Between Realtionships Pattern

What do you do?

1. Exercise more

2. Scrapebook

3. Read

4. Spend more time with my friends

5. Listen to bad music

6. Watch bad TV

7. Shamelessly flirt

 

I usually avoid flirting too much as I want to avoid jumping into a relationship too fast. Although that never works and the relationship jumps in my lap so to speak lol.

 

I am

-writing a lot..
-working
-reading
-move to another place

-mostly friends keep me busy, myself, I wouldn't go out

and after a while I start living a normal life, till I'm used to and don't feel anything missing anymore..

 

Inbetween relationships, I usually watch romantic comedies and cry. LOL. Then when I'm done feeling sorry for myself, I'll just spend more time dong things I love, either alone, or with friends. But, I'll read, I'll go to movies, I'll go on nature walks, I'll go driving out in the country....I go into "appreciation" mode - I start to appreciate all of the little things and I appreciate the beauty of nature. :-D

 

I dont do anything different whether Im in a relationship or inbetween.. just the same stuff.

If you mean getting over a relationship - I usually withdraw for a bit, have a short pity party and then get busy doing stuff with my friends, work out even more (to get aggressions out, lol), go thought some self improvement if I feel I need to, which I usually do as I always learn something from each relationship or try to at least
.... and then I work even more than I already do
oh, and flirting works wonders for the self esteem for me, but at that point I like it to be the type that does not lead anywhere, not even a date.

Cyberhugs to you Bosox!!!!