tell us about the big turning point in your life

My turning point was my divorce from my scant ass wife. LOL. well she is a scant. damn

i realized at that time that life is short and a real strong relationship with urself is most important meaning be true to urself and life will be true to u. thus u should pursue ur passion.

i have a govt job and after 6 months I said screw it. Im gonna be a teacher. dont have a job or nothing. Im just stepping out on faith and do what i believe will make me happy.

what is ur story

 

Amen.

 

what was a turning pt in your life and why

 

C'mon, admit it. The real reason you quit your job is because you didn't want to support your scant ass wife, isn't it? I hope you don't mind me calling the mother of your child (your ex) a scant ass. After all, that's what you called her yourself. Now that you don't have a job, your child and spousal support will be minimal.

 

naw because then I cant support myself LOL

 

naw because I almost went back into depression. maybe your dad did your mom like that but that is your dad.go read ASSHOLE

 

Sorry to break it to you like this but I actually come from a two-parent, educated household, something that's probably foreign to you, dumb ass. Plus, didn't you reply to the same post sometime ago? Did my post somehow change in translation when you read it this time around? Buddy, disable your auto post mode, take time to read, comprehend and then reply (post).

 

Having my tumor removed.

 

wtf are you talking about ? you calling me a fucking dead beat dad . then get mad when i call you out. fuck you motherfucker. go read what i stated asshole. watch your fucking mouth. you are a nothing more than an internet tuff guy.

 

wow. how long did it take you to recover and how did it change you ?

 

turning point to what?

 

I assume you mean "tough", right?

 

Come on, guy. It's ME! :smt003 Before I felt normal? Hmm. It was taken out in November 2009. For the muscle wall to heal and me to get back into my exercise routine, it was February. Then had another minor surgery in March... Really, it's just now I feel "good."

Being that sick before, vomiting all the time, being told I had a tumor, dealing with not having insurance: I learned about the kindness of strangers and how to swallow my disappointment when neither brother visited me in the hospital. One didn't even call. It's hard and it's bitter, but overall, a good experience. But my story isn't a sad one: So many people did so much for me, and so much more they would have done, all without check or qualm, not knowing me. It's humbling.

On the other hand, I've also learned I cannot listen to a hundred million different opinions about me. I'm living my life exactly as I like it, and anyone who doesn't like it can kindly shove it up their ass. I don't mean to be crass, but I did not come across the years and the miles to live through so much and listen to anyone tell me I can't do something. It's made me a "live and let live" person who doesn't take shit, in essence.

 

that is a wonderful thing to read. a wonderful testimony of the will power to do what makes you happy and look at life with a new pair of glasses.

I love the "It's made me a "live and let live" person who doesn't take shit, in essence." statement

I like the term that is parallel to a courageous nice person.

meaning nice people are usually said to be pushovers. You can be a nice person but you can stand up for yourself.