lippy would like to see the link as well...man we are popular...everyone is always wanting to read what we have to say...we should start charging admission
You may not believe this, but I quoted the wrong person. My bad. :-| Meant to quote Tony's "GTFO" gif, but wasn't paying attention and quoted the quote he quoted, rather than Tony's post.
One of the rules of the internet is "pics, or it didn't happen". So, yeah, screencaps, or it didn't happen. And if you don't know how to take a screenshot of your screen, Tapdancingfool, it's the "printscroll" button, towards the top of the keyboard.
I probably shouldn't have said 'they' but many black men than people realize don't like Kerry or Halle anymore now that they've been with "crackas". They'll still look at the pictures though, lol. I agree, caring about who's dating who is more of a chick thing. I remember she had a white love interest in her music video 'Daydreaming' I think it was called.
Yes Tatyana Ali mostly dates whites boys, the scruffy kind too sometimes. But I still like her like most BM do.
Actually quite a few women HAVE been saying that Essence has been an irrelevant publication for years. People were particularly upset that one recent article suggested that women go looking for men in strip clubs. This cover was by no means the only thing that was annoying to many women. Not by a long shot. Racialicious and several other sites had some thoughtful and reasoned commentary on the cover and the mag in general. And what is and isn't stupid is pretty subjective.
You know if they are staring in the street, they are damn sure lurking/trolling on this site and that's one of the reasons we probably haven't seen a link yet. Some want to preserve the "Black Women don't really care" defense (Blood pressure monitors would indicate otherwise) and then counter that with the "Black men care as much, or would care if Black women started dating White Men". You've seen that argument used in this thread and I don't know if it's true, if (BW outdated/married more) but certainly up to this point, BW have been more vocal than BM in their dislike of IR. The various Black forums and the comments from BET that were posted here are evidence, and I'm sure this link would show some more of that and further destroy the "We don't really care" defense.. She's also probably concerned that we might harass the forum or she might be seen as betraying some level of confidence.