Racial tension erupts before IR wedding (video)

I posted a picture of a troll, but I'm guessing the link was removed.

 

Gotcha!

 

Maybe you're just kidding but if not you're highly confused.

Not really, as a man you're supposed to stand up for your wife first and foremost assuming she isn't the one escalating the situation.

None of us really know the true story behind this family/situation beside the short 3 minute clip provided but from the little we saw it definately appears the guys family/sister etc. were the ones escalating the drama. If this is the true case you don't let your wife get disrespected and mouthed off to by your sister.

You keep your cool and you take control of the situation. The guy did a poor job.

 

exactly. I got slammed for putting up thread for women to give their thang about men and a couple of dudes got hot mad. BUt they had no problem with the blondes or brunettes threads

if the man like her then he likes her. i dont care if she a big one or a stick figure. if she loves him then its all good

 

dude who cares if he is a chubby chaser . if he likes the woman cool. Im sure you are no TYSON BEDFORD. let me see your woman and let me decide if she is worthy

 

i have not seen the vid but dont need to . from your comments it would make me cry.

 

:smt038 :smt038 :smt038 :smt038

 

I should have know the sistas was the ones making the trouble.

 

I'm not saying he shouldn't stand up for his wife, I think he should and then some. I was saying he's between a rock and hard place cause it's a tug-of-war when you're family thinks one way and your significant other thinks another way. Point blank - you're torn.

I actually saw the show, but you're right, we don't know what goes on behind the scenes.

 

Don't get me wrong, I understand you weren't neccesarily saying that.

What I am saying is that you're not really "torn" or in a "tug of war" assuming your wife is the one being reasonable. SHE is the first priority in a scenario like this. He's not a little boy that should be torn between mommy/sissy and their opinions and his significant others that is about to be his wife. In a situation like this (assuming it's truely how we've seen it) there is no tug of war: you're with your wife. You keep your cool and you take control of the situation.

Now, i'm not saying i'm right or you're wrong or anything like that, this is just how I view the situation.

 

I hear you....

 

BUGAWOOF .... Damn, I'm going to have to remember that one

 

LOL

 

Tarshi, if you are in touch with people, who like to fight or to make problems in generally- you will find yourself always in situations like that. I will never understand, how you can follow them on their trace..

This video is sad, definitly. But why didn´t she break up immediatly, when the other one started to get rude? Stop- -let her know, she is not welcome tomorrow, turn round, leave. If she comes the next day, let her remove from the security or people of your family..

People. who don´t know how to behave or to talk, you don´t need to waste your time...family or not.

 

Be careful, you never know where life will take you.

She may not be appealing on the outside but you never know what she has going on that would make a man turn against his immediate family. Those are the kind of women that will fool you and catch you off guard because you didn't see it coming.

"Dime" pieces are very overated. They are good to look at but many times, thats about it. Halle Barry, Jennifer Aniston, Sara Bullock are some of the most beautiful women on the planet but they have a hard time just keeping ONE man. Some times there are reasons for this and it may not be the man's fault.

 

It´s correct, Kimbo, live can change, people can change, married people can divorce and be in a battle sometimes.

But concerning to the video.. the man decided at that point of time that he is going to marry that woman. And every one, who cannot respect it, also doesn´t respect that man (her cousin, brother what ever it is).

A family should hold together, everybody makes mistakes, but it doesn´t mean that everyone has to ask the family for allowance, who you are going to marry. They have to respect and to accept- and if it doesn´t work- to support.

 

This is what I said before..."dime piece" - might acctually be your worse nightmare and not worth throwing your family away for. If you are going to get married, family problems or not, "dime piece" should not be your definition of good marriage material.

 

Amen CD!

I come from a big loving extended family. We have our issues here and there, but overall, the bottom line is that there's respect. I would hope that if and when I get married, that that man will fit into that mold and more so because I chose to be with him. I'd also hope that his family would welcome me and not saying everything has to be smooth sailing, but enough to make me feel comfortable to want to add them as my new family. If that does happen, then we can bring our families together and become an even bigger family.

 

I see why you're LL Cool K....

 

I couldn't agree more and that is the mature way to be. But as you can see from the video, not all people think like that. From my own personal family, I have female relatives just like the one's in the video.