The sweet girl next door

I found the following posted on another site.Obviously written by a man.Just trying to see what everyone thinks about it....

Why does the sweet girl-next-door always lose out to the drama queen?
Paired together, men always rush for the b**chy babe but not primarily driven by her looks and figure. The motivation runs much deeper … Men overlook the sweet girl for the conceited hot number who only needs the smallest encroachment to breathe fire on you because of two words: Control. Conquest.
Unconsciously, men need controlling women in their lives because it breeds confidence. Now this is one thing b**ches know that nice girls don’t. They know by being b**chy, there is always a man dying for Conquest so he can beat his chest in front of his mates … “ I (long pause) have nailed the hottie.” Childish? That’s just the way it is.
We men seek not the bird in hand … it’s the bird in the bush that motivates us … it’s the prolonged chase that fascinates us. A man will keep the sweet girl waiting with dinner at home, come home drank to find her worried and waiting up with the meal in the microwave. The b**ch on the other hand will cancel that preplanned dinner (last minute) and a dude will still drive across town at wee hours of the night when she beckons.
I think nice girls get relegated to the friend zone because the script is predictable. We always know where she is, what she wants and that she will always be willing to forgive us our transgressions. This doormat approach to courting don’t work these days. Its no wonder the dating scene is littered with broken hearts mostly belonging to the nice girls … hanging on to the consolation that the man does not know what he lost.
Men claim not to like drama … it’s exactly what we need. It’s what motivates most of us to become more ambitious and successful even in our careers – just to prove to the next queen bee that we can cater to her every whim … as long as she is willing to remain adorned in our arms and make our mates green with envy. (Sorry if I came off piggy. Just putting a point across. )
Does this mean all nice girls should work on becoming b**chy now? What happened to getting attracted to the loving, nurturing woman?

 

I think you can only talk about the things you like and dislike or the person you are or not. When anyone says "Men just" or "Women just" pushes their own life experiences or environment on others. So saying that, I can only talk about me. I want love in my life and love isn't a bitch for me. Love brings peace to my warring soul. Love calms my furious spirit. That is beautiful to me.

 

Aww that is so sweet.

 

That' a good point.

 

Thanks, MAMA

 

Well I am trying to be like you, Beautiful

 

You're welcome

 

*Feels flattered*

 

You can replace "nice girl" with "nice guy" and "bitch" with "bad boy" and it says the same thing....

I think it all boils down to maturity. When a person matures and maybe has some life experiences under their belt, they appreciate the goodness that people bring to the table.

(Spoken like a true "girl next door" who has had her heart broken on more than one occasion, just like the article says. LOL!)

 

That is very true.It indeed goes both ways and life is full of lessons.Eventually you get tired of chasing non-stop

 

I completely agree.

 

I think the guy who wrote that needs a clue: Your friends are not jealous of you when they see a bitch on your arms.

And, if she's really a bitch, she'll probably be trying to sleep with one of them the minute you go to the bathroom.

 

I wish I could meet a sweet girl next door..

 

There's plenty of 'em.

 

Welcome abroad

 

By that point she's all emotionally torn and tattered and the 'good' guy has to navigate an emotional maze that she herself will usually admit is so complicated that she doesn't even understand it. After he's reached the end of the maze he now has to get his sledgehammer and tear down that wall she's built to protect her heart after having it abused due to years of her own bad decision making in men.

 

I feel so sorry for you guys that only have two options - immature drama bit*es and emotionally tattered women - (because we KNOW that ALL women lands in either one of those categories, no exceptions).

And we know that men do not have any of these issues, ever. oh wait as all women eventually according to your post end up being emotionally tattered due to the fact that we all choose bad men - that must mean all men ar bad.

I think we all should be gay already:smt043

 

Uh oh...

 

:smt005

 

Yes, I went there...
lets see what develops....