Are Black Men Really Cared About By Black Women?

My humble opinion, you go looking for bad and you will only see what you are looking for. :smt109

Never had any problems out of my exMIL or my SILs.

 

I see it cause it's there. That's not BM's fault that happens to us from prejudice women like that. That's just like a racist saying "if the races mix they're just asking for trouble." Does anyone on here stand up against hate towards BM?

 

I agree with you 100%. It used to be that you couldn't say shit about BW on this board as most of the WW here either

a) looked up to BW and want to be them, with their sassy attitudes and comfort with their curvy bodies,
b) had the proverbial BW best friend like in the movies (who secretly resents her dating "their" BM)
c) had a black girl child themselves
d) was one of those wiggerfied WW that hung out with only ghetto sistas

Lately though, WW have been seeing first hand the ugliness that BW spew about them and BM/WW relationships on other boards, all the while touting BW/WM relationships (the irony: WM love Asian Women).

That having been said I don't think we should dwell too much on BW because

a) it's basically giving them the attention they desperately crave and
b) taking attention away from what should be the main focus of this board, the WW who love us for the most part unconditionally.

To me, BlackMenVent or TiredBlackMan is more the venue to discuss BW and their faults

 

There is no intellectual feedback when it comes to BW...they are saintly..loyal..and filled with love for BM and WW.

Racist White america....and no-dick Black amercia.....has given them the RIGHT to bash BM to the world..in books..movies..magazines..blogs..ect ect..and they run with it like a mofo.

NOBODY accuses them of hating their fathers or making blanket statements when they tell everyone with ears that BM are no-good...DL...Aids infested....dead-beat dads.

WHAT OTHER RACE OF FEMALE CAN SHIT ON THEIR MEN NON-STOP WITHOUT FACING A SERIOUS BACKLASH?????????????????????


Sisters realize NOBODY will stop or challenge them when they SLAM THE HELL outta' BM..even WW that claim to like BM will take the sisters word whole hog...too damn stupid to realize BW can't stand their "becky" asses either.

I think WW believe sisters are their counterparts..that's where they got life all fucked-up.

BW are NOT the WW's counterpart.....the BM is.

WW come from a PATRIARCHAL enviroment where men run shit.

BW come from a MATRIARCHAL enviromen where women run shit.

Therefore..they are NOT counterparts.

 

Yes, it is there. That is the world we live in. But you dont have to let it get to you, that is your choice. One thing I learned in my years is that you cannot control what others do or say, you can only control your reaction to it.

Your getting worked up over someone you cannot control only affects you, and actually gives them (let me say it again, GIVES them, because it you have to give your power away, no one can take it from you) what they are trying to accomplish.

And now I am pretty much done because you arent looking for any advice, but others to jump on your bandwagon I guess.

 

As far as this topic is concerned, you never really miss something or appreciate it until it's gone. You had a good thing and you lost it.

 

This says it all. The irony is we weren't considered "good" until we were desirable to white women.

 

Of course I can't control what folks say and I do ignore it in my everday life. Wow :???: ,what a shame how some folks are here. I was just asking people here about their feelings on the discrimination and heartless ways of how BM are treated. And if you can even agree with that then you're part of the problem. I thought this was a place to talk about those things but it seems BM aren't cared about here either.

 

...............................

 

Damn good point fam. The only bw complain about dating ww are the ones they wanted so it's not that they don't like interracial relationships they're just pissed about not getting what they want.

 

The American Heirarchy between black and white america in a nutshell:

1)White Male
2)Black Female
3)White Female
4)Black Male

This is the sum of a research study done some years back and was highlighted on 20/20 some years ago.

As a black man, I have encountered those same problems. My wisdom has shown me that the best way for a black man to deal with this society is to simply tune it out and do whats necessary to be a productive male because in the end people only want results. Look at Quincy Jones and Harry Belafonte...They have strong reputations and have contributed much to black america even though they have white mates. And no sane person in their right mind would be foolish enough to contest that point. The moral of the story is...as long as you accomplish what you set your mind to do (no matter how small or large) , nobody can take away what you accomplish because determination demands respect...wether you are a Black Man or not.

 

Thanks much appreciated. I stick to that determination in my life.

 

Great points. Rep added.:smt023

 

LOL you better be lucky I didn't quote that shit :smt043