What U like About BM or WW Than Same Race

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by Tamango, May 19, 2010.

  1. Tamango

    Tamango New Member

    I am not saying that race is the only factor in being attracted to someone but I feel it's phony to pretend( not talking about you in particular) we don't see color or everyone is just the same from the human race. If that was the case then this site and other interracial sites would just say "Men and Women" period. I feel that it's ok to acknowledge our difference, respect and embrace them. All as human beings are different but equal.
     
  2. Loki

    Loki Well-Known Member

     
  3. Tamango

    Tamango New Member


    I agree but people who step to the beat of their own drummer, have to face a lot of opposition from other people who want and expect you as a black or white person walk, talk, dress and behave a certain way.
     
  4. Tamango

    Tamango New Member

    I certainly agree with the biological aspect that we are all of the human race but it irritates me when people with preferences for their own race or another , say stupid things like " I Don't See Color or Race", not to say that's what you meant.
     
  5. AnMDBCartoon

    AnMDBCartoon New Member

    So who says that *anybody* has to give those buggers the Time Of Day?

    If they don't put food on your plate, clothes in your wardrobe, a roof over your head, or income in your pocket....

    You'd *best* hope they enjoy sex and travel....


    So's you can tell 'em all to TAKE A FUCKIN' HIKE!!!!














    'Nuff Said!!!!














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  6. DJ_1985

    DJ_1985 New Member

    Maybe she really is doing an article.
     
  7. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    a more kind and gentle and calm spirit; more adventurous and well travelled, diverse in experiences, we share the same interest in music, world views, often same political and religious practices that i havent found in Most black women.

    also they have been more open to dating, not hard to approach, have a normal conversation with.
     
  8. fromrussiawithlove

    fromrussiawithlove New Member

    I have no problem with answering your question. If you are doing an article then it would be great to see it, but even if you aren't, I don't see the problem in listing qualities or attributes that we are attracted to anyway.

    I have never dated one race exclusively and I never will. I've had three relationships and those three have been with a white guy, a black guy and a Filipino. The only race of men who I do tend to avoid are Middle Eastern men, but that's more of a cultural thing rather than an appearance/race thing.
    The qualities I look for in a person are not down to race, but to the individual. I like intelligent, modest, no nonsence men with a sense of humour. I like guys who smile and laugh a lot, and I do like masculine guys. I like men who have ambitions and can protect themselves and those close to them. Those qualities are not exclusive to race, but if we are to go down that route, I've seen this more in black and white men than in Asians. But as for specific racial qualities that I like in black men more than in men of my own race?
    There's only one thing that stands out. The black men I've dated have pretty much all been great cooks. The white guys can't cook for shit.

    Looks wise? All of the guys I've dated have been tall, broad, with nice musculy backs, legs and arms. All have had dark hair and dark eyes.

    I think that people who date one race exclusively find it hard to believe but race is really irrelevant to me. If I see a hot guy, I see a hot guy. He can be green for all I care. Or blue. Like that guy from Avatar, he was a bit alright.
     
  9. Tamango

    Tamango New Member

    True, we must live ourselves and not others.
     
  10. robina

    robina New Member

    lol so im not the only one who saw the blue version and thought " wouldnt kick him out of bed " then?
     
  11. Tamango

    Tamango New Member

    I keep hearing that but in all honesty I don't see where black women (maybe because I'm female also) are that unapproachable. You mind telling what religious practices you are talking about?
     
  12. Tamango

    Tamango New Member


    Thanks for you post. Yep the one black dude I dated was a great cook and he could garnish a dish so pretty with smears, herbs, tomatoes etc that it looked like 5 star chef,lol.
     
  13. Sir Nose

    Sir Nose New Member

    Consider yourself "exhibit A".
     
  14. BeMore

    BeMore New Member

    I can't really point out anything in general other than skin color because every girl is different, white or not, i'd never date exclusively and theres nothing unapproable about black women, I love and have dated them too so I guess just fairer skin i'm into? even though I have no problem with dark skin either,pretty is pretty
     
  15. christine dubois

    christine dubois Well-Known Member

    You know, your question itself separates people..white race/black race..it´s not that I like bm in general more than wm. It has to do with experience someone made.. if they were nice you go on, if they were bad, you stop walking in that direction. But as a journalist- you should really be neutral. Stop thinking of black and white, we are all human beings, and just because I like some bm, it does not mean I don´t like my own race (even the word "race", sounds ridiculous, we normally use that word for dogs). The person counts, not the nationality or skin color.
     
    Last edited: May 20, 2010
  16. suprchic73

    suprchic73 New Member

    :smt043
     
  17. xoxo

    xoxo Well-Known Member

    Why call yourself Tamango? Are you a fan of that movie?
     
  18. whikle

    whikle Well-Known Member

    :smt038 Will rep you for this when I can! :D
     
  19. Tamango

    Tamango New Member


    I agree if you are attracted to someone to just go with it.:smt045
     
  20. Tamango

    Tamango New Member

    I I beg to differ, my question is not seperating people. I realize the many people want be politically correct but many times political correctness leds us to be overly sensitive or unnecessarily sensitive over a topic or issue that that is ok to acknowledged and often should be. People are already seperated by color, race cultures and subcultures and I think it's great to come together and accept, embrace and most of appreciate each other differences. Why do some people always think that in order for everyone to get along we must all put on blinders and pretend every one is just like us?
     

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