dumbass threads and people who love them

when lippy was a kid we used to play with trolls...they were these little brown plastic dolls not male or female that had WILD hair in every color imaginable...

to answer your question, cbq...this is the only message board i have ever made time for...i did try prisontalk.com when my ex first went to jail...but the women over there are crazy and i could not relate at all to any of the threads...the reality of that forum would make anyone an ex real quick

so, no...i didn't know what a troll was when i got here...

 

Rest assured that "dumbass threads" outnumber the threads that are thought provoking. That's the case on this and and just about every other forum on which you decide to spend time.

That's just the nature of the beast. The more people who join, the dumber the environment.

However, stick around and you may find 1 decent thread out of every 145. And that one usually makes the frustration of sifting through the other 144 worth the effort.

 

This. ^

"You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to chicity again."

 

what is really funny I have seen some crazy threads ( funny and just fun) then there are the ones that are just outright disrespectful. the ones that are disrepectful are loved and the word troll is no where in it but a thought provoking then there is bait ( i believe I can figure that one out)or troll every where .

at this time no one has defined troll. especially after the one stated " you dont know what troll means " and guess what ?

he did not defined it.

 

the problem is when you get any intelligent convo the word troll or bait comes out.

besides just because Im new does not mean I cant be observant and have an opinion.

the obvious is the obvious and the elephant needs to get out the room.

 

ohhhh dont have an opinion just blend in and just become a mindless twit or join the few here.

Im gonna go wyatt cenac on yall asses.

 

:roll: :butthead: :smt071 :axe: :smt025

 

I did in your other thread, however please allow me to point out that they hide information like that in books and on the internet. Try www.urbandictionary.com.

 

People who try to feign ignorance as to what a "troll" is, yet exhibit troll-like behavior.

 

Your right, not all questions and some answers don't always come from trolls.

However while there are really no stupid questions or answers, there some questions that never need to be asked and some answers that aren't based in any sort of reality.

Anything sex related in the regular forums is more than likely a troll move.

 

:smt045

 

ok I will have to check it out. thanks.

 

yeah. the assumptions part of it kills me. Now granted I never dated IRly but I can understand the frustration you guys have because people assume yall are dating because of this and that. when in actual it is because you like that person but that is another thread. For now lets stay focus on the fact that one thing is clear and that is people love the jerry springer talk.

It is bad that people have ill conceive thoughts that IR dating is bad or there is something sexual other than love.

 

It is not just the "assumptions" that people come in with that are a problem. It is way more than that. It is the fact that many people come on here just to trash these forums.

The thing is, this place is constantly trolled. Because of that, we have developed a paranoia on here. Please understand.

 

well lets point out the threads that are trashy versus the goodones . then let the writer of the thread to defebd himself/herself to see what is up?

also the fact when an intersesting topic come up then people get stupid.

I will give you one.... I believe I wrote one about now that Barack Obama is now president what is the perception of bm now. Now that was destroyed all day but next to it or other threads was glorified like big booty ww.

 

..so you're basically mad that people care more about booty than what you consider important subjects?

If the threads bother you that much then don't read them, unless it's less about the topics and more about the fact that your own personal threads are being ignored and you're feeling left out. If that's the case...well, just make better threads.

A lot of what you write is very close to incomprehensible and I mostly overlook what you say because of that. Which means regardless of what you're saying it doesn't even register on my radar, because it actually hurts my eyes to read such poor English. That is not a shot at you, it is the truth from my view. I've always had this problem, and it's likely not to go away. I can't stand reading bad writing.

If your problem is simply about "trashy" vs "good" then you really need a reality check. Both of those things are subjective to personal preference and morals, which means there can be no unifying standard except what popular moral a group chooses to embrace. In the case of this website the morals tend to be more open minded and given the large group of heterosexual men who frequent the site I'm sure you're in a small minority of people here who really would rather not look at a thread about ass or titties or any other variation of hot girls.

The point is...if the threads bothered you so damn much then why did you join? The ass threads have been up since well before I joined. They're not new. You are.

 

It is not about whether the threads are trash; that is not the point. The point is, how do people perceive your intentions on here?

 

goodlove you are obviously not fitting in here. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

Your friend,

Karma

 

Posting nekkid White Women... or Nekkid Black Men for that matter... is not evidence of a hostility towards interracial relationships, or even any sort of indicator of fetishism. There are times when people come here with negative agendas and post porn, but it is their negative agendas and not the porn that is the problem.

Everywhere on the net that Men congregate, porn will appear if it is not already strictly forbidden.

Strike that, I'm wrong. Everywhere in the world that Men congregate, porn will appear if it is not already strictly forbidden.

Leave 5 men in alone in front of a window, and eventually one of them will point out a hot girl and say something suggestive.

Leave 5 men alone in a room with a computer, and eventually one of them will look up porn.

Leave 5 men alone in a room with nothing else, and eventually one of them will describe a particularly interesting naked lady.

We are human beings. We like nekkidness when applied to the gender we like getting nekkid with.

None of that has anything to do with IR. This is the way the internet is, on every forum in the world.

The only thing different about this place is that many of the people here don't know other people who are attracted to the same type of people that they are. Here, they get a chance to say "hey, look at her, she's hot" without hearing "I do not judge the attractiveness of white women. They smell like wet dog. Stop offending me with your pasty nekkid pictures".

"Hey, look at her, she's hot" is an essential part of male bonding, and it is something that is occasionally denied to Black Men who date interracially. There is no reason to deny it to them here. The men are respectful, I've never seen any hateful or disturbing shit posted (unlike at countless boards populated predominately by white men, but that's another story), and they generally keep it to the locker room. And the women feel free to post their own nekkid man pics as well. And God bless 'em for it.

By in large, these pictures are beautiful. And beauty never hurt anyone.

 

As usual ChiCity, you are voicing my thoughts. Thanks for doing such a good job of it!

If you find a particular thread objectionable, feel free to engage the person starting the thread. They can opt to respond or ignore you, but perhaps you'll feel better for speaking your conscious?

What constitutes a good thread versus what constitutes a bad one is purely subjective. IMO if the person starting the thread really doesn't have the answer they seek, and it's a legitimate question and not an attempt to push an anti-IR agenda of some sort, then it's fine to ask. I'm not sure how old you are, perhaps you're young and therefore it's a maturity issue, or lack thereof, that prompts your attitude on this. If that's the case then you'll find as you get older that a surprising number of people are really ill-informed on any number of topics. Now I know a lot of us had people who encouraged us to research, investigate and acquire knowledge, but some people don't have that and therefore are sadly lacking in the knowledge department. Given that IR is still a taboo subject for a lot of people, there are bound to be people with lots of unanswered questions. Regardless of how stupid something seems to you, or how obviously false or stereotypical it is, to someone who has never heard anything differently it may seem like the gospel. Personally I'd much rather they ask for clarification than to operate under some really serious misconceptions for the rest of their lives.

If you think some of the threads are lacking in quality, skip them, move on to ones that appeal to you. Just because someone doesn't respond to a thread doesn't mean they are stupid, it just means perhaps the subject doesn't interest them.