What's going on with you?

geez thats not good francie, they have a laundrette near you or a nice friend with a washer dryer?, couldnt cope without my washing machine

and go on wear the cocktail dress, it might cheer you up ( so long as it comes with a bottle of wine or two )

 

a little dose of chloralhydrate works wonders, out for the night in under 5 minutes

 

Let's take a moment of silence for my departed files.


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Had to completely format my computer. She works now, but all my junk is gone. *weeps*

 

Awww damn. That sucks. External hard drives are the way to go. And they're hella cheap. And the storage space gets bigger and bigger. They're up to 6 FUCKING TBs!!!!! OF course, who needs ALL that. You can get 500 gigs for like 80.

 

Being on a dating website has taught me a lot about myself. By the way I'm handling things, I've realized not only how ready I am to be dating, but also, that I've finally grown up and am now taking care of me.

I sometimes feel bad for thinking the way I do, but when a guy displays even the slightest needy behavior, the first thing I think of is: done.

Before, I would have given him the benefit of the doubt. But I'm so done with drama.

This is just one of many scenarios: a guy gave me his number on Sunday. I thanked him for it and told him I'd text him probably on Tuesday. So, today, being Tuesday, at like 1 p.m. I get an email from him saying: how are you? I'm still waiting for your text.

I read that last line and immediately thought: done.

Maybe that's wrong of me, I don't care. I don't want a needy man who already brings drama into my life before I've even talked to him. Even the smallest amount of drama displayed now, is just a precursor for later.

Another guy on IM told me he doesn't easily trust people. I immediately thought: done. LOL.

This has been quite the learning experience for me.

 

Dont feel bad
I do the same thing....
That behavior highlighted above, I would go "done" as well.

 

Thanks. :-D

I was a little worried I'd be labeled as "picky", but I've just had enough drama in my life to last me a lifetime. I want a guy who is secure in himself to not display these types of behaviors. And I have found some guys like that, so it's all good!! :smt023

 

I'm on a few sites as well, and met some new guys, but not in person yet. I was conversing with one guy in particular who gave me his info and I texted him and we've texted a few times. He said he wanted to meet soon, but thought we should catch up over messages (this was in between a break from not talking). I said okay, but I'd like to talk on the phone first. He said he'd call me the next day and never did. So I was like, forget him. He texted me today and wanted to meet, yet I thought he said he wanted to talk more just like I did. I told him I'd feel more comfortable that way. He said he'd call me tonight. Again, to no avail, no call. He's wasting my time by saying he'll call and not doing so. If you're busy, cool, but don't say shit if you're not going to do it.

 

Yep.
Forget that dude IB.
Seems like too much drama imo.

 

Yeah... I wasn't taking him too seriously after he said he'd call and didn't. I know people are busy, but we all know when someone wants to do something, they make time and do it.

 

I agree completely.
Time is too precious.

 

Exactly!

I'm 37 and he's 28...lol He has a lot more time to waste than me...lol

 

LOL but you have more than meeeee

 

I do?...If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

 

Right passed the 4-0.

Yukk

 

Girl, you have it going on...you're the Halle Berry of WWBM

 

lol...yes and she's all mine...rubbing hands together gleefully

 

LOL!

I want to personally thank you both for the reps you've given me. I, in turn had to rep you both as well...:smt052

 

Thank you girls!!! You made me grow like a few feet!
Lubb U berry beryy much!!!
XOX

 

You've been nothing but nice to me and I appreciate that. You're very welcome.