Whitegirls using the n-word pt. 3

We touched on this before but now Im experiencing something different out of it. Whitegirls that are "down" using the n-word
being tolerated by some blacks. We know some brothas is cool with it if she is down...... Me its a no way ALWAYS! I will not respect her whether she down or not.

My friend's ex(he wasnt a close friend but somebody I have met a few times over 3 yrs.) a whitegirl that was a down ass whitegirl use to say nigga alot but she got the john mayer like hood pass because she was
down and dated black guys... She is with some white dude now, my cousin saw her the other day and was having a conversation and she had
used the n-word in the conversation. She (my cousin) said she felt uncomfortable because now that she is with a white dude(who was there with her.) and didnt sound right. Because was one of those ones that
was always cool with her saying it because she was "DOWN". Kind of woke her up too. because she said seeing that come out of her mouth while with her man next to her looked and sounded kind of racist. Im glad
she saw that and no longer accepts that but she doesnt know how to
tell her she feels uncomfortable with her using that word now, because she had been cool with her using it in the past.... I told her to tell her that
she had a change of heart of her using that word (because they are friends.) But she is finding it difficult to put into words after allowing to go on for the year and a half they been friends.

So wwbm.com world any thoughts, have you been in this situation, ect.

 

I dont think I can physically utter the word.
And I think it should die.

 

I don't give a shit if a WW is fucking 25 black dicks, the n-word from a non-black person is a NO-NO.

I always say that's like me going into Little Italy talkin 'bout "paisano." IT'S NOT MY WORD, WHY WOULD I USE IT?

The whole thing is a basic lack of respect for black people and they/we can have nothing that whites aren't entitled to, simple as that.

I don't care what kind of bullshit hip-hop "Oh it's only a word" shit people try to spin. IF IT WAS ONLY A WORD WE WOULDN'T BE TALKING ABOUT STUFF LIKE THIS.

I'm karmacoma. and I approve this message.

 

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I know there are BM who are okay with it, and even like WW to call them that, but I just could not do it. It's completely inappropriate for any white person to use that word in any context IMO.

 

There are some things one just shouldn't do.

That'd be one of them.

Personally I'd like to be able to look my mother in the eye again, and I couldn't ever do that if I ever uttered that word. It's not how I was raised.

 

co-sign. it's never passed my lips, never will. i even have a problem trying to say the word in my head

 

I despise the word. Makes me cringe anytime anyone says it. Whether it's one black to another, or a white to a black, or anyone just in general.

 

Agreed. I think the word should die. There's no reason for anyone to be using it, in my opinion. It's nothing but a negative word and it shouldn't be revered by anyone. To continue using it just perpetuates negativity all around.

It should be out of everyone's vocabulary.

 

The Hip-Hop Gestapo would beg to differ

 

Hahahahaha. When I use the word, its used to distinguish those who have no kind of fucking common sense whatsoever.

 

I know. I cringe whenever I hear it.

The only way to get them to stop is for people to stop glorifying the music that those words show up in...

Ah....I'm living in a dream world right now. It's a nice dream world. LOL!!

 

Problem is we have a generation of black kids (and others) who are off-springs of crack addicts.

I've seen and heard a mother call her 2 or 3 year old son that.

 

Then communities should start working together to make kids realize how horrible that word is.

 

BINGO

 

Yeah - I get that
But as long as black people are using it, there will be missguided white people thinking "oh, its ok - I have a pass, I can say that".

 

I'm a "down" chick, but I couldn't ever fathom using it. You definitely sound like a racist or a dumbass.

My cousin is half Rican and he uses it. Some might dispute that since Puerto Ricans have African ancestry, then it's okay. He doesn't look White, but he sure doesn't look White either. I don't think he should be using it.

 

I agree that it's confusing, especially to children, to hear black people using the term and then be told they absolutely should not. One of my son's friends tried to encourage him to refer to him with the n-word, telling him he doesn't mind and it's okay. I told him I'd wash his mouth out with soap if I ever heard that word pass his lips, regardless of who gave him permission to use it. His friend thinks I'm a hard ass, but that's just right up near the top of the 'words we don't use without getting our ass beat' list.

 

I think you have to be a person of low esteem to use, or want to be called that word. There is NO good meaning of the word for me. I hear them using it to one another in my 2nd grade class. I was told by a parent when I politely asked them to ask their child to refrain from using the word, that I was interfering with his cultural right to use the word.

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Hence, the offspring of crack addicts.

 

It just seem to me to counteract so much work that has been layed down by earlier generations.. dont they cringe when kids and young adults use it?
I think Rosa Parks would roll over in her grave.