What's going on with you?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by suprchic73, Jul 28, 2008.

  1. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Ur secretary stole my whine n bicth T-shirt and spit in the tissue, absued me and kicked me out on my ass.. that has no curves so it hurt.. can I sue???
     
  2. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    I just officially changed my relationship on my online profiles to SINGLE and am about to delete my ex's pics off too. It took me a while... but I can do it now ^_^
     
  3. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    good for you sweetheart...you're looking great & its the perfect time to shed your skin & start anew...!!! I wish you all the luck in the world...!!! :D
     
  4. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    Right...well i've been packing now for 4 days straight...!!! never seems to get easier no matter how long i've been doing this...!!! This will be the 17th move in 20 years...i seriously must have some gypsy in me somewhere down the line...!!! aiming for saturday, most of the house is packed...last room is the kitchen...the hardest room of the house...!!!
     
  5. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    Thank you :) I know I tried my best in the relationship. To me honesty,respect and conversation are the 3 main criteria points to even consider a man to maybe 1 day be my boyfriend.Lately there wasn't much of any of those 3. I really hate "giving up". I don't like how in today's society many people just exchange something old and not all as shiny as in past through something new without trying to fix things.Whether it's relationships or items.
    However if you try to fix it on and on again and it just won't work you gotta do what's best.
    ...That's what I did now. Still a little emotional but in my head I know I did myself a great favor and him,too.
     
  6. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    well somethings are not meant to be fixed BY...they are there to teach...we learn from our mistakes and move on...!!! from what i've heard from you, you are an intelligent, beautiful, emotional woman who deserves all that you desire and deserve and I wish you the best in your search of yourself & that perfect partner...he's out there somewhere!!! in the meantime, be the beautiful woman that you are & they will come flocking...!!!
     
  7. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member


    Thank you.For now I just want to surround myself with people who at least respect me,won't ignore me for days without any apparent reason and don't make me feel bad about myself.At least now I know some red flags I shold pay attention to:)
     
  8. z

    z Well-Known Member

    B86-keep your head up, hope you find an honest and dignified man that will treat you with respect.
     
  9. Absolutely. I believe you can't appreciate the true love of a good man until you have had one or two (or more!) guys like the above in your life. So now you are one step closer! Expect more and accept only the best, good luck BY:D
     
  10. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member


    Thank you :)
     
  11. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    He's the third I really cared for who hurt me.I think the latest after the 2nd I would have more than appreciated a good man... but well another bad experience and lesson learned
     
  12. Athena

    Athena New Member

    This is some of the best advice. Expect the best and ACCEPT only the BEST. We don't need to put up with stuff that hurts or incessantly irritates us. This is a lesson I learn powerfully with every relationship - accept only the best. If someone truly loves you they won't "make you feel bad", they will love and cherish you.

    If an issue arises, that partner (as well as yourself) will approach it in an adult and respectful manner not in a demeaning or abusive way. Expect your partner to treat you well and accept nothing less - provided you are treating them equally well :)

    As Dossou mentioned, what goes around comes around.

    BY86, you deserve the best - remember that!
     
  13. WhiteLondonChick

    WhiteLondonChick New Member

    I am back from South of France - the holiday was AMAZING! Loved Cannes! Spent too much money and now broke though... :( saving and staying at home instead of going out now! ;)

    There were so many cute bl guys there - I was surprised! they were everywhere! such a pity I dont speak French though (as their English is not that great).

    Met a nice local man - he called and emailed me already (the next day I got back!) and wants to come to London to see me! wow! I didnt expect that, but lets see how it goes!

    So calm and relaxed at work - its good - I need to have more holidays like this!!! :)
     
  14. WhiteLondonChick

    WhiteLondonChick New Member

    YES, expect more and accept only THE BEST - wise words!
     
  15. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    i am getting really tired of not being able to sleep
     
  16. christine dubois

    christine dubois Well-Known Member

    I deleted, but the offer still stands.. just let me know
     
  17. z

    z Well-Known Member

    Well, will you pick me up at 7pm then?
     
  18. christine dubois

    christine dubois Well-Known Member

    If the plane isnĀ“t delayed..
     
  19. robina

    robina New Member

    well im back finally
    madam was having day surgery on monday, it all went really well but i kept telling them after that her breathing wasnt right, that she was wheezing but they brushed my concerns aside and discharged her.

    if they had read her notes they would have understood the severity of her lung disease. she ended up back in with her left lung starting to collapse in places and a chest infection

    poor kid hates me as i was still doing the majority of her medical care and she really doesnt like being suctioned

    shes home now on oral antibiotics just in time for me to get ill, my temperature shot up to 39.4 celcius this morning
     
  20. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    My goodness Robina, you have had a rough time lately. I hope things get better soon. I am sending positive thoughts your way :)
     

Share This Page