Who has the worst time - ww&bm or wm&bw?

Discussion in 'Dealing with Prejudice' started by maiseycat, Feb 21, 2007.

  1. blacgrl

    blacgrl Banned

    I would say wm/bw have the hardest time because of the violence that could escalate from black men. Some of them say very ignorant things as with most IR, but then a few of them actually cross the line to physical harassment. From a personal experience, its fairly common for the black guys in my family to date white women or any women for that matter. But when I brought my white boyfriend they gave him hell and tried to fight him. But on the other hand, I would get snooty looks from white women with a "what is she doing with a white guy" kind of attitude, but the white men were really nice and did not give me the cold shoulder. Of course, I never cared for those female brawds, but I was concern about my boyfriends safety around some of my black male friends because I can't control them.
     
  2. Espy

    Espy New Member

    This is really.... nah never mind I'm just gonna pass. So much BS, so little time. I'm not gonna waste 5 mins of my time pointing out what is going to be immediately obvious to everyone who wastes their time reading the afore mentioned BS.
     
  3. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    You and Lexington porcelainsnowbird should hang out you have a lot in common.
     
  4. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    May I ask, what is your purpose here?
     
  5. Espy

    Espy New Member

    World peace...
     
  6. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    lippy thinks it's interesting that this thread was revived...but if you go back and look lexington, ebonysungoddess and jeverage all posted in this thread...reincarnation:smt036
     
  7. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member


    you're too cute...
     
  8. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    :D
     
  9. All else being equal, WWBM have the worst of the deal. On average, WM are significantly higher earners than BM's, I'd wager that most BW who pair up 'out' do so with a degree of antipathy to black men and their traits.

    I'd also guess that divorce rates are far higher for WWBM than for WMBM, although I know so few of the latter I couldn't give any numbers. Some official stats on this would be good.
     
  10. chicity

    chicity New Member

    Hey, Imi. Get bored with Mass Effect 2?
     
  11. I dream of being bored.
     
  12. blacgrl

    blacgrl Banned

    I am telling you from my perspective and my experiences. When you say something I have to take your word but I find it interesting when you say something its suppose to be the gospel and you go out your way to tell other ppl how THEIR opinion and experiences are not acceptable. I guess this is a bogus question because maybe you think we are all suppose to say that bm/ww got it harder than anyone. If it was that hard, then the numbers would not be thriving as it currently is. As a matter of fact, I can tell you that bm/bw relationships probably have the worst time than anybody, because it sometimes perceived that any woman is right for a black man except a black woman
     
  13. blacgrl

    blacgrl Banned

    Pretty much like every other troll. I was snowed in and I was curious at this site when I came across. I was on another IR thread but it was for black women/ white men. So I ask myself what do bm/ww discuss, what are their perceived stereotypes and truths? I put my two cents in because there is a number of threads on this site that speak of black women in general, so if I am gonna be talked about I should at least have a say so lol The other IR thread that I was on speaking with various white men, we did not diss white women or black men not one time. I am surprise at how bw are often compared on this site
     
  14. chicity

    chicity New Member

    You say that as if Black Women don't commit violence against against interracial couples.
     
  15. chicity

    chicity New Member

    Perhaps that is because wm/bw couples can go on dates and live out their lives without harassment from White Women or Black Men. Why would you need to talk about White Women or Black Men? We don't bother you. We don't maintain thousands of gossip blogs about every last thing you've said or done. We don't make annual "sellout" lists with you in it. When was the last time you heard a White Woman mention WM/BW in a negative way on tv or radio?

    By contrast, when was the last time you heard a BW talk about bm/ww in a negative way on tv or radio? The last time you turned it on, perhaps?
     
  16. blacgrl

    blacgrl Banned

    It has been open season on black women especially from black men, I don't think I have to give you some examples of that, all you have to do is read what is being said about black women on this very site. I am sure you have heard black men say negative things about black women, but I wonder do you not get offended because these stereotypes comes in your favor? I condone all forms of racism even ppl who resent there own race. I would not date a white guy who is racist against white women because I think he has issues.
    And to answer you question I have heard plenty of BW talk about bm/ww relationships in negative ways on the radio just like I have heard BM talk about bw/wm relationships in negative ways. Its a black thing, only the black race does that at such an extreme, being black in America whether you are a female or male is hard, point blank, and I think some BM have internal issues with themselves being black and bash black women on the regular. BW have internal issues with themselves being black and bash black men on the regular. It exist on both sides, but I question why the flaws that black women may have bm and ww use that as a basis for propping up IR relationships between bm/ww? If you guys keep me out of the equation I would not be here in the first place. And before you get antsy thinking I got my black girl "attitude" on I wasn't trying to be mean just answering the question is all
     
  17. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    the reason you may not talk about ww and bm on a wm/bw site is because we don't come visit you...we don't really care what you all are doing because we concentrate on our own relationships...if bw get brought up here it is because you all are constantly in our faces about dating bm...on tv...on the radio...on the internet...now you come here and waste more of my time...for the love of god...focus on what is important to you and your own relationships...keep your eye on the ball...everytime a bw comes down this path all she is doing is hurting herself and affirming to the bm here why they are not dating you and your sista friends...the soap box is old and tired:rolleyes:
     
  18. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    Oh boo hoo hoo...
     
  19. SmoothDaddy101

    SmoothDaddy101 Well-Known Member

    +2
     
  20. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    WTH????
     

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