Cheaters

I don´t think that you cheated- if you have to think about, if yes or no- how can you?

 

Well, technically I was still committed to him, but I had my mind made up that I was ending it and that I was going to let him go (we see that didn't work out too well for a while until we both just stopped talking to each other completely). I'm very faithful in a relationship. When I love, I love hard. If you don't give it your all (this is when he's doing the same in which he did at first), why be in a relationship? I tried and tried and tried, but to no avail, he got worse. So I went back to my comfort zone (the guy before him).

 

Cheater!

 

Drunk!

 

:smt045

 

I like sober Tirkah...:smt085

 

Okay, the truth is I've cheated. But I have also been with someone where I couldn't cheat on even if tried to.

 

Truth serum....lol

 

That took long, now..:smt081
For sure- it is a big difference- when you cheat, how is your relationship, your circumstances.. I am no angel, too.

But, if the relationship was serious, if I knew some one really loves me- I never disappointed- that´s true.

 

:smt045

LOL....

 

HHHMMMMM

 

hmm

Basically, she was a young exchange student from Switzerland. Sweet as can be, and cute as a pie (i.e a regular fresh off the boat European lass), she was about 5'8", Pitch Black hair, mediterranean complexion, her booty protruded from tight T.N.A pants, and her cleavage partly visible through a slight opening of her blouse. YES-SIR!!, a complete wyfie material..She worked at this department store, and I was buying a chair for my office, so I asked her, "hey, if I weren’t in a rush, id ask for your number". Hook, line and sinker!!!!! She asked for mine.

Next day, my phone rang and low and behold swiss chocolate on the line, "how was your day" she asked.
Me:: "Good, only problem is you called a bit late"……
Her: "Why"
Me: i done cried for you already cuz I thought you wouldn’t call, and now im over you
Her: WTF are you talking about?
Me: Don’t worry about it, how bout I take you out tonight?
Her: WHAT!? TONIGHT? Im already in my pj’s
Me: Well, that’s your problem, where do you live again?
Her: I live in residence, but im not ready!
Me: I will pick you up in 30 mins ok?
Her: What??!! Omg, you crazy!

I took her out and we had a blast- dated for about 6 months after that, and she thought we were an "item". What she didn’t know however was that to me, she was just another fling, a thing, a cum dumpster(as they all are) and everything I ever said to her was partly due to my own personal egotistical gratification and shear desire/ambition to romantically conquer any woman out there; so again, HOOK, LINE, SINKER!!!!! Quiet smitten, her heart was wrapped around my pinky like the ring on her pinky ( which i bought btw)

On a quiet Friday evening, a few nights before the end of the semester, and thus, her final days in Canada (until the following fall), I plotted, (schemed if you will), a mechanism that would totally tear her heart to pieces. Now, doing such a thing is not the easiest due to many factors: #1, what you don’t want is her thinking youre an asshole and giving you the finger, because there is no gain to that, now is there?. #2 What you DO want howevr is her crying her hearts out (which could also be achieved in factor #1) and feeling "sorry" for herself. The emotional expression on her part should NOT be anger; it should be sympathy which could possibly lead to TOTAL SYSTEM BREAK DOWN; maybe even a suicide attempt (which wasn’t my aim, but if she did, it would be her fault).

So my method of operation was in the following fashioon::: knowing her (and most women) I reckoned the worst thing to do was to cheat on her with someone very close to her. However, everyone close to her was in Switzerland, so the next best thing was someone that resembled her physically, only slightly prettier..

Anyways we were chilling at the park, on a breezy spring evening and looking at the stars. OHHH Romance was flying in the air like no other, and I looked into her eyes and said "baby, I have never loved the way I love you tonight, and when you leave, I shall never love again". She started sobbing, held me close to her and whispered with tears in her eyes "I don’t ever wanna leave, never never, I want to be with you forever and ever".
Suddenly, the stars began to cry, a glimpse of rain came tumbling down, as if the heavens were sad at what was about to occur. I removed my coat and wrapped it around her as a bolt of lightning crashed into the skies. I told her I was gonna drive home really fast to grab an umbrella. I drove away, not home, or to get an umbrella, but to pick up another girl. Swiftly I returned to the park and sweet Swiss was right there wrapped in my coat waiting for me, glaring into my eyes from a far- probably wondering who the girl next to me was. I walked up her, roaring thunder sunk my voice and lightning lit my eyes. I grabbed my coat which was wrapped around her and walked away with the other girl. Swiss chocolate could do nothing more but stare and cry. And right before getting into the car, I kissed the next girl and fondled her breasts.

Oh well,,, se la vie

 

haha...you and your imagination!

 

Srsly, that was the weakest fanfic ever.

fail.

 

Lord

 

okey dokey

 

Never understood why people do it. Just leave if you're not happy or try to be in an open relationship if you just want sex from other people

 

I agree. too much energy to hide the extra stuff

 

I don't get it either Andrae, it's just not something I could do. If I ever felt the desire to, I'd know that meant the relationship wasn't working and it was time to end it. But people cheat for different reasons, some for emotional, some for sexual, some just because they can't say no to anything they want. I guess some want both the security of a relationship and the added excitement of sex on the side. Doesn't necessarily mean that they don't love the person they're with, just that it's not enough in some way. I can't imagine myself ever thinking like that, it would always be a very clear cut choice for me.

 

Everyone may not agree, but a very wise man taught me the difference between love and lust. You can be in love and have lust for someone else.

And life is too short for regrets. ;-)