How Do You Feel About White Men Being Here?

I'm curious. If you have a daughter and she dates a black man, will you treat their relationship as a mere fetish and sexual satisfation for yourself?

I actually had no issues with you being here. But the more posts you make, the more uncomfortable it makes me that you are treating our personal lives as a way to get off. You've still yet to explain WHY exactly you're here apart from finding a white woman with a black man 'beautiful.'
If I've missed your explanations, my bad, but please direct me to them.

 

Yeah, I was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt, but his posts are a bit off putting. He's just like that weird Dutch guy that used to post here and insult the women. Fortunate, there's the forum has an "ignore" feature which is coming in handy these days.

 

When did I ever insult any of the female posters here? I'm certainly willing to listen to criticism (not from that Frederick character) but I have to defend myself against any comparison to racists or misogynists that may have visited the board from time to time.

 

Hey Russia,

I have no kids so I haven't even contemplated that question before. I can only point out to you that the three of us were all consenting adults and we all enjoyed ourselves.

I'm here for a variety of reasons but appreciation of WW/BM unions, the death of the taboo and the terrific imagery would be the main reasons. Hope ya don't mind!

Lastly, I appreciate your non-judgmental attitude towards all of this. Too bad that some others (a distinct minority of "lipstick" and "frederick") have chosen to be so intolerant.

 

While I feel that you have every right to be on a public forum, no matter the topic, it does make me very uncomfortable having someone here who is only here because they get off on the idea/visual of ww/bm.

I'm here because I'm a white woman in a commited relationship with a wonderful Kenyan man. I feel comfortable talking to and interacting with others in my situation, or who wish to be. Not the sex part (although that's good and always interesting to discuss) but the relationship part. Hearing the point of view of bm, other than my husband and his friends/family, and ww who date black men, is both interesting and educational for me.

This is a social forum, not a sex/fetish forum and I don't want to talk about my private life if I know someone else is getting off on it like it is some weird fetish. That disgusts me.

It probably would have been better if you'd never told us you were white. Now it's just uncomfortable.

The ignore button is great, but it doesn't stop the person you ignore from seeing your posts.

Having said all this, you are still welcome here, the world is not mine to control and everyone has the right to participate in this forum. As I said...this is a public forum, but that's just the way I feel.

 

I think that he's as "harmless" as his forum name implies. I haven't gotten any weird vibe from the posts I've read of his...

I think people are focussing too much on it. He's not asking to hear experiences and things....

 

he doesn't have to ask...you just told him all about your orgasms in another thread...LMFAO:smt096wonder if he shot a big load after that...

 

Hmm....I didn't realize he was the only male on this whole forum. I also didn't realize that I mentioned skin color in my replies.

I'm also fairly certain that he has already found your numerous fantasy threads where you go into much more detail than I ever would on a public forum. I wonder what he did after reading those? Because I'm sure none of the other males on this forum did a thing after reading any of that. :roll:

 

trust me i am not at all thrilled that he is here...fortunately the stories are pure fantasy and do not reflect my real life stories...just to be clear that is exactly what fantasy writing is about...having someone put themselves in the story in order to ignite emotion...that just means i'm a good writer...touche!

 

Be careful, Bookworm. You're making way too much sense for this lipstick character.

...and what's with all of her accusations about jerking off to fantasy stories? Some of these girls can make a man blush.

 

Your justifications crack me up. But whatever helps you sleep at night.... :smt023

And anyone can write an erotic story.

 

Hope you can find a website or a group on BP that caters to your desires for Black women. It is like a WM getting off on the stereotypical relationship of BM/WW.

 

really? great...go for it bookworm...i keep hearing about you being a writer but i have yet to see much more than a co-sign out of you...show us your stuff...give a whirl...i can hardly wait:smt042

 

You really do crack me up, lipstick. :smt042

I don't need random strangers on an internet site to validate my writing skills or my attractiveness. Because at the end of the day, I can log off this site and be secure in who I am and what I can do.

So, I won't be taking you up on your offer because I don't need to.

As for the co-signing...well, you can figure out the reason I do it, can't you? :smt079

 

With great, heaping amounts of respect to both Bookworm and Lipstick, neither of which I have beef with...


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it is not true that anyone can write an erotic story. Specifically, most dudes. Srsly. If you happen to have a penis, you really shouldn't be writing erotica. Just stop. Please. For the good of humankind. Just stop.


http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2004/dec/14/awardsandprizes.badsexaward

 

LMAO!! Just because I said anyone can write an erotic story, doesn't necessarily mean that I think everyone can do it well. :smt042

Wow! :smt107

 

eh?
Who wrote that? A dog fixated Pathologist??

.. and "Hoyt"? Really?

:smt030

 

How do you sort of put your hand under her thigh? What does that mean? I need a picture. :smt042

 

Oh dear gods!! :smt009

We NEED a thread specifically to post snippets from bad erotic fiction. That is just priceless! It made my day, it really did. :smt005

 

Yes yes, you came up w the idea Sin. Start it! It would be splendid!

Love the idea!