Advice to a person who never dated outside their race

Yeah! No more negative talk....:smt018

 

Negative? Whats that mean? :mrgreen:

 

alabama and grew up in GA

 

I agree with you. its not so much about getting a beat down now but being shunned. but now a days it is more accepted but still not really totally accepted. But for the most part I should be more concerned about me and not what others think

 

You know shunning someone only works if you give a shit about what the other people think. Why would you care what anyone else thinks about who you date, it's none of their damn business.

 

like i said in the last part i chould be concerned about me

 

Possibly when you get older you will stop being self-conscience of those around you and live your life how you want.

There are plenty of blokes on here that fall into your category.

Just bear in mind action speaks louder than words. The longer you wait, the greater the chance your fantasy will never become reality. And for that my friend, you have no one to blame but yourself.

Cheers!

 

WoW, spoken like a true playa!


Good job Brit.

 

yes go test the waters

 

Often people fear the unknown, I imagine that has stopped many people from crossing the colorline. For some in the past it was probably because the racial tension that stopped them, because if not you bet your bottoms dollar that many more people probably would have dated more interracially decades ago. But hey, it's 2010 (so futuristic sounding, where's the hover cars?) and a new day. My best advice would be, is to be yourself. I know it sounds like the cliche' cheesy thing to say, but in all of my experiences it has always worked in the first initial connection, establishment of relationship and into the here & now of the relationship. Majority of people just want to be treated like a normal person, not only at the end of the day, but also at the begining.

 

well said rdo jr....!!!

 

yes very well said. YOU KNOW PEOPLE HOW TO DATE A WW IS KIND OF A SICK QUESTION.

I can understand the trepidation because of how some people make act or the feeling of a barrier but in the end we will not get killed for trying will we ?

 

I've actually always told myself that the worse thing that could happen from asking a girl out would be that she'd pull out a gun and blow my brains out right there on the spot. I've gotten some rejection and bruised ego here and there, but that's about it. Overall, no gunshot wounds or empty shotgun shell cases to be found. Gotta' just do it, like Nike.

 

YOU KNOW GOODLOVE, MAKING THREADS ABOUT BEING HYPOTHETICALLY GAY AND ASKING WHO YOU WOULD SLEEP WITH IF YOU WERE GAY IS A SICK QUESTION.

 

LOL. Well that is comparing apples to oranges. the hypothetical gay question is sick on a level of ewww Im not gay.

To me the questions of how to meet a ww or meet a BM or if you are a wm how to meet a BW are sick because we all are human beings and we all have feelings wants and needs . so to think we are of different species is kind of racists in a way.


which gives me an idea for a thread ?!!!?

 

You are of a different species: troll.

 

LOL

 

The how to meet whoever or whatever threads aren't 'sick'. They are just done over and over and over again to the point of stupidity.

And the whole "if you were gay" isn't sick either. Just kinda ... Weird. Alot of the threads you start really don't contain much info or relate to the site at all.

 

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