A truly exclusive site to meet white women who want to date black men?

Hello I am no stranger to internet dating sites. So... the following opinion is based on having used these sites for the last quarter of 2009.

... has advertisements that state that singles.net has functions to facilitate black men looking to date white women. Yet not one of their search engines allows men to look for the woman's desired ethnicity in a man! Meaning a lot of time spent reading profiles of women interested in dating men who aren't black/african american/american negro!

... gives lots of lip service, but the women are not serious about dating just SNAPPING! Afroromance is a joke.

Web sites which use the word, "interracial"! Three-quarters of the women on these sites are looking for white men/latin/latino/pacific islander/native american! No disrespect intended. But I have an agenda in using these sites and it isn't about them!I'll state it again... None of them have a search parameter for finding profiles of women who want to date black men!

I have yet to find one site, that tailors it's services! Exclusively towards relationships between white women and black men! Are there any? If these sites do exist... How easy is it to get them to take a suggestion and implement it? Has anyone actually had success in dating or having even one
(1) date with a white female from these sites... That is if they exist.

soul7man (just my handle, there's no hidden meaning!)

P.S, snapping is f@#king!

 

lippy wants to know what snapping means? all this new lingo...i have successfully dated bm on match.com, plentyoffish and blackpeoplemeet...non are interracial sites...but to be honest the men i have a tendency to like the most are the ones i meet at starbucks, grocery store, whole foods or walking in city park:smt039

 

Damn! Only if I'm there to meet you in the person! :smt037 You're still looking so hot in your age!

 

i will be walking my mastiff...just stop and say hi:smt047

 

Doesn't anyone meet in real life anymore? Must we use the internet for everything???

 

Spoken like someone who doesn't make the first move or have to pay for dates lol

 

I have to agree to an extent with this statement. However, even before the internet there were dating services that people could go to, to find dates. The internet hasn't made that a new concept. It's just easier now because you can peruse peoples' profiles and pictures from the comfort of your own home and can take matters into your own hands, instead of having a "middle-man".

As for me, I was against online dating sites, but did eventually sign up for one, because it's hard for me to put myself in situations where I could meet potential single men, seeing as I'm a single mom and can't go out to places without dragging my daughter along. So, going the online route was the obvious choice for me. But, I'm with you, if I wasn't a single mom, I'd prefer to meet a guy the "old-fashioned" way.

I don't know what your statement has to do with what she said.

 

because Internet dating is an efficient and less costly way to get to know each other. Being a woman means that you tend to be less aware of the cost of dating. It also removes the uncomfortable fear of rejection.

 

I agree that the internet is replacing a lot of face to face interactions. But, like Bookie, I don't have heaps of time to spend looking for a mate.

I do participate in sports and have been a part of clubs (e.g. diving, hiking, outdoorsy stuff) and have met great people that way. But internet dating or simply meeting someone online, getting to know them a little bit, is much more convenient! It sometimes leads to wonderful relationships too! I am all for it

 

While I agree that it's a more efficient way of getting to know each other, I'll disagree with the rest.

Women absolutely know the costs of dating. But there are some women who either don't care if the man dishes out a ton of money and there are some who feel entitled to have a lot of money spent on them during the dating process. But not every woman is like that.

And even with my limited experience with the online dating world so far, I can tell you that there is still a fear of rejection and the point of being online has allowed men (as I'm sure women do, too) retaliate when they've been rejected. I was just told yesterday, as a matter of fact, after I told a creep that I wasn't interested, he lashed out at me and sent an email to me saying this: you really think guys want you? No, you have a kid.

Now, if we were face-to-face do you think he would have said that? Likely, no. But, then again, he was a creep, so who knows. But, because I told him I wasn't interested after he tried pushing me to go out to dinner last night and said that I should bring my daughter because he's "cool like that", especially after not having seen his face, I wasn't about to let this guy get near me and especially not near my daughter.

I sent this email to him: I'm sorry, but I'm just not interested.

His reply: you really think guys want you? No, because you have a kid.

Was that retaliation necessary? Did being online and not seeing the person face-to-face make the whole process of responding in that fashion easier for him? Absolutely.

There is a fear of rejection, but now these creeps have an easy outlet to retaliate when they've been rejected. Nice. So, there are pros and cons to the online dating world.

 

You don't have to write misogynistic comments just because you don't agree with someone. Though I suppose you are right. She's married so I don't think she's busy paying for dates or making moves on anyone but her husband.

Really though...I don't see why being a woman would change one's perception of how much it costs to date. We pay our own way, sometimes. And the one's who don't? Well I'm sure they know how much a meal at their favorite restaurant, gas from home to there, movie tickets, and popcorn cost. Women aren't ignorant of prices, some of them are just greedy.

Please don't act like we're all stupid and completely ignorant of all things concerning dating. That just makes it look like you've never been with a girl who's intelligence is above pre school level, and that reflects badly on you.

And, lastly...don't ever presume you know anything about being a woman until you grow a vagina and uterus. Before then it's all circumstantial evidence and thusly won't convict in a court of law. Meaning you're probably wrong.

 

Fixed

 

Now Andrae you know this isn't going to fly with any of the women around here. I know from other threads that you happen to be one of those men who pretty much always pays for everything, and so I understand what prompted your comments, and I understand that they aren't indicative of you having a low opinion of women in general. But you can't merely assume that all the women in the world are like the ones that you happen to have known, that's not accurate nor appropriate. I sure don't want to be judged by the depressingly low standards apparently set by the women you've dated, and I doubt anyone else does.

As for women being less aware of the cost of dating, I would think your experience would contradict that. Clearly they're aware of what it costs, hence why they prefer you do all the paying. If you think the women you date are incapable of calculating the cost of the date, you are either dating some really intellectually deficient women, or they've got you completely fooled. Either way, you need to up your standards sugar.

I've said it before, but it bears repeating... women should have no issue splitting the cost of a date with a man, that's only fair. I don't know how they can allow anyone to foot the bill for them, I just can't do it, I have to pay my way or cover the whole cost. It would make me really uncomfortable to sponge off someone, in fact I just couldn't do it.

 

Agree - Andrae for your sake - if you encounter a woman that expects you to pay for everything and have no qualms about that.. RUN!!!

A first date(s) should never be a dinner - too expensive - and you weed out the women that take you for a meal ticket. Do something free or cheap.. a walk in the park, coffee etc. The women that only want the free meal will weed themselves out and the ones that are honestly interrested in you will stick around.

 

I couldn't agree more. You don't know if you'll even like each other, so why drop $100 to find out you don't?

You should be doing something cheap or free on first dates. The cliche of meeting for coffee or something along those lines is a good way to not spend a lot of money and a good way to talk to each other and get to know each other. And hey, you could always get dinner later, if you're both liking each other enough to extend the date.

 

SNAP is short of almost every Four letter expletive I can imagine. As for SNAPPING well that is F@#$ing!
Tell Lippy do you dance?

Soul7man

 

Wow. Are you sure this guy isn't a regular (troll) here?

 

An exclusive site where black men can find white women who WANT to date us!

Alright, the topic has diverged towards internet dating. I need input on finding white women to date!

Soul7man

 

Go outside. Look for pale people. Find one with boobs. Ask her out.

 

Yep, I'm sure. He's just a creep.

For every man to say that all women are crazy, well, there are just as many crazy men out there, too!

LMAO!! :smt023