Of course you are somebodys type!!!! You look great!!! Are you saying there are more bm fitting my "trend"? :smt003I Never thought about that.. leaning towards bm due to my preference I mean... ? I dont have color on my dating pre-requisite. I date all over the "colormap" to be honest.
I suppose a lot of people could pinpoint a common trait, or traits in the people they've been attracted to. I was going to say I have no trend, but upon further reflection it'd be a great sense of humor. That's the first thing I notice, and if that happens to be combined with confidence and sweetness, nothing else will bear consideration for me. In looking back at the people I've dated, the ones I was really attracted to all had a great sense of humor and personality, but looks wise they covered one end of the spectrum to the other. There is very little to no commonality among them. Weight, height, hair color, eye color, skin color, handsomeness, intellect, and age all varied. The only constant was a good sense of humor.
Damn it, Andrae Im being obtuse on purpose! Fine, Ive gone on a few dates w someone, but what it is, is yet to be determined. and yes, he is black.
I won't say everything that's on my mind about this topic, but I've mostly dated bigger guys. And by big, I mean just more meaty. They didn't have potbellies, they just were bigger. Does that make sense? My soon-to-be ex husband has started to get a potbelly on him. He had always fallen under the bigger guy category. But he's starting to expand out from his stomach. LOL. I don't find that attractive. On another note, my now ex-boyfriend was thin. I don't mind them thin. I don't mind them meaty. There's no real trait that you can pinpoint in the men that I've dated and/or found attractive. I'm all over the place. :smt026
Well let me clarify, potbelly men are also included in this thread. They would be considered chubby and/or fat by some.
But I should add that I'm a visual person, and when I'm out and about, men that catch my eye are almost always men who look fit and athletic.
He didn't have the potbelly when I married him, but yeah, I agree. And I've said to him on more than one occasion, "dude, what are you doing? You need to lose some weight". He's not looking good.
Thanks. I'm just being honest. I love built shoulders and biceps on men. If a man has that, I'm usually turning around and looking at him as he passes me. LOL. I love tight asses, too. :smt110
OK, this is a picture of my ex. As you can see..NOT skinny, but I thought he was damn hot (even if he was kind of an ass...not the point. lol)
Still very nice, BMJ. Men with a little meat on their bones are a good thing, but good that you did what made you happy. That's what matters!
