yes i'm being completely selfish, and besides, there are no women from new zealand screaming for black men that i see round here

 

Yeah?? Great, I'd been hoping to spend winter in a warm climate (our dna just isn't suited to the cold, ya know!!0, and if NZ is chock full of gorgeous WW who love chocolate...Mmmmmmmmmm!!!

Actually, I'd heard your Kiwi sisters are MORE IR inclined than you aussies.

 

I don't believe I was promoting men to go over to New Zealand in any of my posts Jaybee, actually the complete opposite!!!

And I do not know where you got your information about the kiwis being more IR inclined, but I would like to correct you on that. Where or who did you hear this from???

 

lmao

 

there are decent girls in bars also its just maybe not happen to find one yet

 

I once met a decent girl in one of the last places I would've expected. I still see her from time-to-time and she's always really nice and fun to hang with. Last time I saw her, I didn't even pay that much money. Who would've thought the gentleman's club would be such a great place for meeting decent girls??

 

you wouldn't believe it...i was with Destiny last night & she said she has feelings for you and they run deeper than you being her being her number 1 client...!!! It's a win win situation...!!!

 

You know her?! :shock:



This is good news!!

This gives me hope!! :mrgreen:

 

Tarshibear, maybe i am drunk but i can still see this beautiful avatar you got what about posting this in the phot thread

 

My bad memory Tarshi, it was actually that Kiwi girls are (supposedly) the most up for casual sex, read it online in Yahoo News or something, I don't have a link. Apologies.

I take it they are actually NOT particularly apt to IR, then?

 

lol...says legs eleven...!!! get your bott-bott down to Melbourne & come play with the girls

 

I would say in church or church related events if one is believer. If one is a secularist, i am not sure whre one would find a decent girl and by what yard stick one would measure a decent girl in the worldly sense.

 

Greco there's heaps of places to meet decent humans that don't include religion. Consider your interests. Are you into a certain sport or hobby such as hiking, surfing, diving, football, etc.? Join a club with like minded individuals.

Community leagues, volunteer somewhere, etc.. In school if you are attending, there's loads of clubs where one can meet people. The bars are fine, as you've read, but if your intention is to have intelligent convo and maybe take it further, perhaps a venue without alcohol would provide better results

I met my former husband on a football field (me-trainer, him-coach). Seriously the opportunities are endless to meet people. I would be more receptive to chatting with a man while doing something I love like a group mountain bike ride or dive event (e.g. underwater pumpkin carving contest a couple years ago - what a hoot and I met several great people).

 

Just because a person is church-going doesn't automatically make them a decent person. Nor does it mean a person who is not church-going is a bad person. You have to judge the person as an individual.

This is great advice. Meeting someone whilst doing something you love to do provides a relaxed venue to meet people. :smt023

 

Try the theatre I think it's romantic also

 

At the kebab shop when the club closes.

 

that's decent allright haha
do you want pickles on top ?? mustard or ketchup??

 

My advice for anyone is....

Don't look for serious girlfriends or boyfriends at the bar or at the club...

 

ur like 14 years old

what do u know about serious relationships