Would you date or marry someone with kids?

I dont think I could.

I guess I am just sorta old fashioned that way.

 

Depends on how old the kids are. No babies!!!

 

:smt043 LMAO @ your aversion to babies Andrae!

 

Hey I'm a man who knows what he wants and doesn't want what can I say lol

 

Well indecisive you aren't, so that's a plus.

 

You were a baby once.

 

Yes, absolutely.

And here's the thing- I don't want vagina gnomes of my own, but I love kids! As long as I don't have to pop them out and deal with them 90% of the time, I'm good with it.

 

Lmao@vagina gnomes

 

Unfortunately that was my parents dumb luck lol. At least I know myself well enough to know I can't handle it.

 

LOL Thanks, andrae!

 

Thats not old fashioned at all.

 

FYI, this makes no damn sense. How is not wanting a relationship with someone who has children being old fashioned?

Old-fashioned: (?ld'f?sh'?nd) adj. - Attached to or favoring methods, ideas, or customs of an earlier time.

People have been in relationships with other people who have children since damn near the beginning of time, so again this makes no damn sense.

I suppose I should at least answer the question. I have no issue if a man has children from a prior relationship, though like Andrae I would also prefer they be older primarily because mine are nearly grown and I'm looking forward to exercising more freedom in the next few years. Babies are wonderful, but they do limit things like spontaneity and travel.

 

Depends, case by case basis.

 

LMAO! We seriously need to sync up the mind reading better FG, or split the threads up or something... we're doubling up here.

 

GASP!
its getting freaky ESPY!!!

 

aaand - we did it again

 

I think he meant he wanted to have his own kids and not raise someone elses. He said he didn't think he could marry someone with kids.

 

:smt081 I'm rolling over here!

 

I got that babe, how is that old-fashioned?

 

we very much got that Andrae.

We only said that not wanting to raise someone elses kids is not oldfashioned, thats all.