Why do black women do this?

Why don't black women warn other black women when they're attracted to white men? But if black men finds white women attractive, black women will get stereotypical and warn them about white women, making examples of Tiger Woods and OJ?:smt013:x

I'm asking because my mother was watching a show featuring a black woman with a white man, and she was saying black women were leaving black men because we're no good. I said "Imagine how we feel about y'all". She jumped to the conclusion talking about the examples of Tiger Woods and OJ.

I think she wants me to stick to black women. She's not helping my view on black women. If more black women pull this crap, it would drive black men away from them and possibly make them more paranoid of women of all races.

 

How is your Mom gonna say Black Men are no good?

That is completely messed up.

 

What do you mean with warning about white women?

Tiger Woods is Tiger Woods..OJ is OJ.. they have nothing to do with the rest of the black community.. neither in their own town, continent nor the rest of the world.. They live their own lives and have their own pasts and influences. Or how many others have the money or the talent of him, too?

You find white people and black people which are cruel, greedy, insane or powerful, helpful, successful.

My son would be a great gentleman,intelligent and a reason to be very proud of, no matter which race, that I know 100%!!

 

Black men are still warned to this day. OJ and Tiger re used as examples, as is Emmitt Till. To hear it come from the mouths of many blacks, "white girls are trouble." That they will get you arrested, or physically harmed.

One thing to keep in mind is that a lot of people have racial mindsets that never progressed beyond the 1950s and 1960s.

 

Black women

I think that maybe black women are scared to lose there men to white women. I know my ex-husbands even though they didn't have to much of a problem with me they did talk alot about white women taking there men and that it's bad enough whites think they need to have everything else now they want to take there men. So maybe they just feel they are losing everything else at least they could keep their men. I am not to sure though. I do feel bad because when I met my ex-husband he was already in a relationship with a black women but I did not find this out until about a year later when they had already ended it because she found out he was with me and we were expecting are first child.

 

exactly what i thought. how could a mother say that to her own son?

 

I of course can only speak from my conversations with my friends and what I've seen and heard. Black women feel unappreciated. They're not represented as the standard of beauty and they're very loyal to their men. Regarding the standard of beauty, even if a woman is Black, but if she's light skinned with long hair, they see it as you don't find a real "Black" woman attractive. In regards to being loyal, a lot of BW don't interracially date, and they really want a BM and keep the Black family going. So if a man is going after a non-Black woman, they feel like it's a slap in the face. It speaks volumes to them, even if it's not really the case.

 

BW don't really want BM..they just don't want anybody else to have us..LOL

 

BULLSHIT.

Sisters would kill to have the attention from WM that Asian women have.

If BW were loyal they'd slam one another for dating IR just as they do BM...they sure as hell wouldn't be all "you go girl" about it.

Damn near every neo-nazi on trial has a BW to testify he isnt racist...that ain't loyalty.

Telling the world(and they're children) we're nothing but no-good dogs on the DL is not loyalty.

Giving their Black sons hilarious made-up names like T'buckey and Omarion is not loyalty...they don't give their bi-racial children those funny names....loyalty my ass.


Middle-eastern woman are what I'd call loyal....BW...get real.

Sisters have been with every man under the sun...and now that BM have the same freedom..they...like WM...cry fowl.

BW don't appreciate anything or anybody black.


Another thing you must realize...BW were THROWING themselves at light-skinned BM LOOONG before BM even had access to light-skinned sisters.


Limit your comments to what you KNOW about..not some shit you overheard or something you read in one of those sista-girl magazines.

 

Come on brother, there is a war going between black women and black men. Unfortunately, black women will win it. They are smarter, better organized and have media and government behind them. Black men are nothing but boy toys to them.

 

I have just realized that many BW are raising their sons to be the men that they claim they don't want. A couple weeks ago, I saw a BW call her litle 2 or 3 year old son "little nigger".

About the light-skinned thing. I saw this shit myself in grade school. Little black girls would talk about how cute a particular light-skinned boy is, but when the boys would ask a light-skinned girl out, all the other girls would complain "he like her cuz she light-skinned".

Because society (along with the black psychologists, egg-headed academics and authors) tend to be sympathetic towards BW self-esteem, they are implying that BM should only have sisters who look like precious. I know it's politically incorrect to say, but there is truth to it.

 

Because they are no good.... that's why I like them :smt042

 

Only the ones that fit your criteria Thick.

 

Don't tell me what and what not to post. You don't know what I know. I just didn't get into details. I'm not a BW, so yeah, I can't speak from their perspective. I kept my post very broad. I see you have such disdain for BW. I actually didn't get into details and mention things that my closest friends have done and said, but I didn't want to go there.

I remember the light skinned guys with light eyes being "in style" back in Jr. High. Cause I was caught up in that for a second. Then in HS, my boy came up with the "Ben Vereen Movement" where brown skinned guys would be in style. It was funny, but not funny at the same time. It spoke volumes as you and I both know.

 

What do you know about Ben Vereen? LOL

 

I don't have a disdain for anybody...but MANY BW have a disdain for WW like you.

The very fact that you claim BW are loyal to BM(LOL) only proves you don't have the knowledge to comment on BM/BW relationships.

Stay in your lane.


BW don't have shit good to say about WW...especially when they like Brothers.

You're taking-up for women that hate you.

 

dayum

straight drama up here


lol@smooth daddy's precious comment

he finally lost it

 

I'm old school....lol

BTW, SD, I didn't mean any harm when I asked why you were on here. I was just curious and from your answer, I understood why. Happy belated Bday.

I'm not naive to anyones agenda.

I said that many of them were loyal in the sense where they don't want to date men of other races, they'd prefer YOU.

Two of my friends used to be very militant.

One used to be very turned off by BM who dated "others". It's like they were tainted to her. She finally got over that.

Then my best friend hated IR dating, yet ended up with a WM once, but said she fell in love with the person. Cause she was never attracted to WM.

I know you're going to say that they talked shit about who I date and hated me for dating "their" men. I'm not going to go back and forth on this.

Carry on...

 

I see you edited that cause you had to "check me".

I came at you respectfully. I see you can't do the same.

Get your dick hard by trying to belittle someone else.

I'm done.

 

First it's "all the good black men are being taken", then it's, "black men are no good". How many different complaints are there out there?