Question: BM always ask have you ever dated a BM

I have never only dated black men or white men I have always dated both,
1st husband was indian, 2nd husband was redneck LOL, When I was younger the black guys I dated never questioned if I had dated other black guys. I was married for 5 years and dating again now and the 1st question every black man I talk to ask is "have you ever dated a BM?" I'm just wondering why this is the 1st question i'm asked?

 

I have never had a BM ask me that before, it tends to be the WM more often than not who are more concerned with that, just in my experience of dating both

 

I've not had either ask me about other races in my dating past.

 

Well I have only dated one WM so my above mentioned experience with them is limited! x

 

Same here.

 

I've been asked a few times by black men whether I had dated a black guy before..

 

Same.

 

You gotta make sure they know what they're in for

 

what do you mean:smt102 stereotypes are the root of evil...what about the poor girl that is under the misguided assumption that all bm have large dicks and can really put it down...wait till she meets mr. 6' 4" 252 pounds of gorgeous bm only to find out he has a short skinny one and he pops in 2 minutes
:|

 

who let out my bed room story? SMH.

 

where did you get anything about stereotypes from my post? i like to know sometimes cause if she has before shes likely too again

 

let's go back to the original question, you responded that a bm asks the question so that ww know what they are in for? what exactly did you mean? other than the obvious??

not sure what you are referring to but the point i would like to make is that no black man that i have dated in the past is going to be able to help me with the one i may be dating next week...rarely do i find two men that are exactly the same in anything that they do

 

:smt042:smt042:smt042 And I'm done. :smt042

 

Lippy, I'd appreciate it if you don't put out my business like that again.

Thanks in advance,

Newpowermoves

 

Looks like we're going to need a forum seminar on techniques & strategies for 'Staying Power'. I like to focus on holistic strategies before reverting to the blue pill technique lol:smt033

 

Yes, but only by none British black men, ie. African men or American men.

 

lippy didn't name any names...you just told on your self npm:smt051

 

That girl you didnt give train fair to
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:heart:

 

:smt043ahhhh lippy, have i told you lately how much of a crush i have on you...??? :heart:

 

cheetah!!!
:smt077