I will admit I have and will continue to chubby chase

Please dont take the internet so serious. Its only a message board

And I wasnt trying to say anything personal towards you either.

 

You said it, not me. :smt043

 

Yep busted.

I guess there are a lot of bros on the DL cause I am pretty sure I aint alone in thinking women over 200 lbs are sorta unattractive.

But hey keep up calling people gay. Makes me feel like we are in the real 90s again with ignorant statements like that.

And SmoothDaddy???(lmao at you giving yourself that name, you probably look like Urkel:smt042

 

The back and forth arguing in this thread makes me think of this clip, Mel Brooks is a freakin' genius.

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:lol:

 

Spectacular Loki!!!
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Ive been a fan of Mel Brooks as ong as I remember!

 

Its the silly, simple-minded coons who think like you. You obsess over White Man's leftovers and see things through the Wal-Mart spectrum. If you open up your eyes, you will see that Black men can pull all kinds of gorgeous ladies.

but you can continue to live in your ghettofabulous world.

BTW, Urkel, is that your best insult? Well, he could always pull fine ladies. Can't say the same about you. Chump.

 

hey...whatcha doin with gz's wife...???

 

Weight-based threads are always the most controversial.

 

He sent me a nude pic of her, but owes me money and hasn't payed.

 

he's such a cheap bastard...!!!

 

Again I agree with you on the Al Roker comment. Again I go back to the D12 comment when girls on here said he looked pregnant. But your approach is hard fam lol

 

Well, Frederick, you're wrong. Losing weight is not as simple as eating less and exercising more for everyone.

Don't make generalizations like that unless you're a doctor and can actually back it up.

 

Coon? Chump? White Mans Leftovers??? Wal Mart spectrum??? What da fuck are you babbling about????

I DONT date big/chubby women. End of story. You were the one that claimed if any brotha didnt like some of these chubby girls, well then they must be gay.
And no shit "black men can pull all kinds of gorgeous ladies". When the hell did I ever say they couldnt??? See my post a few pages back when I said I like to go for inshape/athletic girls...not out of shape, chubby chicks. You're the one with the reading problems "Smooth Daddy" bwhaha I cant even type your username without laughing. What a joke.:smt043

 

Yeah I may have came off a big foward but it seems as though some of these folks on here can dish it out but they cant take it.

And for the record, I am 100% okay with ladies NOT being attracted to chubby black men (since I am a skinny mofo lol). I can understand them lusting after athletic/chisled guys, thats all good. But what I do have a problem with is the fact that it goes both ways. They expect us to love the BBW, big ass women that are over 200 lbs and out of shape. Da fuck?! Thats not fair at all. I, like a LOT of men, am very attracted to inshape, toned women that live healthy lifestyles and make exercising part of their life. But when I let that be known, I got some of the plus sized women on here bitching at me and of course the suckup brothas on here that will try to say anything just to impress the females on here...over the internet...and will most likely never meet face to face lol.

 

Uhhh actually you dont have to be a doctor to know the basics of living a healthy lifestyle lol. Its not fuckin rocket science. For the vast majority of people, doing high amounts of cardio and removing junk/fatty foods from your diet will indeed get you in great shape.

And no I am not a fitness expert, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn last night.

 

You are 100% correct on this GrlD. Though it's not the majority of people, there is a small percentage of people who have medical issues that make it much more difficult for them to maintain a healthy weight. All the cardio in the world and a 600 calorie a day diet won't do it for some folks, sadly. I think it's the worst thing to want to change something that is completely out of your control.

 

You've got your argument all wrong, mate. No one ever said you were expected to love bigger women. That's why this hypocrisy argument isn't relevant. Love who you wanna love. Just don't hate on other people for their preferences or their lifestyle. Easy.

 

agreed. people are allowed to have a preference... be that skinny, fat and everything in between. hell, we're all here because of preference anyway.

 

That's absolutely true. As I said earlier, I'm in the small percentage thanks to a rare disease, and it pisses me off to no end when I hear people say 'Oh, it's SO simple.' Yeah? Is it? Really?!? It's not. Not for me. Well, Frederick, I may be over 200lbs, but I've run half-marathons at this friggin' weight. What the hell have YOU done? You don't have to find me attractive, but you do have to show some damn respect because I'm just as much of a human being as those size 6 girls you're chasing after.

Not to mention, I think society does everyone wrong on this end. You have restaurants bitching about showing calorie information on salads that run 2000 calories. They say that people should be able to make their own decisions- well, if you don't give us the information, how misleading is that? People think a salad is healthy, and in most restaurants, it's just friggin' NOT.

Then, we have the issue with hormones and chemicals in the foods that we eat. While it's not really a debate for here, those impact our bodies as well, and we are JUST finding out about the things they can do to a person. Most people don't know enough about food and nutrition to be able to navigate the ridiculous world of food that's out there, and some of them simply can't afford it.

I have been on the other end of the spectrum when I didn't have any money to feed myself, and when I did, I'd have VERY little. So, if I had $6 per day to try to make it work, I was at McDonald's ordering things off the dollar menu, and buying packages of pasta, or $1 frozen meals. Not the healthiest options, but it's what I could afford. When broccoli is coming in at $3 per pound, do you think that someone in my position could have afforded that on my meager budget? No. Not at all.

So get off your high horse and stop insulting people who have issues with their weight. I've made peace with who I am since I'd rather live than die trying to conform to an ideal of beauty I'll never be able to reach. You have stuff to say, keep it to yourself.

That goes for everyone. I would never tell you who to like, or lecture you about it, so stop coming in this thread and lecturing any of us about a healthy lifestyle. It's arrogant, condescending, annoying, and IGNORANT.

...end rant...:smt013