Mens´wish of having Baby

I have a personal question... Whenever I come closer with a man, the topic ""Baby" comes up within a few days. For me this is a serious subject and I ask myself already longer, is it a special erotic kick for men to impregnate a woman? Or is it a heart's desire ? Would be grateful for answers...

 

Not so much erotic but rather pride.

Most men want to see their genes passed on and when a man reaches a certain level of accomplishment the next logical step is to have himself replicated in the form of a son or daughter to pass on what he knows.

 

So, you mean, it´s an honest wish with this woman or generally?

 

I think so,

 

It is pride that his genes is passed to another generation and pride for the women especially if he will be there for the baby in the long haul.

 

I wonder the same thing Christine - great question.

 

What makes me suspicious is the short time, a man knows you.. When I am in a long lasting relationship, of course no question for motive.

 

I agree Christine. I don't know within even a few months if I am willing to have children with a man. I need to know him longer before I can make that decision. Yes, I want children in my life (I'll likely adopt) but do I want to reproduce with that guy? Don't know yet.

 

Let´s see, what neutral men (to us) are willing to tell ...

 

That may depend on the age of the man. A man that is further along in life...maybe 35 years or older may begin to start thinking about his own mortality moreso than a man that is 21 years old. Young men are generally not as inclined to think about legacy as we are still trying to establish our own standing in the world. If the man is not willing to date you for some period of time and marry you...then he is not interested in YOU..which means he's more interested in the thought of a child...and perhaps not all that comes with a child. That may not be the case for every man but I don't think you want to conceive a child with a man that does not want to take the time to know you well...that's being careless and careless men often have a habit of poor decision making.

 

Thank you chosen one

 

No erotic here, I just want to be biologicaly significant.
My genes are way to cool to be wasted on tissue paper.

 

Share around that coolness GZ!!

 

sure thing, mama!

 

Come-on...now !......new generation women.....if he ask you about kids, .....you tell him he will have to prove him self as a good husband first ...after-all marriage comes before kids........but please understand.......following right after the sex drive in men...is the paternal drive...it is a never-ending search to find a suitable woman to mother our children.
From what I can see, here is my list of women who are great mothers or women who would make great mothers, on the forum:
1.) _i____
2) _n____
3.) _o_____
4.) _r_____
5.) _a___
6.) _t____
7.) _h____
8.) _e______
9.)_i________
10.)_o______
11.) _a___________ (ok great mom)
12.)_a___________
Please help Arch fill-in the blanks......the second letter for the name is shown

 

Yeah but are these guys talking about directly having kids with you within a few days or are they making small talk and casually mentioning they want children? If a guy is saying he wants children with you asap as in lets get in the bed tonight and make some babies and you've only known him for a few days than of course its wierd but if a black guy is just mentioning he wants kids why does it have to be an ulterior motive. Maybe he just wants kids.

For example -- I'd never be with a women that doesn't want kids, but on the flip side I don't want kids unless i'm already married and i'm sure shes the right one.

I think this is pretty much common sense.

 

She knows who she is.... save them eggs in the fridge

 

Aww man I'm a great mom if I do say so myself and I didn't make the list! lol

 

Don't worry, my mama is such a wonderful mother and she did not make the list either.

 

I'm sure you're a great mom, how do you know you didn't make the list?
He only put the second letter of the names.