here is question in regards to men. why do men lie to get the nasty ?

LOL

 

Lol

 

I love people that are up-front!
It makes thing SO much easier.
Missleading someone is awul and can really cause damage. I have the right to make an educated decission and not used.

If I was not in a relationship, I would, if it was the right man. and I have.
I have needs too you know and I dont like random sex so that would work for me.

What I mean with the right man is that there has to be a sexual attraction or its pointless... and the woman can not have any romantic feelings for the man.

I have had 2 of those type of relationships, I had no interrest in letting the relationships be more than just "for now". It was informed relationships and nobody got hurt and everybody had fun

 

But as I mentioned before- they are playing- many times, men have the bigger problem with different sex partners, if a woman thinks and acts the same way as they do..

 

i believe there is a difference between a player and a st8 up man. the players will tell everyone a lie. that is cheating.

str8 up everyone and i mean everyone knows he is dating other people.

 

Yes and no. In general I think every man is looking for a soulmate. But sometimes the player comes out. I don´t know one "born" player, it´s mostly a mask, they wear. Some are very young and want to have experience, some are disappointed and don´t believe in real love anymore.

What I wanted to say is, that as soon as you hold a mirror in front of them, they feel and see how wrong they act. Men are competitors and very jealous. They can have sex with a girl without any emotion, but if they meet some one right, it has its effect to them. If he is a player now or not.

 

you may be rite on some points but women are just as competitive if not more than men

 

Could be a topic for another thread...

 

true dat

 

have you lied to a man to get a little summing summing

 

probably the same reason why women like players and losers, they all think its a game

 

Because a mother fucker needs pussy from time to time.

goodlove, you should know. You're a mother fucker and a father fucker.

 

dang you nasty goodlove, better wrap it up or we will be burying you

 

exactly.

 

you guys (tuck and la ) are missing the convo no need to respond to you

 

Goodlove - it's like this:

If a man has enough balls to look at a woman, be honest and upfront by saying "I'm not looking for anything serious. I am just looking for some fun." then I would choose him over the guy who looks at me and says that "You are a dream come true." and other bullshit like that.

Men who lead women on and then dump them once they have gotten what they want is a little boy who is trying on men's clothes. They don't quite fit, but with enough camouflage, they can almost pull it off. Give me a man who is honest and upfront. That garners more respect from women.

 

yep....all you have to do is speak to a woman in a correct manner and she would throw aside her relationship standards because the guy stepped to her correctly.

I have done that plenty of times and ended up in a committed relationship. It was like stepping in gum. you are walking down the street watching your step and darn if you didnt.

My best relationships came from telling women I or she stating dont want the relationship. I would dodge the bullet constantly and ended up in one anyway


The only time a guy can get away with lying if he is going on vacation like he is going out of the country or something and you go to the club there and then you can lie. dont just give a small lie give a good lie you can back up. like Im a Physics professor at Yale or Im CFO at some consulting firm or something. those are damn good lies. You are never gonna see em again so go for broke.

 

Regarding your last paragraph: what are you getting out of saying you're a professor at Yale? I don't get it. I doubt a woman would drop her panties straight away if you tell her you work for Yale, lol. Maybe I'm wrong though... just seems wack that you have to pretend to be something you're not just to get some pussy.

 

Men have a problem with being themselves sometimes because they believe women go for men with titles that equate success and esteem. thus they will lie. What Im saying if you are going to lie do it where you know she is not going to see you again and make it a darn good lie.

Me myself..I just like to relie on what I say , do and my self esteem. You will be surprised how many people would resort to lying. go read the other posts just above me especially LA's. He is basically saying a man cannot totally rely on his mouth speaking the truth so he must lie.

My thing again do it where you are out of state by 3 borders and out the country. thus you know for a fact that you will not see em again ever ever in your life.

also there are a lot of women who go for titles and such. that is a fact. you dont believe me look at women how they act when a NBA star is in the club.