do ww who date bm feel less pressure about thier weight

Ugh. This is the stuff I despise, along with the idea in general it's unladylike to be hungry, so even fat people deny it. Being hungry is a function, FFS. Sometimes I'll eat a lot. Sometimes I'll eat a little.

And you're right. It is funny how he had no problem getting hard despite his "disturbance."

 

You're better off without the schmuck! You need a real man!

 

LOL

 

Oy, he's meshugginah!

 

Thank you SD.

LOL!

 

I mean I'll eat for sport sometimes, but who doesn't on occasion (or more than that)? His diet was awful. He had a nice body, but I'd to see his blood results for what was going on internally.

LOL @ disturbance

 

Im trying to change my diet . I will probably go full throttle in a year or two. Im trying to convert to veggie diet

 

I would definitely have to say that I'm less concerned with my weight when I'm with a BM versus a WM.

At one time, I was engaged to a WM while I was in college. At one point, just before we split up for good, he told me that he was having a hard time accepting me for who I was because he was obsessed with being fit and didn't understand why I couldn't do the same. I was like 'WTF? Didn't you propose? You're not OK with me the way I am?' and he said 'Well, I could try to love you this way, if I have to..'

There's a reason he's an ex.

Anyway...I've gone between super heavy to just chunky, and back and forth again. I've found that I don't even think about my weight with a BM- so yes, definitely less pressure! BM tend to tell me how sexy I am, and just want me to be happy with me, and that made me realize how image-driven a lot of WM are...I have even gone out for drinks with friends a few times and had WM make comments about 'the fat cow' coming out of the bar (OK, I'm NOT that big! Sheesh!). I just don't get it. It's one of many reasons I prefer to date BM these days.

 

when you say veggie diet, what kind of vegetarian lifestyle are you considering? i eat cheese, eggs and honey so i'm a lacto-ovo vegetarian. i've considered becoming a vegan, but its the giving up cheese that i'm struggling with (i'm addicted to goats cheese & feta). i also check foods that i buy to make sure that there is no gelatin or rennet. i must also say that becoming a vegetarian was one of the best things i've done in my life. before converting i struggled with the guilt and tried to push the thought of what i was eating out of my mind...i now eat guilt free, feel better health wise and look better for it.

 

I didn't know you were Lacto-Ovo too. I don't feel so alone in this world after all...lol

 

lol...have been for 10 years now...!!!

 

11 this year for me!

We're twins!

 

just beginner veggie because I love cheese. I usually fall of the wagon because I just started and now I had to move back home for a sec and they eat that nasty pork and all that crap.

I got off the pork and scavengers years ago. Now im trying to go veggie and kick the soda habit but that is tuff for me.

 

nothing wrong with pork .. something i will never give up lol


like veggies too

 

LOL

 

ok coming off of the chubbing chasing thread I made. who gives the most pressure about weight....BM or WM

 

there is something to be said for darker skin...personally i think big black men are more appealing...perhaps that is a stereotype but i am more attracted to a large bm:smt050

 

GL, you made a thread similar to this before

But to answer your question, WM.....

 

did i really ?

 

:mrgreen: