NYC White Women

LOL, this thread reminds of a Spike Lee movie.

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Absolutely.

 

Hmm, neither have I.

A friend of mine recently met a woman in Vegas who's studying law at USC. When he showed me and three other (black) friends her picture, no one mentioned that she is white. That didn't impress any of us because we've all dated women of countless backgrounds here. What did impress us is that she attended Harvard and was fairly pretty. When people pass out extra points based upon skin color, they give the other party a free pass to not be interesting or even likeable, just a warm body with some superficial characteristic. Why even have a preference beyond finding someone kind and smart?

I once dated a (white) woman from Santa Cruz, who now lives in Portland, and she told me that there is no such thing as "interracial" dating in either place. I think the same truth largely holds here as well, as there is no reason to invest such a thing with unique properties. You are just dating someone, that's it.

I welcome the indifference.

 

I like this concept, I like it a lot and I would give it rep, but I don't think I have enough to give. Very nice though

 

Very well put!!!
Completely agree!

 

I find it very odd that some New York residents are stating Manhattan is not liberal in which, intertwining with the opposite sex that offers a different complexion than them selves is very difficult. Are we talking NYC here?

Where should I start!

Soho

Noho

Union Square

Chelsea

Tribeca

Possibly the ones having difficulty should take the following into consideration. Is there a chance that you walk down the street with a frustrated look on your face? Could it be your body language? I find meeting girls from all walks of life in The City is far easier when I offer a pleasant demeanour. If you come across loud and vulgar, you will not meet many women that offer a lighter complexion than yourself. That type of behaviour may ensure great results in a Club but not on the streets of NYC.

What I am about to say is in my opinion (based on real world experience) is the most valuable key. If you do not have any friends that are not the same pigmentation as the women you are pursuing, you have a greater chance of encountering obstacles than a bloke that does.

Although, your pursuit is primarily White Women you might find my story intriguing. When I first came to the States, I began working part time in a shop that sells clothing. There was a bloke in my department that was Chinese. We became good friends and, one day he noticed I was eyeing an Asian girl. Since we were friends, he not only told me how approach Asian girls, but gave me a tutorial on facial differences among Chinese, Japanese, & Korean Women. Those tools enable me to pursue any Asian girl I fancy, determine her place of origin and, use it as a means of leverage to win her over.

Good luck on your pursuit to meet a White Woman.

Cheers!

 

Note taken

Well all this talk is about the city, I'm more centered in brooklyn anyway.

Hey complew can you give me an example/story of you walking down one of those neighborhoods where you've met a nice women.

I keep seeing on these boards where ppl will pick up girls just walking lol..i wonder if it really goes down like that.

Or any NYC story in general

 

Meeting someone while strolling down the street does occur. Usually, both parties are walking to wards one another and eyes tend linger longer than expected. Bear in mind, physical attraction is far greater under those circumstances than, shall we say, waiting on line to buy a cup of tea. Under those conditions it is usually a back and forth (day to day) eye flirting charade, until one decides to break the ice. Moving back to the walking encounter, a simple smile with a the words “Hey,” “Good Morning” and, of course “Hi” at times, will stop the party in their tracks. A little light conversation (very important I might add) can lead to hanging out.

It is very neutral in the areas I mentioned and, many do tend to be friendlier from my experience. Providing you feel comfortable, are not anti-social and, don’t feel intimidated, it is not hard to meet a Woman that shares another complexion other than yourself. The more relax you appear the easier it is to meet people on a whole. I don’t focus solely on one girl just because she is white. I date all types of girls with various complexions. Providing I find her attractive (she could be purple with silver sparkles), I really don’t care what is the tone of her skin.


I fully understand once you said Brooklyn. I’ve heard from a few Brooklyn residents that would like something different tend to find it difficult meeting someone in Manhattan. Could it be self-conscious gets the best of then and their imagination just carries it to a degree far greater than they would imagine? I need not tell you how the personalities differ amongst the two boroughs. Possibly the whole technique of meeting girls varies greatly when comparing Brooklyn to Manhattan which in turn, affects how you present yourself to girls in the city?

Cheers!

 

haven't spent enough time in NYC.....

 

That happened to me in New York.

 

Yes sir Brooklyn is different than Manhattan, but not totally. Personalities, you could say that lol.

And the whole meeting ppl that way in bold is one of those perfect timing occurances. They dont happen on a regular basis.

Basically everything you have said is common knowledge...

 

I would imagine appearance would play a factor on the amount of times such encounters occur. As the old saying goes “Clothes make the man.”

Sometimes, one needs to reminisce on the girls they’ve dated in the past and, make a comparison on the style of clothing they chose to sport. From my experience, the margin is not very wide. There may be a certain “type” that girls prefer when exploring beyond their pigmentation in which, clothing among other things, helps them decide.

Understanding the logistics of using clothes as reference, it makes sense for we are all judged from our outer appearance firsthand, before saying a word edgewise.

How many times have you noticed an attractive girl but, was turned off based on the type of clothing she was wearing?

How many times have you witness a Woman in need of directions and chooses whom to trust based on the person’s outer appearance on a busy street? Surely, the bloke next to her could give her the same answer, however he does not fit her criteria.

Timing is essential however there are other things to take into consideration as well.




Cheers!

 

I get what you mean...

 

Hey mate the Women were in full bloom around 14th Street today. I hope you are exploring some of the areas I suggested.


Cheers!

 

I have been, but also been very busy. Any night spots you can recommend ie.. clubs, bars, etc

 

I am not an excessive drinker so Bars are not places I venture often. How old are you may I ask?

I don't want to recommend a club in which you cannot get in because you are under age.


Cheers!

 

Old enough....just let me know, i might have been there already.

 

Complex,New York WW are more tougher than the ones in London. Mostly they love either thugs or livin large atheletes.

 

Right!

So you do not want to disclose your age, fair enough. Why not start at Webster Hall? It offers a wide variety of people. The main floor offers classic 90’s – 70’s music, upstairs you are greeted with House in addition to Trance and, the basement is Hip Hop/R&B. They play Reggae as well although, if you Reggae is your cup of tea, you will grossly disappointed. Surely, you can meet a few women in this historic theatre. There may be a dress code pertaining to footwear so, it would be best to give them a call if you wear sneakers or Timberland boots.

http://www.websterhall.com/

It is known as the tourist club in the city, which many tend to put up their nose to. However, the crowd is very friendly (you can actually meet new friends waiting online) and, the club is safe. They have a very strict ID policy so make sure you bring your ID.

The last time I was there I meet a local girl that moved to New York from Yugoslavia. If you are a dancer, it will increase you chances tremendously. At least, from my experience although I rarely stayed in the Hip Hop room. The few times I gone in there the girls preferred more of the “thuggish type” so, if you fall in that category, you will have no problem meeting one.



Cheers!

 

I beg to differ my friend. Possibly the areas you've explored when visiting New York gave you that perception. If that were the case I would have great difficulty meeting girls in New York. For my demeanour and persona offers no characteristics of being a thug.

Cheers!