Never Satisfied why Nerdy black men can't find happiness

No they don't and it is sad very sad. They don't want us but they don't want us to be happy. :smt022

 

I have a great sense of humor so I make them laugh and then I ask them out sometimes that works.

 

i can dig that. that sorta puts them at ease then you go to a regular convo. cool.

 

"...And the whole world loves it when you sing the blues."

 

the other thing is that BM are the whipping post of america anyway. so now they are picking on nerdy bm

 

It's not about the money. It's about someone's drive in all things. Someone who teaches grade school isn't going to wow me with money, but he is going to wow me with what he does.

 

There's nothing sexier than a man who knows subdivision polygonal modeling like the back of his hand. Oh yeah, baby, UVW unwrap those polys and toss on some architectural mental ray materials. *melts*



I <3 Nerds.

 

Ok I hear you ma.
How old r u btw?

 

Old enough to vote, but not old enough to draw Social Security. :smt003




(I'm 25. How about you?)

 

29. I know I'm old damn near 30 lol

 

Yep making them laugh breaks the ice.

 

Like they wanted us anyway this woman has control issues.

 

I'd rather have that nerdy black man than the jerk who thinks he knows everything, or the one who thinks he is the next big thing in hip-hop.

I had nerdy friends in school. Though, I was with the 'in-crowd'. I was friends with almost every cheerleader, jock, prep, and def all the bad girls . But those nerds could help me with more things than my other friends could. They were about the only ones who could keep my mind interested in things.

 

That's a shame because you have about 50 more years on the planet! No use feeling old.

I wonder (and I know white girls like this, primarily southern girls) what these women actually want. They claim they don't want "nerds," but balk they don't want redneck idiots/thugs. I guess it's the ol' dichotomy you hear men talking about with women: Not wanting a "brain," but not wanting a ho.

 

<--- Southern Girl

I really don't need a redneck. Related to too many of them as it is. lol

Can't stand the drug dealers and wanna be thugs either. Makes me want to choke them and yell "Don't bitch about stereotypes and then BE that stereotype!" Grrr.

 

Why can't I have a brain and a ho? Lol

 

*sigh* You nerd. (I kid.)

I'm a western transplant here in the south, and I'm speaking about a minority of "those" girls that give otherwise nice southerners a bad name. I get what you're saying about perpetuating negative stereotypes.

 

Exactly! I love a broad-minded gentleman!

 

I think that most of us are walk contradictions. The only thing that I use to get annoyed at was when girls would say they liked pretty thugs. Such an oxymoron. You can't call yourself pretty and claim to be a thug. Like when dudes were wearing pink in NY and calling themselves gangstas

 

That's terrific. And I mean that in the truest sense of the word! LOL!


I'm a smart ass and the man has to be absolutely terrifying for me not to say something about a pink shirt. Can't help it.