Are men intimidated by smart women?

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by Madiba, Jun 4, 2010.

  1. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    the tags are more laughable then some of the threads:smt005
     
  2. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Really Smooth? All points? Ok
     
  3. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    :smt045 that's what he said...
     
  4. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Lippy I thought we agreed not to speak. Its a volatile situation waiting to happen. I'm trying my best to be a gentleman with you.
     
  5. Espy

    Espy New Member

    Perhaps you should take advantage of the ignore feature babe? If you don't see it, you won't be tempted to reply to it.
     
  6. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    There are some of us who feel that we don't have any chance of meeting a potential mate in the real world. Some of us are shy and self-consious. Some of us live through Entertainment Tonight and People Magazine and through the Pretty (White) celebrities. Some of us rather hide in the sand than to step out and take a risk...in other words, we sacrifice pleasure in order to avoid pain.

    Some of us (yours truly included) had been trying to get acceptance by the the ladies on the board to feel better about ourselves and to feel worthiness.

    Its not popular, but the truth must be told. Well as I speak, I can only work on improving myself as a human being.
     
  7. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    I didn't st...st...studder.
     
  8. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    lippy didn't agree to anything and it sounds like your beef is with smooth since he agreed with what i said...i could care less who is agreeing with you andrae...i cruise right over all that babble...not even worth my time:smt080
     
  9. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Thanks for the heads up esp. youre helpful as usual. I'm tempted to just let it rock its a good exercise in learning how to deal with difficult people.
     
  10. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    the thing is smooth...you have it...you just have to apply it...the real world is out there and as soon as you make the decision your life changes forever...some lucky woman is going to snatch you up and make you her man...i'm not just trying to blow sunshine here...i think that i know a bit more about you than what is here on the forum...without saying much more than that...i know you are ready...i'll be cheering from the sidelines when you find the one...it takes a real man to see himself and want to be better...good for you:smt038
     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Interesting fam. I admire you for putting yourself out there and being honest about how you feel about yourself but that's not me playboy. I have absolutely no problem being disliked I have never sought out approval from anyone men and women alike. So stop projecting your issues onto me. I always try to be fair minded and logical in all my posts.
    I have no problem going for what I want. The things I want may take more time than id like but I'm ok with being patient. Whenever I use media as an example its to point to the mirror that's reflective of the culture it presents itself to. I have no reason to envy anyones life, I'm pretty luck and can recognize that. This forum is for me to explore intellectual thought with people who are like minded and who are coming from similar places in life, its far from being an ego boost for me fam.
     
  12. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    I didn't name names, did I?
     
  13. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    :cool:
     
  14. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Who said anything about beef? I just don't want to talk to you because this is the second time we've came to this point. Its not healthy. If you don't care about my babble then why respond? Have a good life Lip I have nothing else to say to you. You've been warned
     
  15. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Fam the post you agreed to all points on had my name in it and was directed at me. So how am I not suppose to think you weren't trying to name names?
     
  16. chicity

    chicity New Member

    For christ's sake, if you don't want someone to respond, threatening them is counter productive.

    You're telling her to leave you alone and begging her to respond in the same sentence. Don't do that. If you don't want to talk to her, don't try to bait her.


    I have no beef with either of you, I'm not taking sides, I'm just saying: this is getting stupid.
     
  17. Espy

    Espy New Member

    Well I know how to deal with difficult people, it's actually something I've always had great success with, so that's really not something I feel I need practice in. You know I started out thinking it was ridiculous to put anyone on ignore, but then I realized that there are some posters who bring nothing of interest to me in their posts. If there is consistently nothing of merit to read, I see no reason to waste time wading through their posts. It really does save time to not even have to skip those posts, you just don't even see them. A friend urged me to try it, and I now seriously :smt049 the ignore feature on here. Try it, you may love it, and if you don't you can always turn it off.
     
  18. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I didn't threaten anyone I didn't say leave me alone or else. I made it clear that I asked her to leave me alone. This is the internet what do I need to threaten anyone for? I can just not log on.
     
  19. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry if you felt that. I wasn't talking about anyone in specific. Now, I don't know you off the forums, and I'm not taking a dig at you, but many people live inside a closed environment and fail to step out in the real world. So many people are clueless about how life works.

    There have been trolls on board who's only point of reference is WalMart when it comes to BM/WW couples and there are some who think BM could never get a woman in the likes of Annalynne Mccord. We need to step outside our comfort zones.
     
  20. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    lippy will exercise discipline...find another thread to play in:smt079
     

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