What's going on with you?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by suprchic73, Jul 28, 2008.

  1. robina

    robina New Member

    i know i have no backbone, have always been placid and a push over but i cant deal with it anymore, its getting on my last nerve now
    i will be bookin the ticket and drivin him to the station to be damn sure he goes
     
  2. FEHG

    FEHG Well-Known Member

    I just got home from a 13 hour day. Didn't even stop for lunch. The last 4 hours of which were an overtime public meeting where we were pretty much just hounded by the community for at least 2 of it.

    Now I have 45 - yes, that's right 45 - pages of hand written notes to consolidate into minutes from the meeting. Yes. My life has taken a turn for the worst.

    Thank God I get overtime on this.
     
  3. Sir Nose

    Sir Nose New Member

    Sounds like he plans to summer at yo crib.
     
  4. Persephone

    Persephone New Member

    I had extended houseguests once. You know how I finally got rid of them, since they wouldn't take "Get the fuck out of my house or I'll kill you?" as a hint?

    I put all of their shit on the porch and locked the door. They finally figured it out after that.

    Make him find his own fucking ride. Lock the damn door and make sure you tell him "DO NOT COME BACK"
     
  5. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    Well I have had what can only be described as the worst day of my life

    Started out great and took a serious turn for hell town

    Dive great
    Flight to J great

    My friend complained of a headache so went and got him some tylenol

    And 20 minutes later he was dead

    I am sitting in my hotel room having a seriuosly strong drink with a few more to follow

    Have callled his family and they are flying here

    I am just sort of flippng out and trying to reach my family and I cant.

    What a shitty fucking day

    I dont know anyone else in J and I am at loss at what to do
     
  6. mama

    mama Well-Known Member

    That is terrible! I hope you are doing ok.
     
  7. mama

    mama Well-Known Member

    P.S you can IM me if you want to talk.
     
  8. robina

    robina New Member

    wow what a terrible shock
    hope your ok hun (((H)))
     
  9. robina

    robina New Member

    in the grand scheme of things this isnt so bad but just back from the hospital with madam and her legs are getting worse so she now needs to wear AFO'S were back tomorrow for the casts to be made

    i wanna cry, dont want her having those plastic contraptions on her legs
     
  10. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    Damn. RIP to your friend.
     
  11. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    I wish my GPA would "drop" to a 3.2.:( Good luck with your final grades, DH. :)
     
  12. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Wow. I am so sorry about your friend.

    Hugs to you. :smt056
     
  13. kuntrygirl30

    kuntrygirl30 New Member

    Wow, vanilla. Hugs and please email me if I can do anything! I'm so sorry for your loss.
     
  14. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    Thanks gals

    I just talked o a friend who friend who made made me laugh for a few minutes which was good.

    It is going to be a sleepless night full of angst.

    I was a police officer for a number of years and I have seen many deaths.....but it is something to see someone you love drop right in front of your eyes like that.

    We went diving to gether this mornng. WTF

    Just tell the people you love how much they mean to you, love them every second you can.

    Do what makes you happy and screw the rest.

    If he could have picked a better day I dont think he could have. Diving and drinks on the the beach

    Ronan 1971-2009 BFAM!!!!!!!!!!!!! :prayer:
     
  15. Sir Nose

    Sir Nose New Member

    I'm sorry
     
  16. KnCA

    KnCA New Member

    Vanilla - so sorry about your friend!
     
  17. fromrussiawithlove

    fromrussiawithlove New Member

    I'm so so sorry Vanilla.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your friends.
     
  18. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    I have no words... I'm sorry to read this.
     
  19. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member


    I'm so sorry for you and your friends family...what a shitty, shitty thing to happen. My thoughts and prayer to you all
     
  20. curleyblonde

    curleyblonde New Member

    Bless you through this time of need Vanilla.
     

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