Dr. Ian (posted him in your "Who Do You Find Oddly Sexy" thread...lol) Yeah, people just assume that when you're thinner, you're healthier. You can have a lot of stuff going on internally, but it's not noticeable, yet when you see someone who's overweight, you can see their health problems more so. It also depends on the weight and bone structure of the person too. Some people can carry more than others.
yeah thanks. he stated about being heavier around the waist and thighs is good for you and then he ended the statement ( joy laughed good on this statement) " the brothers have been saying this for years" in other words the bro's love thighs and booty .... we are ok with thin women but nice thick thighs and booty and we are sold. we love curvy women
See, that's where there's a discrepancy. BM like a little carriage, but when you bring more weight into it, then it becomes a thick vs. fat debate.
you think so ? explain more because I may have missed it. I want to believe women think they are fat when men see them as thick. then there is fat when you are 5'2 and 190lbs but there are men who like that size.
I'll use myself for example cause I fit what you said. I'm 5'2 and currently fluctuate between 131-135lbs. I've been considered thick when I weighed more, but now I have no idea, but to some men, I'd be considered fat. My bones are small, so in reality, I'm supposed to weigh like 108-121 or something like that. Then because I have curves, it's probably more accepted to others cause of just that as opposed to being more round with the same weight. I'm also flabby and not toned, so that too equals fat. I think for the thick vs. fat thing, lets use booty or video models as examples. They're considered thick whereas some of the ladies in this thread (the models) would be considered fat.
I would do some things to this girl For all the women on the forum who are built like this, u should be very proud
I dont want to sound whatever but here i go...... My main thing about putting up this thread was to celebrate men who love women of all sizes and women should feel beautiful with their weight. with that being said PEOPLE should be comfortable with who they are and be confident. also people should strive to be healthy and not so much worry about their wieght. they should be concerned but not obsessed. I have usually dated women who are thin and athletic to a little over weight(that is a POV thang there ) . Myself I like for a woman to be proportioned and confident. Im not gonna date a woman who have to pull back her belly to clean her love tunnel but at the sametime a little overweght is not going to scare me off neither.
go you, girl! that's my hubs...I :smt049 his face - and all his other parts too...hehe! twin power - is that like captain planet power...when we combine our powers, really cool colorful light shoots out of really big gawdy (sp?) rings and combines in the air to make some really cool shape that resembles the planet?? lol. wow, i am such a geek. :smt003 thanks for sending love our way.
I disagree. I think the men here and around the regular world would agree is that we dont fall under the media of what is beautiful. Of course we do like the medias definition BUT we are not buying into it at the end of the day.
LOL @ love tunnel I hear you GL. That's cool that you're very accepting.... LOL! See, ya Hubsta was already on point without me knowing. Props/daps to a wonderful couple. Make those diamond rings that shoot out colorful perfume tht forms hearts... I want our powers to be magical. Like win the lottery or something...lol
But it depends on what each individual mans' definition is, cause as a collective, a lot of BM (like it's been stated here and in several other threads), don't want to be branded as loving "fat" women and having to carry that stereotype. Again, the weight is subjective....
