You ALWAYS have to consider the worst case scenario and determine is it worth it. There are some family members who are going to love you unconditionally, you NEVER want to turn your back on them. They will be your TRUE supporters throughout life.
Kimbo, me,too....not as loud and shouting round as that girls in the vid, but they are in my eyes "stupid", greedy or using. I broke with them long ago, even with my sister. She wanted to separate her ex-husband from his kids..I gave him the chance to live in my house, when he came to Germany to see his children (he is always working in different countries). I want good people in my life, I don´t want battles, physical attacks and all that stuff around me, for nothing, just because they are to dumb to know, how to talk to grown-up people.
LL Cool K, Bugawoof, just from a couple of posts in this thread its obvious you are a creative one, have a good imagination. I am scared of you. Your future husband is going to be in for a real treat when you get him in the bedroom and that imagination of yours get going. IB: I want you to hang from the ceiling fan and ...... Your husband: You want me to do what??? IB: You heard me, just try it. ( Husband is reluctant at first but tries it none the less ) Husband: IB, why do you have that blow dryer in your hand?? ..... baby??? .... what are you doing sweetie??? ...... oh yeah baby, oh yeahhh.
Yesssss, my three favorite words I love hearing from a female's mouth, oh my God. Granted, we're on a message board and the words are shorted OMG, love it still the same though. :smt029
Sorry IB- I haven´t seen your post before! That´s what I mean, if some one loves me, he will respect my choice- if he or she is really convinced that this person is playing wrong with me, he will give me proves and not making trouble against my lovy without any reason. That kind of people just want to have their will, control. On the other hand with a little bit of a friendly behaviour everything can happen very smooth, funny and comfortable. A new family can be very nice. But anyway, you know, a chain is only as strong as the weakest link.
Exactly! I think that's the mature thing to do. Everyone wants to have their say so in something. Sometimes it's best to keep your mouth shut and respect your loved one or like you said, if they're wrong for you, let me know in a loving manner. I think a lot of times, people (family members) try to put their insecurities or disapproval onto you and your relationship. That's your crap and you need to keep it to yourself and you deal with it!
I'm sure his creative mind will definitely go to work. As I've stated, he's the same sign as me, so I wanted to know our close our birthdays are or aren't.
Just seeing how his sisters behave the groom might have realized ahead of time that no wedding ceremony would be a happy occasion. They would have been better off getting married in Las Vegas, having fun, just the two of them. It is notable to me that his sisters were the ones to use racial slurs repeatedly and I never heard any from the white family. If the bride's family had pulled out the N word in retaliation it would have turned into a straight up gang fight, and my money would be on the (groom's) sisters.
Exactly. There are some family members at least that you don't invite. We all have them. Sometimes they're our sisters, fathers, brothers-in-law, etc. Why put yourself through the agony?
