To follow the mood you have or the idea you have at that special moment. It´s not easy, especially, if the relationship is new, but it makes everything very exciting..
Where did you come from!!! You had to come from heaven! Now I see why your name is Inner Beauty. Women like you make a man want to work 10 times harder.
I agree with Inner Beauty in everything she said except that if the moment is conducive to the pulling of my hair, I do like it. As Christine said, each time will be different, no two sessions quite the same, but as Inner Beauty so succinctly and wonderfully described, the sessions are always full of passion, rhythm and sensuality that are pleasing for both the man and woman. Inner Beauty, how do you establish the rhythm?
I was born with it...lol j/k Seriously. If you follow his lead or he follows yours, you can feel it. You have to pay attention.
LOL at being born with it!!! Class!!! Yes, I get your meaning of rhythm now. It is the paying attention to the body language, the breathing, the unspoken desire in the eyes, the obvious and subtle responses to touch, voice, scent, sound. Do your actions lead more than your words?
Felicity, there's need to be condescending or facetious. :roll: I do have rhythm as far as dancing is concerned, hence the joke. I look for it sexually and with the man. Sounds like you know the answers already. LOL! I think it's all about being one with someone and making it a good experience. Sometimes that might not happen, but when it does, it's a wonderful thing. I think everyone has that goal.
I wasn't being condescending or facetious. sexual rhythm can mean different things to different people. I was mirroring your words to see if we agreed on what sexual rhythm is. I thought your joke was classy! I understood its meaning. Sometimes its more difficult than others to establish a rhythm and so I was wondering in your experience do you use your words more or your body language or a combination of the two to get the rhythm in synch for the experience to be pleasurable. How do you you get back in step if the rhythm is off?
Well, when you put the word "Class!" it made it sound that way. I use body language and motion to determine the rhythm. If I want him to keep at a certain rhythm, I'll tell him, "Keep it right there", "Don't stop" or "That feels so good". With those statements, if he's trying to please you, he'll heed those words. It's like riding a bike and you fall off. You try again until it feels right.
