I saw this clip from a friends' fb page This is not about BLACK women bashing, just bashing ungrateful women of any race. If you have a Man that takes care of you and treats you like a queen, don't take him for Granted. [YOUTUBE]<object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/U93BBNq5A64&hl=en_US&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/U93BBNq5A64&hl=en_US&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object>[/YOUTUBE]
Clearly this woman is grasping at straws trying to find excuses for the fact that she just doesn't love him anymore. Guy can be as "perfect" as hell, but if you ain't feelin' it there's no point sticking around!
Yeah, let a mf'a whoop her ass and talk down to her on a daily basis. THEN maybe she'd appreciate this man. This is the type of woman who confuses someone being "nice" as being weak and not having a backbone and when a dude is a straight dickhead/asshole and full of drama, he takes no shit and gives her a "challenge"... SMH @ her....
I think this is a common problem or that many women have. Black want the thugs or rapper types, while many white women like the bad boy rocker types guys. I know this is stereotyping in the simplest form but it is something that women are attracted across the board. I think it stems from the fact that women like to feel protected with more aggresive, bigger, and taller men. Its a evolutionary reason why women seek these type of men. I think what alot of people have to realize is that for most of human history we were hunter gathers and the biggest, tallest, and most aggresive men got were able to protect women better than the nice, short, and small guy. I think women are naturally attracted to these type of men for evolutionary reasons.
I know I like all the characteristics you've mentioned, but I think there's a difference between a guy being a "man" vs. someone being an outright asshole and being into negative shit. You can still be a mystery or a challenge (this is what I feel people seek), without being full of drama. No one with self-esteem would want to be treated like crap and women who weren't raised to know what a good man is, wouldn't know one if he slapped her in the face (take this line how you want it)....
To be honest, I loathe wimps, but I don't think all nice guys are wimps. I don't want to date a man that's so ridiculously straight edge I get the finger wagging if I say, "Let's get drunk and screw." I'm not Little Miss Perfect, and I could rather cope with some raw edges than have someone be just perfect. That doesn't mean I'll put up with someone being untoward or nasty to me. That's a horse of a different color.
Truthfully, the more we learn about human evolution, the less that these theories appear to be true. Most early humans weren't hunting wolly mammoths, they were hunting rabbits. And studies of human evolution across the globe shows far more variation than we originally thought. It appears that the one common trait we all evolved was the ability to adapt depending upon our environment. Which means that we evolved to prefer the best traits in a mate for our current environment, not to prefer the traits that were most preferable many generations ago. So there's no real evolutionary excuse for Women who are attracted to thugs, "alphas", or the more common dickhead or jerk. You make good choices or bad ones, the responsibility lies with us. As for the Woman in the video, her problem is clear: she's a bitch.
Men , women, children, dogs, monkeys…..it doesn’t matter, appreciate what you have and thank the hand that feeds you. I recall during my teenage years, I never thanked my grand mother for things she did for me, and in some cases I made an effort to make her know how ungrateful I wanted her to think I was (similar to this lady on the clip). And then she passed, and I began regretting that I didn’t say thank you all along. I never even hugged her despite the fact that she was sooooo good to me. man So yeah, I bet this lady in the vid is regretting it,,or at least, i hope the man is making her regret. later
Not only is that a stereotype, it's completely untrue. There isn't one single thing that you can say anyone is attracted to 'across the board'. Attraction is entirely too subjective for any one quality, trait, or attribute to appeal to every single woman, or man.
I agree with you on this. I also think they like these types since they're usually more exciting but when they get older they can't wait to be with a more stable kind of guy.
When a person makes a generalization like that I think its safe to say they mean the over whelming majority. Of course there are exceptions here and there but attraction is pretty simple. The more dominant males have their choice of mates. Women for the most part are very attracted to this. A good example of this is when I go to mma fights the women appear very turned on by the fighting and the winner is usually flocked by every chick in there. Its like their ovaries are aching to mate with the guy. Yes some girls wouldn't go for it but again I'm willing to bet my balls most would.
No offense dude, but that's possibly the worst example I've ever seen used by anyone ever. Out of a group of Women who spend money to go see oiled up alpha Men fight with each other, most are attracted to the winner. Of course they are turned on by it. That's why they go. The Women who aren't turned on by it don't go. It'd be like saying "out of the Women who like Diet Coke, most like Diet Coke". Well, yeah. Johnny Depp George Clooney Robert Patterson -- how many of these guys come across as "dominant"? Women like different things, different guys. If there was one type of guy that always got all pussy, then all guys would be that guy. If women were that simple to understand, the world would have been a happier place a long time ago.
You actually prove my point. Their dominance is their fame and money. There is a blueprint to this attraction stuff.
No, you're being ridiculous. Now you're saying that of the guys that are famous and rich, some are famous and rich. Of course I picked celebrities. You don't know any of the guys on my block. Who else am I going to use? If there was a blueprint, every literate Man would be overwhelmed with pussy. You claim to like logic. Where is it in your theory?
Here's the logic genius please try to keep up. Your artisty types are capable of getting women but there are many you see alone. You rarely if ever find an athlete alone. He is always capable of finding prime women. You don't even have to handsome as long as you're a winner ie Patrick Ewing Mike Tyson Dennis Rodman but artisy men are rarely desired the same way unless incredibly successful. Yes I understand people have certain taste but way more often than not the dude built like marble statue will win over a regular dude