually done debating it. There were just some other things I had to say in regards to this.

 

Stop manipulating!

Stop manipulating white women into having sex with you! If she wants you you won't have to lower yourself to that level! Have some self respect and stop basing your self esteem in conquering white women! Rodney!

 

To the OP, yes they are in fact racist.

If a white girl refuses to go out on a date with me, thats a hate crime in my book.

 

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well they both left and now we have new ones just like them...as much as things change they stay the same...just the names and the faces change...the issues remain the same...

 

If you don't date black men, because of their race well yeah your racist. No if, and or but....

Black men come in all type of shades/complexions. To rule out all black men...come on thats ridiculous

I probably have gotten a few rejections that I could tell were racially motivated...what are you gonna do...just move on

 

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I think a ww should be allowed to date or not date anyone she chooses. If she doesn't date black men because that is her preference so what. I mean I date WW because that is my preference and I don't think I am racist to black women. We like what we like and she likes her meat white, so get over it.

 

If a WW doesn't date BM because she just doesn't find them attractive, then I'd agree that's not racist. Different people are attracted to different traits, qualities and physical types. However if a WW doesn't date BM because they are black, then IMO that is racist. That has nothing to do with attraction, that's saying she's not even going to consider whether she would find him attractive because she can't look past the color of his skin.

 

Ah, Lass....you are SPOT ON.....


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Very well put.

Rep added.:smt023

 

The thing about it is.. his black skin is a physical trait. She may not be attracted to that certain trait. Yes, he can be light skinned, but light skinned men still do not look white. She may be sexually attracted to the color of white men skin and saying that she is not attracted to black men is correct and her preference. There is a fine line between preference and racism at times. To say she is racist because she only dates white women is to say black men are racist that don't date black women. It is a form of prejudice towards a certain group, but it is not racism.

 

Thanks AnMDB, no rep needed m8.

Thanks for the rep Tony!

This makes no sense.

However regardless of what you were trying to convey there, I still stick with what I said.

 

My question is this: why do people care so much about who other people are or aren't dating? If she doesn't want to date you, for whatever reason, move on.

Trying to explain or justify other peoples' behavior is wasting your valuable energy, because you can't control anyone's behavior but your own, so why try?

 

Because unfortunately a lot of people seem to be completely stuck on what everyone else is, or isn't doing. I'm with you Bookie, why waste time worrying or questioning what anyone else chooses to do, or not do? Go live your life and leave other people to do the same.

 

I know. It saddens me. Maybe it's because of our media that has to get into celebrity's lives so much that mentality crosses over into the "real" world.

 

I don't know the cause, but it's a damn disease! I honestly was raised to stay out of other people's business, and not to pry. But it seems it's become really common to keep an eye on everyone else, envy what they have that you don't, and question everything they do. It saddens and annoys me. Just mind your own damn business. I guess maybe their own lives are deficient in some way and so they want to try to leach off of yours?

 

My mom for instance feels way more attracted to white guys than any other race.However she is in no way racist in my opinion.When I brought someone home and they happened to be black she passed judgement over them according to how they behaved towards me and my family.