the wish list: what are you looking for in a man or woman and in urself

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Mar 14, 2010.

  1. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    I was talking on another thread on what I woould love to have in a woman to make a good relationship. well i dont want to sound like a simp but here i go.

    I got out of a bad relationship but it taught me to be more careful' , slow and listen to my gut feelings because most of the time my gut was rite. here is a list in a woman I want and the type of relationship I want and the type of man im striving to be.

    1) a loving and romantic woman meaning shes affectionate
    2) sexual . I love a woman who can dress sexy but not slutty . like I like tight jeans on a woman but she dont have to go all crazy with it . you know not ghetto
    3) most important loyal and dedicated.
    4) smart and wise. like women that are smarter and wiser than me so they can help me to make the rite decisions.

    relationship'
    1) communicating everything . from how to raise kids, politics and how you want your sex.

    2) just outright trust. that has to be earned with me now

    3) team work. come to understanding where we are going and how to get there and not work as seperates but individuals with the same goals.

    ME

    1) try to be more oragnized
    2) try to not be so self centered
    3) try to recognize I made a booboo and apologize
    4) try to stay romantic as possible so she can feel loved

    Im sure i can add more and probably will. what do you think you can add or what is your wish list
     
  2. z

    z Well-Known Member

    In a woman

    a uterus
    a pair of nipples
    undamaged sphincter
    and a single ovary will do

    In Me

    I am beyond repair. I have to be recoded
     
  3. Espy

    Espy New Member

    LOL! You charmer you.

    Personally I try not to go into anything with preconceived notions, it limits and skews your perspective. So making a list of desirable qualities isn't my thing. I think that just narrows the possibility of finding someone, I prefer to keep all options open.
     
  4. GirlieGirl74

    GirlieGirl74 Well-Known Member

    Damn, I was so close. :smt022
     
  5. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    exactly what i was going to say (minus the part where gz is a charmer). as long as he's a good man who'll treat myself and my children with love and respect and of course the attraction is there then i'd be happy.
     
  6. Espy

    Espy New Member

    You and I have entirely too much in common Tarshi.
     
  7. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    For me i'd like to find a nice mix. A dash of FG with a bit of Tarshi and Bookie,some IB and heavy on the Espy with a little Lippy and Shawty for desert and please hold the blackgrl I'm trying to watch my baggage.
     
  8. Espy

    Espy New Member

    :smt043 :smt043 :smt043

    But I assure you babe that after 'heavy on the Espy' there would be no need for dessert. ;)
     
  9. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    I'm sure you're right but you never know what you might have room for around midnight lol
     
  10. z

    z Well-Known Member

    No, you dont! LMAO.
     
  11. Espy

    Espy New Member

    Some people have a lot of energy you know, of course if it's a question of variety then by all means stock up babe.
     
  12. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    If you're up to the task of an all nighter than I'm down trust me
     
  13. Espy

    Espy New Member

    LOL! Big talk Andrae, like I said some people have lots of energy. Oh and may I remind of the added bonus, that fear you have isn't an issue with me babe.
     
  14. z

    z Well-Known Member

    This is a challenge that I would pay to see, lol. I got my money on Espy, she is a small town lady who owns up to her word... I dont know about you big city NYC folks. LoL
     
    Last edited: Mar 14, 2010
  15. tford

    tford New Member

    I'm looking for white skin, pretty eyes, a thin waist, nice ass and a great bust.

    Personality wise someone with manners, a sense of humor and who is disciplined but independent.
     
  16. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Damn I wonder how much tickets to Tulsa are lol
     
  17. Espy

    Espy New Member

    I'm always a good bet GZ. I always give 100% to everything I undertake, I'm very competitive, and knowing you had money riding on it would give me even more incentive. I'd feel bad if you lost $5 bucks on the deal. :smt036
     
  18. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    My game is tight fam. I can get some references lol
     
  19. Espy

    Espy New Member

    I would think the added bonus alone would be worth the price of airfare? That's got to get old.
     
  20. z

    z Well-Known Member

    Espy is prolly saying "you such a big talk, Andre" with her Okie/east Texan accent
     

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