Liking Black Men Does Not Mean You Are Suppose to Dislike Black Women

Discussion in 'Stereotypes and Myths' started by blacgrl, Feb 17, 2010.

  1. xoxo

    xoxo Well-Known Member

    Deciphering a troll (Pt 2)

    I'm curious meaning I often think about Black men with White women.

    I'm mentioning White men just to let you know I have options like you Black men. Jealous yet?

    Just like I always suspected, BM and WW are together just for sexual gratification.

    Just thought I'd end my first post on a BM/WW forum by saying that the only reason White women are with Black men is because they have large penises. But instead of just out right saying it and not sounding like some stereotypical angry Black woman, I'm going to pose it as a question for thought.. “I wonder if?”

    Just because you date Black men doesn't mean you know Black men, you are only dating (renting) them, you don't know them (own them) like Black women do.

    Black men came from a Black woman, you're relationship with them could never be what ours is.

    I've always believed White women who like Black men have issues with Black women.

    I've always believed White women who like Black men have issues with Black women because they think I'm out to steal their man. (But I'm just saying this to make myself feel better because I know he's really not thinking about me).

    The only reason a Black man dates you (WW) is because he has issues with color, but instead of just out right saying that, I'll have to couch that with a term like Colorism.

    Stop dating/Marrying White Women!!!


    Now where's Robin Thicke at!!!!!
     
  2. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member



    Great Translation
     
  3. blacgrl

    blacgrl Banned

    If you got issues with black women I think that's not a white woman thing, its "your own thing" and basically something you need to resolve on your own. I know many white women that get along with black females. But for some of you maybe that bitterness you have for black women run deep and you need some help lol

    And fellas if your white woman thinks so little black women then how does she feel about your mother???
     
    Last edited: Feb 18, 2010
  4. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Please just give it up with the WW hate BW bullshit. Please show me where you've seen any WW on here going in on BW.

    Sounds like you've got a chip on your shoulder and want to be pacified. Ms. I don't have an agenda, but I really do.

    P.S Just cause we're pro-BM, doesn't mean we're anti-BW.
     
  5. Espy

    Espy New Member

    Anyone else notice how if someone makes a good point she just blows right past it and doesn't even attempt to respond, even if they address her directly? Instead she comes back with some ridiculous 'WW need to quit hatin' on BW' response. xoxo provided a very comprehensive two part assessment of her previous posts, and yet she says nothing to him. Rather obviously she's just got major issues with WW.

    And Andrae, some people don't respond to her because they know what her purpose is and they don't want to fuel her little pity party. Those of us who do respond just end up shaking our heads at her blathering responses that are full of confusion and outright lies.
     
  6. Inner Beauty

    Inner Beauty New Member

    Yes! She's very good at evading these responses. If she's making blanket statements and she's challenged, she should own up and respond. This is her chance to really debate her talking points and find out from those that she keeps questioning, assuming, accusing etc.
     
  7. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    kid gloves? she is kid...all of 22 years old...what do you want us to do give her a verbal lashing? what does that solve? we all know why she is here...we have seen it many times before...trust me this chick hasn't dated a white man and she certainly doesn't have a black man...she is bored and playing cat and mouse with us for entertainment value...these women quite frankly bore me with the same ole shit different day drama...it's not worth the energy a person must expell to try to get these women to understand that the black men we love have nothing to do with them personally...this sense of ownership of a men they don't even know...it kind of reminds me of small town america...now this has nothing to do with race but say you come from a small town and there are maybe 20 kids your age in the whole town...so your school plays sports against neighboring towns...cute guy from one town starts dating a girl in a town 50 miles down the road...all of sudden all the girls he grew up with say...wait, he belongs to us...why does he have to go date her when we are right here...grew up together...been friends forever...he should be my boyfriend...well, maybe he was just more attracted to the girl down the road....case closed

    as for the men here...absolutely the banter is on...call you out on things you say...object...disagree...it's foreplay darlin' enjoy it for what it's worth...
     
  8. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Apparently she's not intelligent enough to do so.
     
  9. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

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  10. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    TS I almost fell out of my seat good one bro.
     
  11. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Ok when you call it foreplay all I can do is bow and say "You just won this arguement sweetheart". You got this one :)
     
  12. chicity

    chicity New Member

    xoxo, that was just awesome & insightful. I wish I could give you rep for every sentence.
     
  13. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    Typical behavior.
     
  14. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    +1
     
  15. Espy

    Espy New Member

    Who the hell wants to be typical? That's like striving for mediocrity.
     
  16. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    Welcome to being Black in America. Enjoy your stay.
     
  17. xoxo

    xoxo Well-Known Member

    :smt043
     
  18. Espy

    Espy New Member

    BS, you are not typical. People can endeavor to exceed typical. Try shooting for exceptional or unique, anything but typical.
     
  19. chicity

    chicity New Member

    I love that phrase "striving for mediocrity". The last person I heard say that was Keith Hamilton Cobb.
     
  20. Espy

    Espy New Member

    I had a consultant for an employer tell me that once. "No one should aspire to perfection, you should strive for mediocrity". Pfft... yeah there's a great idea. Like I'm gonna get up everyday and give myself the 'today I'm going to do my best to live up to the pathetically low expectations set by my fellow co-workers' pep talk.
     

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