Every person is different. Sometimes a woman won't have an interest in you until you start talking to her. My suggestion: just go up and talk to her. She'll either let you know by her eye contact, her smile, her open body language that she wants you to ask her out. Confidence is key. Just go up and talk.
Depends on a lot of things. If the WW is privy to dating BM you'll find that they'll make their attaction to you is fairly obvious. If she's not, it'll be a bit harder to detect. Believe it or not, I think most WW who haven't dated BM tend to think that BM aren't attracted to them initially and therefore become hesitant to put it out there if they are attracted to one. Sheit, you should see the way some WW become extra friendly with me once they see a picture of me and my GF.
The right kind of WW think all BM like fat chicks, so they wouldn't figure you to be into them. Plus, their self-esteem is probably shot to hell by their asshole white boyfriends bitching about their weight or clothes, so no confidence. WW more than any other group work on the recommendation factor. If you're seen with one even as a friend, it's a green light to others. That's why I say make a platonic WW friend, 'cause chances are you'll be fucking a friend or roommate of hers soon, if not her. If you kill it, you know how girls talk. And once you get that pheromone on you that's it. WW you don't even know will gravitate to you. But be warned BW can sense the same pheromone Go forth and do good works. Your friend, Karma
This Is Good Stuff People. I Don't Hang With WW AT ALL... I Live In N.Y.C And While Taking The Train, Thats When I See The Beautiful WW. I'm Too Chicken To Walk Up And Talk To Them
No disrespect, but we're not some Alien life form. I'm sure you get nervous when you see a pretty Black chick, but still approach her. Think along the same lines. If you're not sure, smile at her and see her reaction. If the smile looks inviting, say hello and maybe engage her in some small talk.
In his defense we're constantly taught growing up that ww don't usually go for bm unless they're atheletes so I get where he's coming from[YOUTUBE][/YOUTUBE]
I understand that wholeheartedly. You know, I remember one day back in NY, I got the most attention from BM or men in general - ever. 5 dudes tried to talk to me. So not all BM in NY are not taking risks and stepping to White chicks.
Absolutely but some people aren't as priveledged as I am. I also have fourteen years od ww experience. I couldn't imagine trying to start with that now
i agree with joanie & ib. a smile, warm greeting and confidence is all you need. look at her body language it should be easy to pick up on and take it from there. good luck oh and remember we don't bite...unless asked of course :smt042
