what are your tips for meeting a woman or a man ?

Ok here we go. man to man , woman to woman, men to woman and women to men. lets trade advice on successfully meet some one.

what to do .

what not to do .


lets start ......

MEN

You must have in mind that there is an opportunity to meet the one at any time so be ready. she could be anywhere .

when i do see a woman i also way put my mind into mack mode.
mack mode. is getting in the mindset of being the person who can say the rite things and do the rite things.

so i put my mind in who would be the type of person who would always say the rite things. ..... Barack ( smart / intellectual) Barry white and marvin gaye (deep voice and smooth talking ) , denzel and barack ( smooth walk ) , robert deniro/ al pacino ( gangster confidence) . all mixed together and bam mack mode. ooooops one thing every mack needs a theme song for the moment. mine is teddy pendegrass ( come on go with me ) .

my first advice on the approach.

be prepared before you even approach. get in the mode.

 

Women

Be urself and don´t pimp ur titts!

 

When I was reading it, my first thought was- and where are you? Between all those famous characters is there some space for yourself?- but anyway, I am not sure if I understood you correctly..lol

For women

You are right- be prepared, he could be anywhere..

Give people a chance and look at them seriously--

be yourself- he will unmask you, be sure..

Give him something to hunt- if he cannot hunt you - he will hunt some one else..

 

LOL. I like that come back.

the mode means sort of like putting yourself in the mood in a way.
it is more or less a mind set. acting but acting yourself but being the extracting some characteristics from those other famous characters.

each character is what a woman wants to a certain extent.

1) A man who is confident- meaning he is not afraid to stand up for himself and speak what is on his mind in a courteous manner but will speak his mind in a gangster way if the situation needs to be that way which leads to number 2

2) women want to feel as though a man can be a protector/brave despite todays message.

3) women want a man who is romantic and affectionate.

4) women want a man who is intelligent and wise.

 

women

give a little hint that you are interested. such as a small glance with a smile. or a touch on the arm.

the best thing you can do is start a small convo.

trust me you dont have to dress really sexy to get a mans attention. at least for me.

 

Men AND Women

Just be yourself. There is no greater "tip" than that.

 

http://whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=5478

 

Rule #1....there is no such thing as THE ONE, it is a myth fabricated by society. You know how you mother told you about santa claus to keep you actin right thru out the year, well guess what? THE ONE is a myth fabricated by society to keep your navigating within their rules also. :smt023

Rule #2....dont take relationship advice from single people.

 

:smt045 So true.

I don't think "looking" for someone is the right attitude to have. I think everyone should forget about finding a partner and just get out, enjoy life on their own and it'll happen naturally. That's how it happened for me. :smt054 I've never been concerned with finding a boyfriend/partner, just with enjoying my life. And I met and married a fantastic, wonderful man whom I love and adore, and who loves and adores me just as much.
How did we meet? We met while I was out making my life more interesting. Everyone I've been with I met this way. Didn't look for it, it just happened.

I say again...You can't force it, it's just got to happen naturally.

 

LOL. You can take relationship advice from committed people but step back and take a look at them. For starters looks are deceiving. there have been cases where women have been cheating on their husbands for years but are in church praising the lord and swearing up and down how much they love their hubby.

do you want relationship advice from them.

also this is about meeting that someone you see that is attractive to you. this is not about having a deep clissful relationship BUT we can talk about that if you like.

that would be fun and informative.

 

Absolutely!

:smt023


Cheers!

 

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Yes that's who you think it is - Sir Mix Alot (Anthony Ray)

GPM -

• Girls
• Per
• Mile

 

I cosign with that but the thread did not ask how to meet ww . it asks how to meet that woman or man. i did not mention color. women are women and men are men. yes the phenotypes are different but we have a lot in common.

 

the problem is that your relationship and how it came to be is ideal but it is rare. I am very envious of you. you are a smart woman to love a man who is a NICE guy.

 

I agree with you. it would be a necessay thing to just go find out. sometimes the color barrier does come into play but it shouldnt . i hate that because it is a part of life.

on the other hand times are changing and the color of dating is being crossed more and more

 

turn off your computer and go outside:smt043

 

it is funny you say that. on another thread we are talking about online dating. we talked about the perils of it. IE. can you become socially dependant on a computer instead of meeting people face to face or is good to meet people over the net.

 

i have met people both ways and have a tendency to actually date people i meet in person longer...i think alot of people use the internet to entertain themselves...pacify the inability to get out and meet people on their own...many use it to boost their egos and end up kidding themselves into thinking they are actually marketable in the real world...i hate the long drawn out countless emails and IM chat when many have absolutely no intention of ever meeting anyone...i just don't have the patience for it anymore...put up or shut up simple as that...i don't subscribe to all the social networking ie myspace and facebook...rarely get on yahoo or aol IM...i'll email for a short time but even that loses its luster...i would rather meet people face to face and get to know them...i like physical contact:smt050

 

yeah I agree. I like doing this because you can exchange ideas with people all over the world and it is fun. as for dating Im not sure about it because I never met anyone that actually dated someone because of the net. Im not sure if the net thing was a scam or not.

also im not with that email dating thang like u mentioned where they have a relationship over the net but dont want to meet. that is a waste of time.

when u stated you had longer relationships with people u met is that people you met via net and then met in person then dated or was it with people that met you at a store or nite club or something of that sort.

 

Amen, sister! That post is an unintentional explanation of your signature. Now, regardless of the depth/length of connection sought, the internet has it's place in matching common interests/goals, but at some point SOON, yeah, flesh has to be squeezed, or the answer's "No thanks".

And by "soon", I'd say smart cut-off point would be around the 4 week mark. Then drop 'em like it's hot.