Ungrateful Women

Again Andrae I don't know if that's factually based, or merely what gets noticed more. I see plenty of 'average looking' (translated as not built like the Rock) guys with women. Personally I'm more likely to be attracted to the artistic guy than the jock because I've found they tend to share some personality traits that I find very attractive. You also wouldn't find me fawning over anyone, but certainly not the MMA champion. I no longer enjoy watching barbarism acted out in front of me. If that's your thing, more power to you, but it doesn't interest me in the least.

 

I realize you are basing this upon your own personal experiences, but they don't match with mine at all, so we're at an impasse.

Your logic only works if the whole "artsy types don't get girls like athletes" argument was verifiable. In my life, I've never seen this to be true. So unless you have anything to support your argument beyond what you have witnessed, I think the stronger argument is the one that can be verified by anyone: If there was one type of guy that every woman wanted, most guys would attempt to be that guy. However, there are many types of Men, suggesting that Women have diverse turn ons.

 

I think cases like this are excellent times to use the theory of personal responsibility. It's easy to say all Women are like this, but if they were that video would not have been shocking enough for someone to bother copying to YouTube.

This Woman is a bitch. She's not a bitch because of her gender evolved to bitchery. She's not a bitch because that's what desiring a dominant male looks like. She's not a bitch for giving into her natural lust for an aggressive male. She's not a bitch because that's just what Women are. She is a bitch because that is what she choses to be.

She's not giving into some base desire all Women share.

She's just a bitch.

 

Here's the reality: the only reason that you feel that the artsy type is not desired is because the artsy type is not desired in 12% of the population -- ie the African American community.

And that's why I'm swirling my ass off. Swirl swirl swirl swirl swirl.

lol

On the real tho? You can sum it up by the movies that have been produced over time: there's a plethora of movies from all other races except for Black people that have the Women falling in love with artists. Hell, they even have movies where the fathers are upset because the daughters have fallen in love with an artist. They have male leads who get upset because the Woman that he's in love with is being thrusted on by the suave artist. The artist is a Cassanova in most other cultures. Except for the Black one. Oops. Did I say that? I speaketh the truth and it hurts! But, I got art skills, so oh well.

 

We continue to keep ourselves in the box. The men have to be hoard. They gots to keep it real. Dig?

 

You sound like some LA folks...hoard LOL

 

The judge had no justification bringing the "black" adjective into her speech. "Black woman", "black man", "black queen" :roll::roll::roll:, etc. We black people (sorry, I had no choice but to use the adjective) can't seem to keep from describing ourselves without the adjective. Can't see Asians, Hispanics and definitely not white folks having to use adjectives to describe their racial or ethnic identities in such situations.

 

Yep. Its a shame that a lot of women think this exact same way.

 

She was on the very extreme so no, its lot a lot of women behaving as her. Be real.

 

Oh no doubt she was on the extreme of bitch mode. But I was responding to Inner Beauty's post. Mainly this part:

This is the type of woman who confuses someone being "nice" as being weak and not having a backbone and when a dude is a straight dickhead/asshole and full of drama, he takes no shit and gives her a "challenge"...

The fact is, a lot of women love falling for the "bad boy" and hoping to tame him but 9 times out of 10 fail to do so. And a lot of females do in fact look at the word "nice" as a flaw. Its just so backwards with you ladies lol

 

Oh, my bad, Iggy - carry on

 

And all too common.

We(BM) see this ALL THE TIME.

 

Yeah it's sad. I think those particular women need to realize that you can't change a man, he has to want to do so himself. You'd think having that knowledge would be half the battle. Not! They will continue unknowingly resolving self esteem or daddy issues with those men they choose.

 

This cracked me up!! :smt096

Interesting observation in the last paragraph.

 

i remember a few years a ago I had a friend who was going through some issues and was alone w/her son on the day of his birthday. I knew she had some financial issues at the time so i stepped in and bought her son a birthday cake and ordered a pizza, just so that the kid could enjoy his birthday. I wanted nothing in return - just like to be kind....Now mind you i was'nt even involved with this woman, but don't you know she mentions a few days later, in conversation about that day, that i DID NOTHING FOR HER. My opinion of her changed forever after that day. Ungrateful bitch.

what's funny is she somewhat resembles the woman in that video in the OP.

 

WOW! Her ass (face) needed a cake thrown in it.

I hope you cut her off...

 

yeah i went 5yrs without any contact with her as i moved back to the east coast. Ran into her recently and i realize i've grown as a person, in the sense that i've fully committed to a healthy lifestyle & also working on my IT career. We used to at least casually hang out, drink, or whatever. Now i want nothing to do with her....meanwhile she's the same person she was years ago, plus she let herself go physically. Just sloppy lookin' but thinks in the back of her mind that i want to get involved with her :smt009 It's depressing to see people not even try to better/improve their lives as they grow older.

 

Wow!!! Like IB said - I hope you cut her off!
That was so wrong on so many levels.

 

I did.

 

Amen...

What nerve of her!

Good...